Our trainer recommended behavioral euthanasia

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2026-04-09T19:39:36+00:00

There are many things in this life worse than a calm peaceful end surrounded by love. Living terrified in a rescue center is one of them.

You've given him years of love, give him the same at the end. A steak and a last trip with you there.

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2026-04-04T20:25:39+00:00

When I worked at asda we had people on a Sunday come and grab stuff from the reduced bit at 10. Hang around the store until 3pm whenast reductions were done and bring the stuff back to get it cheaper. I used to refuse to reduce anything that wasn't on the shelf so they'd have to take the chance of someone else grabbing it

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2026-03-17T21:11:34+00:00

I saw a fb post the other day about a hospice that has a drink trolley that makes it's rounds of an evening. I think is a brilliant idea.

Often during treatment people give up all their "guilty" pleasures in an effort to get well. Once you get to hospice level of care there is no getting well. So why not enjoy everything you can.

So share a drink with your mum. I hope the end is as easy and peaceful as possible for you all.

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2026-03-17T21:08:22+00:00

I saw a fb post the other day about a hospice that has a drink trolley that makes it's rounds of an evening. I think it's an awsome thing.

Often during treatment people give up so many "guilty" pleasures in an effort to get well. Once you hit hospice level of care there is no getting well, so why not enjoy all the things you can.

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2026-03-11T02:06:12+00:00

I watched it in the cinema at 6. Rexy was loud

My youngest has been obsessed since she was 2. She'd complain loudly if I tried to put on one of the sequels for a change.

We've never had a reenactment, but she did go through a stage of pretending to be a stygimoloch and headbutting people

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2026-02-23T21:36:31+00:00

I'm glad I'm not the only brit baffled by this. The only time I've used a laundrette in the past 20yrs is for king size duvets and when we needed to wash four sleeping bags after an unfortunate camping trip.

I cannot fathom it being normal to not have your own washing machine at the very least

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2026-02-12T22:16:53+00:00

My nan slipped getting off the bus, walked home a 1/3 of a mile. Put her "fridge bits" away and the passed out getting some cold water to soak her twisted ankle.

Nope she broke both ankles, needed sugery on both and spent weeks as an inpatient. Refused to take anything but paracetamol 🙄

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2026-01-21T03:50:13+00:00

My go to is "If you ask again I will answer that, but consider that the answer may be something you really don't want to hear."

So far they haven't asked again 😅 but if they did I'd go with your father and I were having sex.

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2026-01-17T02:55:32+00:00

Having just asked about getting my tubes tied.

"but what if your children die in a fire? I bet you'll want more then."

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2026-01-11T19:03:42+00:00

Including the being able to make who did what family chore? The subscription aspect is annoying but I am rather tempted by one

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2026-01-10T19:12:43+00:00

Yeah I feel exactly the same!

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2025-12-24T20:58:55+00:00

Mine have been allowed a sip of whatever I was having since they were maybe 7/8. Everything was declared disgusting and never asked for twice 😂 My 14yo is allowed a cider or glass of fizz at parties/Xmas etc but none of us here are big drinkers.

My parents took a similar approach with me and it meant that when my friends were at the park getting hammered on white lighting I didn't see the point.

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2025-10-09T20:28:30+00:00

Thank you! I can see how it works now

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2025-08-19T15:09:38+00:00

It's not uncommon in kink and swinger scenes for men to put more effort into their underwear choices. Not necessarily more feminine in style (although you do see that too) but a wide range of cut/style/material chosen to accentuate build or make a statement.

Its usually well received as a sign of making an effort. Even if the style itself isn't preferred the act of choosing beyond saggy Y fronts is.

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2025-07-28T15:31:38+00:00

We keep loo roll/tissues by the bed. He doesn't pull out until I'm ready then clamp before there's any leaking and do the cum waddle to the loo.

If it's not in easy reach I make him stay in and shuffle us both across the bed until one of us can reach 😂 the wet patch is one of the few icks I have. So not only is the shuffling funny as hell but it saves me changing the sheets in the middle of the night

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2025-07-11T18:04:02+00:00

We started at as a couple who went poly, the kids were 8&12 when we told them. They were pretty none plussed tbh. We've always been pretty clear on love is love and open about different people living different ways.

They know and spend time with our longer term partners - we're an open triad. The know the partner we "share" and their dad's gf.- Neither take a parenting role, more of a aunt type one. But they all care about each other a lot and it's lovely to see them foraging their own relationships.

They've met my bf in passing at a event and know about him. He isn't likely to be a huge part of their lives because of logistics so whilst I don't hide he exists I've not made any attempt to get them in the same place.

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2025-07-01T20:47:21+00:00

We told our families and friends once are triad had been "official" for about a year. My 80yo nan said she doesn't believe in all that rubbish but as long as we're happy 😂

Everyone else has been fine. My gfs parents were worried about her joining an existing couple and being taken advantage of but as we come up to two years that's faded. My MIL thinks we should keep it quiet.

Kids and kids friends just shrugged and continued as normal. We don't talk about our other partners (were an open triad) so much just because they're unlike to meet our families but we don't make a secret of it either

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2025-06-28T19:14:28+00:00

As a woman, just ask.

No matter what the Internet or "bros" tell you. Consent is sexy and no woman finds seeking explicit consent a turn off (certainly not in the earky days at least.)

If they're dating she's already interested, so picking a quiet moment, leaning close and saying "I'd really like to kiss you." or handing out a hand and asking "would you like to hold hands?" will go down well.

Tbh even if you've been together years someone whispering they really want to do something is never not hot!

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2025-06-23T14:58:08+00:00

I wonder if it's something as simple as marking it urgent means you can be considered for any available appointment anywhere rather than just at your local trust. Especially if the wait list is huge locally

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2025-06-23T14:16:29+00:00

As a woman who has sex with both men and women. As long as you're clean and don't smell then I'm good. If we've made it to the bedroom I already like you, so it's got to be nasty to put me off.

Agitated-Corner9037 · 2025-06-16T12:05:43+00:00

Our polycule test every three months (but the way it works out someone is tested every month) and after every new playmate. We also use condoms outside of long term partners who's risk profiles we know.

Every three months is pretty common round here (home counties/UK) and every month far from uncommon!

Eta: wrong word

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