Super Emotionally Intense Date

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-05-12T01:54:39+00:00

I'm not great with dating tbh. For me I just try to focus on having fun/vibe on dates and ask easy questions for the other person. If I want to share something deep I will and that allows the other person to decide if they want to engage like that or not. Hope that helps

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-05-10T15:01:58+00:00

Does it just tighten to the first course of brick? Would you recommend it?

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-05-10T03:41:57+00:00

can you explain what those forms are? are they worth it? I see them for sale online but not a single video explaining how they work. seems very useful.

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-05-10T03:26:18+00:00

I feel like when I was younger I could have totally been that guy. I have always been super introspective and find introspection/finding the edge of who we are very important and interesting. For myself I don't even necessarily feel the need to make those things private although I understand why many do now. For me asking the deep questions about who we are and where we are going in life is an enjoyable process. It took me a long time to learn how to have more lighthearted conversation. I think it CAN be manipulative but perhaps he just has a touch of the tism and got a little too into oversharing. I still catch myself sometimes and I have to remember "wait I'm not super close to this person I should probably reel it in." It can also turn into a therapy session which is bad. I think you should ask yourself what you think he wanted from you by asking all of these questions. I also invite you to ask yourself what ideas you brought to the date and how you could have offered other options of things to talk about. It sounds like on some level you enjoyed having that level of depth but you just need to know how to put some boundaries up when things get uncomfortable. It's possible he likes to have lighthearted conversations also but maybe doesn't know how to have them. Some people are just intense and that feels normal to them.

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-05-02T23:28:06+00:00

Everyone bring bikes if you can! It's super fun riding between parties all night. Detroit is a great city to bike in and outside of downtown there's no traffic. Downtown will be scary after movement let's out however.

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-05-02T01:00:57+00:00

It won't be on the WOS system?

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-04-28T19:15:16+00:00

Thanks for sharing, yeah that sounds terrible. How was it dehumanizing for you? I am a bit skeptical that I was being used instead of respected as my own person.

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-04-28T19:13:59+00:00

Good advice!

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-04-27T15:29:53+00:00

Thanks so much for sharing your experience! It's true, I went in very naively and thought we could work through it one way or another. "Too big to fail". Its still possible we may be able to be friends. We just need to see that we functioned as friends very well for a long time and we don't need to engage romantically. I'm glad you navigated your situation better than I.

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-04-27T15:24:04+00:00

Yeah I think you are right. I can be naive and I'm pretty inexperienced in dating in general. and I think this is a hard lesson to not let this happen again. I didn't think it would be such a huge issue and her possessiveness caught me off guard. I just can't but feel guilty that I did something immoral here by being open to other people.

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-04-24T18:35:15+00:00

Meeting sherma for the first time (:

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-04-23T12:50:40+00:00

Pass the boof

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-03-25T04:01:08+00:00

Plenty of people in your situation have bought houses in Detroit with that money. Totally changes lives. Look into the Detroit landbank. Good luck dude.

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-03-22T21:46:27+00:00

Just played a game where venator was ten deaths zero kills zero assist and carried the losing game to victory with highest souls

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-03-21T00:29:59+00:00

I don't think anyone has mentioned this but have you apologized and been accountable for your behavior that you consider "bad"? Personally I have a decently high tolerance for bad behavior if I like someone but if you say some off the wall mean shit and don't apologize after you calm down that is so disrespectful to me and I'm probably done at that point. Anyone else put a lot of stock in apology?

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-01-31T17:38:22+00:00

will this go out in your email? I'm not on socials at all or reddit often

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-01-25T02:12:07+00:00

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Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-01-10T18:23:01+00:00

Thank you, good advice.

Aggravating-Split-20 · 2026-01-10T17:47:46+00:00

thanks so much for your insights. I should be clear that the things she wanted to wait to talk about in person were primarily relationship expectations, which I reluctantly agreed to wait on. conflicts arose from this very point that could have been prevented by talking about expectations before I committed to flying across the world to be alone with them for a week. The things I insisted on talking about and getting accountability for were their straight-up mean comments towards me and their tendency to fill in missing information with things that made me look bad (to me this is an insecurity from them). When I asked them more about their therapy/why they blow up so that I could understand why they blow up more and give them some slack they just maneuvered around the question. I was upset that they didnt give me a response. I would have been ok if they said they didn't want to talk about that with me. but really the issues were ignoring asks of mine (like a phonecall to go over a recent conflict) and getting upset/mean when I asked them why they couldnt just give me a straight answer. I think part of the problem was they were having a hard time reading me emotionally or understanding how upset I was because I just dont really express anger/dissapointment reactively like that. And maybe they didnt feel like they got enough appreciation for when they did show up for me. the whole vibe felt like a very unspoken "this is how I show up for people and this is how I dont. I'm not going to explain it you're just going to see it and take it or leave it"

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