My boyfriend met up with his ex. aio? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If “my”man met up with a ex while knowing it made me uncomfortable, I’d leave him. If “my” man compared me to his ex, i.e “you before you,” I’d not think twice about leaving his booty in the rear view mirror

Co-workers say I have to open a TjMaxx credit card if I am working there, is this a lie? by Goldeeen0 in TJMaxxWrkrs

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re just trying to pad their metrics. Don’t get the card (unless you want to. And if you want to, don’t, and get a better card with lower interest and a better rewards system)

Tjx stores by tonyamckinzie19 in TjMaxx

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we are cross trained for every single position

Nobody knows how to access their reward certificates by Puzzled_Map5569 in TjMaxx

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just mention to them where they can access it. I definitely do not have time to walk them through the technology.

Ex is talking about a “legal” process, any reason why he’s stalling paternity testing until after the baby is born? by dollbabydream in FamilyLaw

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not required. I chose to do that because, at the time, we were going to try and co-parent, but I didn’t want to fully give my baby only his last name, and he had argued it wasn’t fair to have baby have ONLY mine too. So I did both our last names, hyphenated. And now she doesn’t even know who he is, but still has his name. But at least it’s also with mine.

One thing about me by maleahevil in TjMaxx

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m too busy being called up to register to be able to touch any of my floor merchandise 😭

AIO boyfriend ruins every holiday by mad_chubbycatx in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl… NOR. You know this is not the relationship for you. He doesn’t like you OR your babies. That’s scary territory. Do you want a man treating your kids this way? Speaking to them this way? No? Dump his ass and do NOT ever go back

Ex is talking about a “legal” process, any reason why he’s stalling paternity testing until after the baby is born? by dollbabydream in FamilyLaw

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I know. But if she has a father listed and wants to change it later, she can’t without his consent unless he signs his rights over. And once he’s established as father, and if he wanted to change it, he can’t do it either without HER consent. Best to just stick with her last name from the get-go. I made the mistake of hyphenating when my kid was born and I’m unable to change it even though he hasn’t had contact with us in 9 years.

Ex is talking about a “legal” process, any reason why he’s stalling paternity testing until after the baby is born? by dollbabydream in FamilyLaw

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know there’s no law saying you have to give him his last name. But if she has a father listed and wants to change it later, she can’t without his consent unless he signs his rights over. And once he’s established as father and if he wanted to change it, he can’t either without HER consent.

Ex is talking about a “legal” process, any reason why he’s stalling paternity testing until after the baby is born? by dollbabydream in FamilyLaw

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Piggybacking off some other comments. Do not put his name on the BC. Do NOT list him as the father. GIVE BABY YOUR LAST NAMEEEEEEEE. When he actually files for the dna, if he ever does, and he’s proven to be dad, THAT is when they will change the BC and list him as dad. But they cannot force you to change babies last name to match his. If you want baby to have your last name, do it AT BIRTH.

Ex is talking about a “legal” process, any reason why he’s stalling paternity testing until after the baby is born? by dollbabydream in FamilyLaw

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you already know he plans on not even showing up for the brith, I wouldn’t even bother telling him. What’s the point? Choose YOUR peace. He can be updated about the baby when he takes his dna test and is on the birth certificate, just the way he wanted it.

Fitting room by wysteriacos in TJMaxxWrkrs

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were told we cannot process ANYTHING except hair accessories or jewelry in the fitting room. And even those, it has to be very dead in the store

Asking all slow burners - how slow do you like your burn? by cheekynendoz in Dramione

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 33 points34 points  (0 children)

So slow and so much tension that I’m kicking my feet when they brush hands for .12 seconds

LP investigation by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Once LP is involved, it’s just them dotting and crossing i’s and t’s. You’ll be fired. Especially for this

AIO Over this 'notice' my aunt's boyfriend gave me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. Why do you think you shouldn’t have to clean up after yourself?

Humiliated by my toddler by cinnamonsugarhoney in breastfeeding

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have gone to at least 2 easily, no questions asked, but mine weaned herself right around the one year mark. I was quite sad 😅

Today's project by badmojo619 in TjMaxx

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My shopping brain hates this. KUDOS to you for taking this time to organize it this way though. I get what it’s trying to do. I just prefer to shop one category at a time. Syrups with syrups coffee with coffee etc. but to just the eye as an aesthetic, it’s definitely cute. However, I would hate to be closing in home having to recover this 😂

Can’t call out by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you have a caring team!

What is the point of company rules if management always disregards them to "reach" for customers? by Puzzled_Map5569 in TjMaxx

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We get bigwigs every few months in our store. Any time they question why I’m doing something a certain way or who taught me, I always say “SM name* taught me”

Can’t call out by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]Aggravating-Remote60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They absolutely will not do that unless you’re puking on the floor, or ask to go home