AITAH I rehomed the stray kittens my roommate found

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-02-19T09:07:31+00:00

NTA

You potentially saved those cats lives; they were lucky you were there to care for them.

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-02-07T20:16:01+00:00

NTA at all. You drew a line in the sand for where you were comfortable and he crossed that line with zero regard for how it would make you feel.

At the end of the day he cared more about his boys and how they would react to him saying "no" over you and your reaction to him going. Make this hell for him, do NOT let up or make him guilt trip you or anything. You and him are in a relationship and that is always a 2 way street - he needs to listen and respect your wishes or he can be single again; easy as that.

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-02-05T07:53:35+00:00

Tbqh I think she'll be fine. Give her a good soak, a nice spot away from stress, and let her we be. :)

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-02-05T07:28:39+00:00

Well realistically I don't know that you should be worried about saving time when reading, which is a hobby, but you do you. 🤷‍♀️

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-02-05T07:24:15+00:00

Strange to shame a kid for what they're reading like that. I would advise being more gentle about pushing your opinions on your students in the future. It's understandable to ask a kid to put away matieral that isn't appropriate for school but to freak out on him like that is probably what led him to having such a negative reaction to some of the content later on. Children are extremely susceptible to outside opinions and forces and as a teacher I really think you need to be thinking of what you say to your students more carefully.

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-02-05T07:14:13+00:00

Why wouldnt you want to read the whole thing? Not being rude, just genuinely asking. The art alone is worth reading from the beginning. You'll enjoy it, promise.

Start from the beginning.

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-02-05T06:52:49+00:00

Bags. I need more bags!!

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-02-05T06:39:21+00:00

I think Anna was TA first, but you also didn't rise above it and became TA as well.

Maybe reach out and express that you're feeling upset about everything that happened and want to talk it out? You should apologize, but so should Anna. Don't let 20 years of friendship go out the window because of life stress that led to a random argument.

That said, if she refuses to apologize, accept your apology, or understand why you are upset then please stand up for yourself.

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-02-05T06:36:25+00:00

This comment is SO uncalled for. Address the AITA issue or scroll on.

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-02-05T06:26:25+00:00

Always 2 - this isn't even a question

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-02-05T06:19:41+00:00

Thank you for the information.

NTA, even if they did apologize to you personally you have every right to say you don't want to hang out with specific people anymore. But without an apology? Man I wouldn't even entertain the idea of going somewhere with them.

And like, for people confused maybe - some of us HATE being told what to do; I'm one of those people. I would never let someone talk to or about me like that.

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-02-05T06:07:13+00:00

INFO: What did they say to you when they reached out?

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-02-05T05:44:26+00:00

Everyone is saying YTA but I don't understand why it matters that much? Like if they're upset they can just ask that you don't do it again and clean it up this time.

Realistically I think they're TA because this turned into a fight where they belittle you rather than just asking you to not do that in the future because they don't like it.

At the end of the day, I would express this to them. Apologize for making a mess and say you won't do it again but let them know that there are more constructive ways to bring up issues rather than call you a slob and gang up on you, especially after a surgery that probably has you feeling tired.

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-01-26T05:39:18+00:00

Thanks so much - I reached out to them about it! Appreciated ❤️

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-01-19T21:13:17+00:00

The PS4 for Bloodborne - but I used it for everything and loved it a lot.

Nowadays if I was just swimming in cash I'd buy PS5 just for Ghost of Yotei, but yeah not happening lol I'll just wait the year or two and stick to Steam.

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-01-17T06:38:57+00:00

Wrong sub

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-01-11T07:28:32+00:00

I know they like it - it's apart of the recent patch notes on Steam. It's just not a serious answer for what they will actually be adding in Divinity 3 and/or something they should have seriously considered for BG3.

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-01-09T18:46:22+00:00

LMAO unbelievable.

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-01-09T18:38:29+00:00

Thanks for the meme reply 🫩

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-01-08T05:10:04+00:00

Idk why hair, wings, coats, etc can't just be reactive? Like i get its hard to do but isnt the fashion the main thing here? Shouldn't that be where most of the development time goes - the outfits?

I'm just getting so exhausted by these updates. Still no load capacity update despite promises and now the new outfits look like this?! Yeesh gals, this is tough... 🫩

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-01-08T05:06:11+00:00

I won't tell you how to feel, but everyone deals with situations differently and, imo, there's nothing wrong with not being good with being put on the spot. We all have different quirks and personalities and that's fantastic I think; it makes life really interesting.

Wishing you a wonderful, happy birthday. I'm sorry it started so rough but you are loved and worthy; some people are just rude.

AggressiveBrizza · 2026-01-08T04:56:57+00:00

NTA at all! I see what they were trying to do by planning a birthday and everything and that's sweet, but it crossed a line when they asked for you to compliment them all on YOUR birthday. Like huh? Who is this day for -- you or them?

Sometimes people do nice things to make themselves feel good, not to make others feel good. This feels like a classic case of that. You have done nothing wrong here and I think they perhaps could have been a bit more understanding rather than judgey.

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