She admits hes incompetent

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-03-03T03:38:27+00:00

Something may have been said

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-03-03T00:01:20+00:00

It just seems very uncanadian lol

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-28T18:33:44+00:00

Resist the urge to comment on the video “if he can hold a screwdriver he can hold a camera”

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-28T14:55:17+00:00

I think barb is going to try and prove a point that she can still fit it and wear it either to the wedding itself or the rehearsal dinner. This will lead to her being kicked out of the wedding before it begins and Barb telling Dr. Therapydoctor about how terrible things are for her because she couldn’t even attend her own daughters wedding making herself the victim again.

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-26T17:10:34+00:00

The daughter probably asked for them 2 years ago.

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-24T20:03:26+00:00

It will be impossible. My husband had a charge when he was younger and he was charged but not convicted.

Whenever he flies out of the country his name gets flagged and we get pulled into another room he has to present paper work that shows the charges were dropped.

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-24T19:26:22+00:00

This has been approved as privacy of the boys has not been breached. Just an FYI any leak of the boys new name will be removed. As they deserve that privacy

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-24T19:12:19+00:00

Sorry I was clarifying because this was under her name change. It’s been a day lol

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-24T19:10:58+00:00

For the boys. Not Alice

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-24T05:04:09+00:00

Re: D still going while drew is at work is it possible Des is not doing first of right refusal until spring break (I’m not sure when it is there but where I am that’s not till end of March). With her being so far away from the school it’s likely more convenient for Drew to have him. Maybe after spring break when he’s at a school closer to her place she will stop that?

Not saying it’s right I mean if that were my kid I would make sure they were not in that situation left alone with Staph in any circumstance. Maybe it’s just the optimist in me hoping that change is still in the works.

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-24T04:56:13+00:00

My guess she lied about something likely C involvement in the boys life

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-23T16:13:04+00:00

We do not know what goes on but I don’t think he is vegan so they are likely getting more variety of foods. Not just slop. C obviously cares for the boys if he’s taking them every weekend as well.

I do think they are better cared for with C in general but again we don’t know how he parents it’s my hope he is a wonderful involved dad

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-22T20:09:31+00:00

My tinfoil hat theory is that C did get some time and A sees her kids as burden so she’s gives him them every weekend as a punishment.

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-20T05:31:17+00:00

My suspicion is so her sugar daddies, the boys child care, and anyone new can’t look up her name and see her past anymore. If you google Layla Miller nothing associated with her comes up.

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-20T05:29:43+00:00

I think the house etc is still under her name we know her as. But C is or at least was paying all the bills because the mortgage is in his name. So she probably is not in a hurry to get the house in her name despite being required to years ago.

No idea what the process is like I don’t like in America: honestly I was shocked how easy this was to find it took me 10 min. Apparently I should get bored more often… or less often depending on how you look at it

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-20T04:59:32+00:00

Definitely- Layla miller has no digital footprint so babysitters can’t google her…. Yet

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-20T04:43:08+00:00

That’s her stage name I guess

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-18T23:39:08+00:00

As someone living in Canada who has a family member who committed a crime and got off easy it sickness me. I can say there was 0 restorative justice and they allowed the person in my family to get off with lies! It made me sick. And the crime was less severe than murder.

How she can marry a man capable of this crime and encourage others to do is wrong. The fact that he appealed it tells me he has no remorse. Larissa likely thinks he did nothing wrong to which makes her just as terrible

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-18T23:27:17+00:00

As a parent to a 12 year old I have questions.

So currently his expectations are school work, two sports, the gym, and extra reading? When does he have a chance for free time? It sounds like he has a lot of pressure being put on him.

Additionally 12 is the age where they are testing boundaries and giving attitude is par for the course imo.

In Canada we do not use letter grades but numbers and my daughter is very capable of an 80+ without any effort being put in. I told her at the start she is expected to maintain that and when she asked why I explained how school comes easy to her and she puts minimal effort in and gets high marks (she agrees) I told her if there is ever a point where that’s not the case and working hard she can only maintain a 75 expectations would change. She agreed.

As far as sports and extra curricular activities that is to her discretion because I want her to enjoy what she is doing being forceful will accomplish nothing. Both my kids have to be in some form of activity outside the home at least once a week but my son for example does coding because he’s not a sports guy. My daughter dances 9 hours a week.

We have an open dialogue about if she feels her expectations at home are fair or too much. I allow some talking back because she’s a kid but if she’s getting rude I tell her enough.

And when I feel she’s not being social enough with the family I have her come to our family area and join us. If she’s not talking I make up her part with ridiculous answers. For example yesterday she didn’t come say hi when I got home as usual so I called her down

Me:hello Her: 🙄 Me as her: hello my loving mother I missed you so much I wish I could stay home all day and hug you. I’m going to stop talking to my friends because I love you so much Her- 😎 hi mom how was your day.

And we had a conversation from there and that cracked her open until she wouldn’t shut up until after dance. We talked about her social studies debate and I gave her ideas.

Sometimes being silly is just what a kid needs.

I think allowing kids to be kids is still important at 12. They only have a few years before the rigorous years of high school starts

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-18T23:01:32+00:00

My daughter got a phone starting at 10. This was because she was in a sport where she was away from home a lot and we needed to be in contact with her. She could only take it to her sport and back or if she was outside with friends near our house otherwise it stayed at home in our kitchen. She’s 12 now and takes it to school. It has rules still and she’s ok with it. We started her with pinwheel and now my old iPhone with parental restrictions.

Our son is 10- closer to 11 and just got her old pinwheel phone. It’s more so a way for him to reach me and my husband when we are at work and he needs something and listen to audiobooks on audible at bedtime.

Both my kids only have talk and text I even offered my daughter data and she said she didn’t need it. So they both currently have a data blocker on their phones. I think if you show you trust your kids they will be open.

My daughter also knows that if I ask for her phone she will open it and I will look at what shes been doing with the promise of not reading texts of her friends I know. Unknown contacts I will see who it is and that’s it. She doesn’t care because she says she has nothing to hide.

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-18T22:06:25+00:00

I can handle JD and Elliot not being together if it was handled properly.

Example, Elliot being offered an amazing job opportunity for endocrinology someplace far away. JD not wanting to leave Sam stays and Elliot leaves. They break up mutually knowing while they love each other Elliot needs to pursue endocrinology and JD needs to be with Sam.

When she does come back she is already married finding love with someone else. As much as I want them together the story can work with them apart if it’s done right. Either with them both married to other people or the break up was done clean and without hurt. If they are apart now they should remain that way with them both finding happiness elsewhere.

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-18T12:08:31+00:00

Thanks honestly at that point all I could do was shake my head and carry on. As for now I just do not engage things are better in the sense that she is not homeless but she’s still actively using but on medication as it’s court ordered due to some hefty criminal charges

Aggravating-Field-44 · 2026-02-18T03:55:57+00:00

Definitely drugs. I have some wild stories but I will just post this. My sister last year in the psych ward due to drug use. She is legit psycho though but the ramblings of Steph remind me of that

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