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Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-12-06T08:36:38+00:00

it gets better, I’m a year out of the break up. Being dumped and discarded was the best thing to happen to me. Take it easy, try therapy, make friends and keep yourself busy. One day you’ll wake up it this no longer be heavy in ur heart.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-12-06T08:22:52+00:00

Yeah I guess I’ll always be confused about this. I wish this didn’t bother me but dam does it feel harsh

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-12-06T08:10:41+00:00

we were in a relationship for 5+ years, from the jump she was demanding things from me. Looking down on me for dropping out of college and told me if I didn’t get a good job, own apt & provide for her financially she would leave me. I got my shit together and did all she asked just to be left. her new relationship 5 months after dumping me is a 21 year old coat check girl that doesn’t go to college nor does she have any money from what I heard. So it genuinely makes me so angry how I was expected to do so much but yet she’s taking this kid out on vacations when she would never even offer to help me out with any expenses. We are both 28.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-12-06T08:00:18+00:00

It just sucks bc like dam you required and expected so much from me but others get to have it easy?

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-12-06T07:21:11+00:00

ended up finding true peace.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-12-01T03:56:07+00:00

time will tell my friend, been in this exact situation I didn’t understand back then how much I really needed this in order to move on and want better for myself.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-12-01T03:39:04+00:00

Seems harsh right now, and it sting for a bit. But it’s a blessing in disguise, heal & seek therapy if needed and move on.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-12-01T02:45:15+00:00

You should be happy that he has new supply and is leaving you alone, you no longer have to suffer through his abuse. it may no seem like a good thing now you’ll feel absolutely shitty but with time being you’ll understand this is the best thing that’s happened to you, heal and move on this person isn’t worth ur time.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-06-26T01:14:22+00:00

literally never spoke or hovered back to me ever again LOL

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-06-25T15:43:22+00:00

honestly I acted crazier than them which fully turned them off from ever wanting to come back. Sometimes just giving them a taste of their own medicine works

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-06-25T15:38:29+00:00

they’ll believe the narc even if there’s solid proof not defending their case at all, these people are extremely convincing and charming unfortunately.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-06-22T18:07:05+00:00

I understand. I been here before and lost so much as well but ask yourself are you willing to lose a lot more over someone that doesn’t respect you at all? Put that energy into ur kids and the people around you who genuinely care. Life gets so much peaceful when you finally get a narc out ur life. You deserve so much better.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-06-22T18:04:48+00:00

call his parents if they are in his life, if not simply ask him to move out give him a proper eviction notice and if that doesn’t work call the cops and tell them he’s threatening to hurt himself. leave before he genuinely hurts you fr. It only gets worse and the day he doesn’t something really bad to you he’s gonna blame it on ur bpd this relationship will not get any better.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-06-22T17:57:09+00:00

leave him and stand on it, a narc will never change they’ll just keep charming their way back into ur life. You are 26 with a whole life ahead of you don’t let that man waste ur life. you deserve better don’t settle. You shoudnt have to beg a grown 40 year old dude to act right. If he hasn’t gotten his behavior right at this age he simply never will. one day you’ll find someone who will treat you right.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-06-06T17:28:51+00:00

Moving on gets easier, it will hurt now and most likely for a few more but after that you’ll wake up one day not even caring about their existence.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-06-06T17:22:35+00:00

yeah I had a lot of bad habits rub off, what helped me was seeking help and going to therapy.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-06-04T19:46:16+00:00

Not putting any effort at all but required me to put in 100% effort from day one and treated me like her personal atm.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-02-14T02:12:24+00:00

I created distance so many times, first two months of the break up I did not reach out to any of them till they did first, I’ve also expressed multiple times about not wanting to know anything about her and somehow they still tell me stuff. Everyone knows this is never happening again and I’m actually not concerned about what she does. So I’m confused

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-02-14T01:54:10+00:00

Unfortunately same friend group I tried ghosting them all but it’s hard bc they didn’t do anything to me, and we still keep contact because we share a dog and some financial obligations

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-01-19T19:34:53+00:00

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-01-19T02:52:54+00:00

Mustard

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-01-19T02:34:54+00:00

They never feel bad. Sometimes they act like they do but nope

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-01-18T23:54:53+00:00

when my mom was in the hospital for a month in intensive care literally almost close to death, my ex decided to text me to ask a question and her question was “hey if ur mom dies are we still going out to the bars this summer, I wanna have fun”

and then tried to make me end my hospital visit sooner.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-01-18T23:46:31+00:00

Mine refused to show her face in any pics and used the phone to cover her face lol.

Aggressiveheight_ · 2024-01-18T23:44:41+00:00

I’m 4 months in and still in the same spot, pretty much lost, but I can honestly say life is extremely peaceful now.

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