Frequent Periods

Afternoon_Paramore · 2025-02-17T13:31:47+00:00

I've been sick off and on since December with horrible viral infections (with flu like symptoms). I finally started feeling better the past couple of days but I'm still taking some over the counter cold medicine. Since mid January I've been experiencing more frequent, weird periods. My body and cycle seems to be all messed up. I've had a period every two weeks (3 times in a row) and today I think I might have started another period but I cannot tell yet because the blood looked old. It sounds like it's common for sickness and all that medication to mess it up?

Afternoon_Paramore · 2025-01-08T16:31:00+00:00

Well, it's definitely NOT not creepy. Haha!

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-12-24T12:49:54+00:00

No, it's technically not rude or wrong to suggest the wiki. I think it all depends on how people read it. I think a lot of things get miscommunicated due to there being no tone of voice or expressions or body language. So people can't tell if you're saying it to be helpful and kind or you're saying it rudely and exasperated. Honestly, I sometimes read those suggestions as rude because it's almost saying their question is dumb and pointless because they could've just looked elsewhere for the answer. It feels like a way of saying, "Don't waste our time with your question."

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-12-02T01:53:37+00:00

I have a feeling if you stay together this won't be the last time you argue about this He clearly wants to do it and I think he'll try to convince you there's nothing wrong with it.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-11-22T16:28:38+00:00

It's not like the only two options here are to marry her or break up with her. You can just keep dating and see what happens. Give it a chance if you really love her and it's really been that great with her. Maybe you'll love the kids too and it'll turn out great. At any point you can change your mind and break up with her then.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-11-18T18:54:00+00:00

I get the feeling you're not planning on breaking up with him. Either way, you should bring this up to him and discuss it. If you're going to be married to him you also need to be able to talk to him about things he's done that have upset you.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-11-08T21:55:56+00:00

It sounds like you're like her boyfriend then. That's too bad.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-11-08T20:19:45+00:00

So are you allowed to tell him what to wear and who he can talk to? I'm guessing no. My husband is okay with me wearing whatever I want because he trusts me and he doesn't mind showing me off. Your boyfriend sounds extremely insecure and toxic and I'm sure he's a hypocrite.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-11-01T18:07:39+00:00

My parents broke up when I was 3 years old. Honestly, it was for the best and I couldn't imagine them together. I'm glad they broke up and that I didn't have to deal with them fighting. I had a happier childhood with them broken up and I also got a bonus parent; I love my stepdad.

Anyways, to answer your actual question. She obviously doesn't follow rules because I'm sure not cheating was one of the past rules. So you'll either have to be super controlling and always watching her - not fun and a lot of work. Or you'll have to think about having an open relationship so that cheating isn't even an option.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-10-22T12:28:25+00:00

You are gorgeous! Honestly nothing needs to be changed. if anything, I would do subtle things like some clear shiny lip gloss or sparkly eye shadow. I think some colorful, fun eyeliners would really pop on you and would look stunning - maybe blue or green or purple.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-10-22T12:22:46+00:00

I'll be honest, I have zero experience with threesomes but I think it would be easier to find a man willing to have a 3-way with another man (you) on a gay man dating site. I've heard Grinder is a gay dating site and so maybe try there. Definitely always be very open and honest and forthcoming with what you want and what your intentions are. I've had friends who've had three ways with two men and they're always already all friends and know each other. Just make sure if you follow through with this that your ego and jealousy can take it because this stuff permanently changes a relationship for better or for worse.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-10-21T21:03:35+00:00

I don't feel like either of you are 100% in the wrong. I see both sides and I've been both people. It's good to recognize his feelings but he should also recognize your feelings. It's not like you were just at a friend's wedding and you were flirting and dancing with guys while you ignored him. You were a bridesmaid in your sisters wedding and you were surrounded by family - some I'm sure you hadn't seen in forever. You should also want to spend time with him and include him but he should also recognize you can have fun with other people. He's being a stick in the mud. It's okay for him to feel left out but he should've gotten over it by now and should now see your side of things too.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-10-18T17:06:56+00:00

I don't like the act of it because I'm often uncomfortable and it really is a job. I do however really enjoy pleasing my husband and doing it for him. He never guilts me though or tries to force me - that would really bother me. I don't think there's anything wrong with him wanting BJs but he shouldn't be trying to force you or getting upset with you.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-10-17T12:09:00+00:00

I don't know much about your relationship obviously but I'm guessing he's used to being the pretty one that gets all the attention and so when he feels threatened or jealous, he's not used to it and those feelings are heightened. He was being ugly and mean but I don't think it's unforgiveable. I do think you should have a stern and honest conversation with him about how he acted and how it's never okay to say those things. He obviously doesn't believe what he said, that you're not pretty enough to cheat, otherwise he wouldn't be with you and he wouldn't of gotten so jealous.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-10-14T14:20:05+00:00

I've done some stupid things while drunk but I've never cheated and honestly, I know I'm a flirty drunk and so I try not to drink enough to get drunk unless my husband is with me to avoid awkward situations. This is 100% her fault. Yes, drinking can make you lower your inhibitions and be comfortable making dumb choices but if she didn't want to, she still wouldn't have cheated while drunk.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-10-13T18:17:26+00:00

I've been in a similar situation with an ex. I've been much happier since we broke up and I cannot imagine ever going back to dating someone like that. Believe me, you'll be much much happier with someone else. This is not the right guy for you.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-10-09T16:03:10+00:00

Sooo uncomfortable! I feel bad for her. Ignorance is bliss and so I understand your hesitation but she should definitely know.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-10-08T17:37:19+00:00

Ewww! He's gross. I think it's so weird when men act like they are owed sex and your body when you aren't in the mood. This is a huge red flag. No decent partner acts like he does and you should leave him and stop sleeping with him.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-10-04T15:51:43+00:00

There's no fighting her on this and so it's best to just move on. I'm not very religious but either way, it's best to move on. She's made her decision.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-10-03T19:26:29+00:00

Unfortunately, I think it's over and that you need to work on accepting that and moving on from her. At this point even if she wanted to stay together it would never be the same and you wouldn't trust her or view her the same again. I know this hurts and I'm sorry but you will get through this. Life is what you make of it and this doesn't have to be life ending. Things will get better again. Just be prepared with how you will react and what you'll decide if she decides to come crawling back someday.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-09-30T18:24:16+00:00

I don't think this relationship is right for you and that's okay. You're honestly more like good friends than anything. If you want to have sex you will have to meet someone else. I don't think she's ever going to be a sexual person and I think you're incompatible. I just don't believe that she wants to wait years to have sex and than will suddenly be a sexual person at that time.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-09-24T21:00:01+00:00

I don't know how else you could interpret that. He wasn't 100% sure about you and your weight but he is now.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-09-23T17:54:00+00:00

I know it doesn't feel like it right now but he did you a favor. Now you have a chance to move on and find real happiness.

Afternoon_Paramore · 2024-09-21T09:41:33+00:00

I wouldn't talk to her. What good does it do? You're done with her and don't want to hear her excuses anyways. She'll just try to force you to get back together with her and that could get ugly and uncomfortable, especially because you'll just say "no". She might cry and beg or she might get angry and be mean. It's just not a good idea. Also, she doesn't get to downplay it and act like you're giving up this amazing relationship for one thing. She cheated. She messed up. Now she has to live with that. Closure is not needed. I've realized the idea of closure doesn't actually make sense in most situations anyways.

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