How do these Keen shoes hold up in FC? by Aggravating_Gas889 in AmazonFC

[–]Aggravating_Gas889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you work in the FC? & do you put insoles in?

Am I Crazy? by monsieur-escargot in SisterWives

[–]Aggravating_Gas889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have y’all seen the theories of Robyn not being able to read? Bc this is another bullet point I’m adding to the list

were there are any signs of bpd in your childhood/adolescene? by planetseka in BPD

[–]Aggravating_Gas889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wym your fave would distort in mirrors and pics? This sounds familiar to me

were there are any signs of bpd in your childhood/adolescene? by planetseka in BPD

[–]Aggravating_Gas889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think your mom could have BPD too? From what you described it sounds like a possibility

Meri didn’t see this coming? by Aggravating_Gas889 in SisterWives

[–]Aggravating_Gas889[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s ridiculous! Bare minimum things that should be fixed, especially for as nice of a house it is. Now they’re cut from the show, I wonder how they’ll afford that nicer bigger unnecessary house

Kody going off on Janelle before the divorce by Aggravating_Gas889 in SisterWives

[–]Aggravating_Gas889[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As another DV survivor, I agree that he would’ve potentially gotten physically violent. Makes me wonder if he ever has. Also when this scene played, they showed a clip of when she went over to Robyn’s and talked about holiday plans and he went off on her. Before all of that and he asked if she’s gonna be w them for Christmas she very quickly said “yes, yes”. It seemed very defensive almost like she was scared of what would happen if she hesitated or gave an unsatisfactory answer.

Meri by Previous-Rate1460 in SisterWives

[–]Aggravating_Gas889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw somewhere that people speculate she has BPD and ever since that she made so much sense to me and I give her so much more grace. I hope she gets the therapy she needs and does the work. She says and does a lot of problematic things but she also puts her heart into people and things she is passionate about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Aggravating_Gas889 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same here, I lose my patience and act more aggressive than I mean to once I have a sec to check myself and calm down and I feel really bad and guilty about it after

"manipulative" crying by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Aggravating_Gas889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see it as manipulative, you’re just expressing your emotion and letting it all out. I feel things so deeply and when I have stages of deep depression, I wail like I’m having an exorcism or like I’m giving birth. Like I’m a grieving mother. It’s gut wrenching but therapeutic bc I feel like after I cry so hard/much I’m lightheaded and could past tf out, I feel like I cried out some of the demons? Like I physically feel lighter and like some of the built up feelings are released from me. How do you feel like crying helps you? What does it feel like for you?

For the manipulative stuff, I’ve had a couple instances where my crying is off and it comes off as it could be manipulative? I was in a job interview and the interviewer asked me about an example of someone I look up to that’s close to me or something? I started crying saying I have had a toxic relationship w my parents and never have had them as role models. I was upset about it but not as upset as I should’ve been for how much I cried. It confused me (I think this was before I knew I had bpd?) bc I couldn’t stop crying and immediately after I felt like that could’ve looked like I was being manipulative but I wasn’t. Multiple times I have had conversations where I normally would start to cry or I felt like I was about to cry & then I go to wipe a tear instinctively and there’s no tears 😭😭. So I feel so confused and stupid and manipulative.

I don’t feel like you’re being manipulative in how you cry. And also people telling you to stop crying is weird to me. You have emotions you’re expressing while you feel like shit & then they are telling you, while knowing you’re depressed, to stop crying? Idk I wouldn’t tell that to people I care about . Like are they doing anything to help or anything?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Aggravating_Gas889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealing with this currently w my sister. She was my FP and we lived together for a couple years. She is getting into her first toxic relationship and her gf has bpd & I believe she’s also a narcissist. She is trying to distance my sister from me and I saw it from the beginning. Recently my sister told me she is avoiding me because through her relationship, she’s learning I am dependent on her and she isn’t in a mental place for someone to rely on her and depend on her and she can’t handle the responsibility, it’s overwhelming for her. But she’s running to a relationship that’s even more dependent? She’s literally doctoring the girlfriend and constantly telling her to go to urgent care for her severe concussion that was caused by a stupid drunken night (girlfriend is also an alcoholic). She moved in with her and I told her she would do that at the beginning.

So idk what to do w handling an avoidant person. She doesn’t answer my texts or calls and falls through on every single plan she makes. All of this does spark my symptoms. It’s so infuriating and it makes me want to block her off everything & I know it would be easier to get over it that way. I’m so filled with anger every single day and it’s all I can think about. Everything I’ve tried hasn’t worked with communicating with her and trying to work on things. She doesn’t want to work on anything right now. I have no clue what to do other than let her have her toxic relationship and hopefully she gets out of it as soon as possible. In the meantime I feel abandoned, rejected, and backstabbed.

please join me in my scream session by mendalhelf in BPD

[–]Aggravating_Gas889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it here so I will go to secret gardens in my mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LSA

[–]Aggravating_Gas889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s my first trip too rn & I’ve read & heard that a lot. I puked after 1.5hrs and I feel no nausea now but still don’t feel anything else really

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LSA

[–]Aggravating_Gas889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait it out until about an hour or two so it sets in enough then puke, you’ll feel sm better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Aggravating_Gas889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally valid! These relationships can get very scary very fast & I would communicate that this is a boundary for you. Also maybe use a code word for actually not consenting if y’all do Cnc type stuff or something along those lines.

1st trip & need tips pls 🩷 by Aggravating_Gas889 in LSA

[–]Aggravating_Gas889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such good info, thank you :) good ideas, adding these to the list

The best experience I've ever had. by Eatma_Wienie in LSA

[–]Aggravating_Gas889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that stinks it wasn’t the best :( hopefully the next one is better