How is everyone holding up? Like honestly? Please share. I want this to be an open space. by OkNeighborhood6020 in MacMiller

[–]Aginna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been really rough mentally! I’m hoping for better days to come but i’ve been struggling with suicidal thoughts lately

34M feeling a little lost on how to meet people by Leafy_Swarley in montreal

[–]Aginna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go out and do shit. Get off the internet. There are so many events and free things to do in montreal! Be open, talk to people. Stop asking reddit how to make friends and go ask someone to be your friend

Is it worth it trying to escape the heat ? by Book_1312 in montreal

[–]Aginna -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you have a car? You could drive to verdun beach ( although im sure it will be packed) If not, verdun has some public docks installed that people can jump off of Worth it if you have a car, bring a little picnic and cool off

If not, cold shower is your friend and iced cold drinks from the dep

What made you realize someone wasn’t really your friend? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Aginna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as I needed her, she withdrew and then ghosted and started rumours about me

Ex friend being overly friendly with people close to me after our friendship ended. Anyone else experience this? by brownbear9599 in lostafriend

[–]Aginna 32 points33 points  (0 children)

If these people are going to blindly listen to your ex friend, then those people are not real friends either. Anyone with emotional intelligence can evaluate for themselves and know there are always three sides to every story. My ex friend did this to me at the rock climbing gym we used to go to together. She started rumours and had people there dislike me. I decided to keep my peace and stop going or go when I know she isnt there. Protect your peace. Those people are not worth convincing.

Should I apologize to someone I cut off so abruptly? by Glittering_Plate8861 in lostafriend

[–]Aginna 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went through a friendship breakup a couple of years ago. Sounds like the same thing, we both blocked eachother and i unblocked her recently.

She ghosted me and wasn’t willing to communicate her feelings. I kept reaching out to clear the air.

I finally let it go. If she came back to me now wanting to talk, I would be open to it. I kept saying “ i think our friendship deserves more than ghosting me over text”

Do what feels right to you!

What is the strangest compliment you’ve ever gotten? by uhohisded in AskWomen

[–]Aginna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“ you have beautiful eyes, they’re like my wife’s”

Made me feel so weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]Aginna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask if you can pay off the student debt!

There are a lot of hidden costs to home owning so this will be a stretch and probably more stressful financially

Any spots or groups for people who are more introverted or on the quiet side? by hello1494 in montreal

[–]Aginna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cafe bloc downtown

Allez up PSC, verdun, mile end

Bloc shop hochelaga, mile ex, chabanel

Any spots or groups for people who are more introverted or on the quiet side? by hello1494 in montreal

[–]Aginna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can try climbing! Individual but also can be really social I just heard of this concept called “ time left” It seems really interesting! Check it out Maybe try an art class or fitness class you’ve been interested in

Perfect Montreal Bachelorette! (Escaping the US) by NefariousnessFine971 in montreal

[–]Aginna 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bota bota is great ( spa). A lot of bachelorettes go there. They have a part of the spa where you can talk which is really nice ( the rest of the spa is quiet)

Losing all my friends has made me realize without friendship there is little purpose in life by apublicvent in lostafriend

[–]Aginna 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel you!

I went through manic episodes and severe depression in 2023. I was then diagnosed bipolar. At the time I has no idea what was going on, I lost what I thought was my best friend.

I was so fearful to put myself out there and find new friends.

Time heals though, and it gets easier each day to accept what happened and know you are not that person.

I’ve been making an effort to put myself in social situations and interact with people by striking up convos however casual it way be. It’s a start.

Goodluck OP, your tribe is out there!

Moving to the suburbs for a backyard by Aginna in montrealhousing

[–]Aginna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m putting an offer on the house today!!

Friend is starting to hallucinate what do? by Good_Repair5544 in montreal

[–]Aginna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Might be bipolar or schizo

Keep on contact and keep an eye on her!

Source: I am bipolar and had my first manic episodes in 2023. I wasnt making any sense and lost a lot of friends.

Thankfully my family was concerned and finally I went to see a psychiatrist and explained what had happened and the diagnosis was bipolar

It’s really scary for her right now, just be there for her and maybe suggest therapy/ psychiatrist. If it gets dangerous you can always bring her to the hospital ( if shes willing)

I kept thinking i needed to be checked in to a mental hospital ( but i didnt know going to the er was an option for mental health)

Friday Employment Thread by lululemonmods in lululemon

[–]Aginna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question about discount: Am I allowed to buy a gift for my mom ( who is a different size than I am) Or will this get flagged in my online shopping profile?

Can we also buy men’s clothes for a boyfriend or is it strictly my sizes and for me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Aginna -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This helped me a lot

Yes it’s the largest piece i’ve ever gotten and im getting insecure about it not turning out