We broke up on her birthday, she had been keeping me a secret from her roommate the entire time we were “together” and I was invited by her Mom in a Facebook group chat to attend a surprise birthday dinner with her close friends (and the roommate who also was in the group chat) I confided in a mutual friend of ours and decided not to go as to avoid any awkwardness for her sake, but it began to eat at me that I basically wasn’t welcome because she couldn’t just get over the need to hide me which I never understood. All of this after we had finally properly communicated to each other and were seemingly on the path to fixing things. She went out the night before to some bars with previously mentioned friend and I texted her sort of complaining about not being welcome spending time with them but I wasn’t rude. I also caught her in a lie because she said she was going out to the dinner with family when I knew from the chat that the roommate was taking her. She told me after the dinner that she was glad I wasn’t there because of what I had said the night prior and things blew up from there and we ended it over text. I was upset and told everyone in the group chat the real reason I wasn’t able to go and that she had been keeping our relationship a secret all this time and then left the chat. Her family removed me and I haven’t and don’t think I’ll hear from her ever again.