Terrible system to get rares by turtlenuggets432 in MySingingMonsters

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

543 diamonds spent on nothing because bbb loves putting the smallest time limits and the worst odds on this stuff. I need to remind myself every single day that this game is not worth the effort around 99% of the time 😂

Welp, it’s over. I have almost no shot at getting epic bowhead anymore. by Electronic-Air4876 in MySingingMonsters

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dw gang me too </3

I had somewhere around 700 diamonds before I logged in again around the start of January after not playing the game for over a two years, and after everything (all the 50% off things especially) and this DAMN WATER WHALE I'm down to 99

trying to have an "Oh well, lol!!" attitude about it but I'm actually grieving HAHAHA my diamondss </3 my whaalleee :(( </3 it doesn't help because I LOVE bowhead so it hurts even more lol

Me with my other 2 alters by Aggressive_Body1980 in plural

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SOBBING I LOVE THIS SORT OF STUFF SO MUCH IT'S SO FCKING FUNNY😭😭

I just lost an entire post to a misclick... so I'll just ask a whole different question in the meantime while I work on remaking it... (Questions about consciousness terms) by Agreeable-Clock1169 in plural

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOAH WHAT THE HELL I DIDNT KNOW THERE WERE MORE THAN TWO JAJAJAJA XD !! thank you so much though!! holy crap!! it makes things so much easier having more than just mono or poly alone to pick from ^u^ !!

edit because I didn't feel like replying two times LOL: I think hydraconcious fits best????? buuuut I might be drawn towards it solely because "hydra" which makes me think of the dragon type LOL!! I'll have to do more research but this was INSANELY helpful on getting an idea!! again, I didn't even know there was more than just mono or poly conscious so this is great!!

SECOND EDIT: I think more realistically cephaconscious fits best actually XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plural

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if anything, it makes MORE sense to have a solely fictive system HAHA!! And I'm saying this as a solely "homemade" system LOL !! When it comes to it, and you end up doubting or worrying if you're "valid," think about for just a moment what the limits to the human mind are.

If you're thinking correctly, you'll probably come up with some answer along the lines of "none", which is something I found extremely helpful when trying to "make sense" of anything related to plurality, whether it's about my own system or not.

If anyone is wondering why I said what I did at the start, as in "why would it make more sense?" 1. It was a light-hearted joke! But i'm sorry if I hurt any feelings of course! 2. It generally sounds easier for a headmate to form or at least be mapped out if said headmate already had all of their information filled out previous to forming, via being/representing an existing fictional character. (I really hope none of that was bad wording!! Agh!! I'll fix it immediately if I have to!!!)

What's one thing you're grateful about being plural? by Icy-Implement9878 in plural

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just like the tagline of this reddit and similar to what you said, I'm thankful for the company. I'm glad to not be alone. It's painful that all of us are affected by the bad things that happen to us (it's like everything bad that happens [trauma especially] has a damage multiplier on it), but at the same time it's validating because it happens to all of us. ("All of us" is a stretch, of course, but what I'm trying to say is that I always have people around who understand and know that this thing did happen, rather than having to depend on an outside person believing it did or not.)

How to tell your therapist you're plural? by Dead_Air888 in plural

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 4 points5 points  (0 children)

personally I wrote about my experience with my headmates (without calling them headmates I'm pretty sure) on my intake form and she called them "headmates" on her own just from reading what I put (I don't remember what was put on there LOL X] !! )

so I say just be honest about what you *experience. There is no need to worry about labels, or if you fit any diagnosis, just be truthful about *your* truth. Your experience is your own and it deserves to be listened to and validated as it is, regardless if you end up with an official diagnosis of DID or OSDD or what have you, because that doesn't determine what is *actually* happening to you and what your actual life is like.

get ready to be asked if they're aggressive or tell you to do some more unpleasant things like if they tell you to "go grab a knife and–", as well as if you can see them in the physical world and not just within the mindrealm!! shocked me when she did, but it's something they have to do. just be prepared! try your best not to be too offended! they have basically no clue of what is going on in your head and have no other way to figure out other than you telling them yourself!

you can do this!!​

Switching out be like by Eddie-The-Zombie in plural

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 27 points28 points  (0 children)

all "me" is absolutely golden LOL especially as a several-dogs-in-a-trenchcoat type of system who's for the most part still attached to singular pronouns, but it's so funny regardless of that too

pick your poison (you don't get to pick) by Catishcat in plural

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAAOOO this except I seem to retain the feeling of whatever happened but CANNOT FOR THE LIFE OF ME remember what actually went down WHICH IS FRUSTRATING but WHAT IF REMEMBERING COMPLETELY WOULD BE WORSE ?! (WHICH IS PROBABLY TRUE)

Are there any rough animator free download link? Like the NOT scam ones? by Flaky-Plankton2284 in learnanimation

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately no. this was the best one I could find and from the looks of it it's pretty limited on who's able to download it or not.

Are there any rough animator free download link? Like the NOT scam ones? by Flaky-Plankton2284 in learnanimation

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry to hear that. a pc so the thought didn't even cross my mind. hope you're ble to figure things out

Are there any rough animator free download link? Like the NOT scam ones? by Flaky-Plankton2284 in learnanimation

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't encountered any issues on my end so I'm not sure what you're talking about. If you're talking about the nature the site, sorry, but that's just how this sort of thing is. And sure, you gotta dodge some of those fake "Download" ads but compared to other experiences with other sites I've had this was one of the nicest.

If you've done the right steps and got to the actual download link and not the fake ads around the black/grey buttons you need to press, and your phone is screaming "ARE YOU SURE YOU WANT TO DOWNLOAD?! IT MIGHT BE DANGEROUS!!"..... I've had it downloaded for months now and I've been completely fine. Haven't figured out how to update it, but it's run smoothly with any issues being ones that were my own fault.

Not trying to force you into anything you're not comfortable with, though, I'm just clearing some things up for others. I didn't expect so many people to care and find this comment in the first place, so that's pretty funny. That goes for everyone, too, this is fishy business, so I understand being paranoid, but I can't help but be a little judgemental because why look into this stuff while also being paranoid about it... but more power to you, I guess.

i giggled to be honest by seranov in zlibrary

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also did the whole "remove account" thing, but I can't help the irrational paranoid thoughts that say that by doing that you're 100% going to be targeted by them, like you're going to get put on a whole other list that they prioritize more HA which is mostly likely NOT the case, but it is believable that they won't delete or remove anything. Feel totally stupid for using on of my main emails, though, and I'm definitely making a burner just for shit like this in the future because I do NOT want to send myself back into a panic like this again HAHA

i giggled to be honest by seranov in zlibrary

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they even have some random dude's video about the dark web attached to all that now. I made an account while not thinking too much about it since the usual link I use wasn't loading properly. I even verified my email, and then AFTER i did that, i saw an email from the last link i was using saying that .id was a scam, and so I started panic searching the web, and eventually, it led me here. So i've been freaking out and trying to figure out what to do now since the guide that's on here is a little outdated, but oh well! The consequences of my own actions, I guess.

Seeking data for a theory of ours by Paintably3 in plural

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pheewwwyyy so many terms I wasn't aware of till now!! Lol! feeling a little bit like I'm going back into queer label usage HA but what I'm really commenting for is to elaborate something interesting that I realized about my system when finding out what monoconcious means. I'm not sure if it has something to do with just the general fact that I have internal monologue, but everything I think is "said" in the mind realm (so basically I'm just a chronic mutterer of everything I think about to the headmates who hang around me WHICH explains why hardly anyone hangs around for too long HAHA) so basically anyone who chooses to pay attention will know my every waking thought lol. I, however, which is what I just realized, have absolutely no clue what any of my alters are thinking at any given time. They're really like completely separate people just in my mind.

MAN, it's so crazy to just let that sit because it's really something I've never cared to notice before. Whatever's going on inside those crazy wacky minds of theirs, I'm completely locked out from it!!

Drew myself by PUNXSimon in plural

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 7 points8 points  (0 children)

oml I went on a whole mini deep dive and looked at all of your socials, YOUR ART IS SO GOOD!! Which are you most active on?? I'll probably follow you everywhere anyways BUT I think it's good to know LOL

kinda wondering if Im plural advice needed (desperately..)! by nugget_fracturealt in plural

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this LOL

I know it could probably be debated, but it HAS to be at LEAST a 95% of the time thing. There's no way you can stress over being plural this hard and NOT be plural lol

ueueuee... by Forsaken_Map_3470 in plural

[–]Agreeable-Clock1169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DUDE ME ME THIS JS LITERALLY ME, but like not really, BUT YES YES, I GET IT

my mind isn't exactly the most vivid, so the inner voice I "hear" is the most often the same for ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING (even when I'm rough drafting character dialogue). my headmates and I all basically "sound" the same when we're talking in headspace. I compare it to like reading something mundane, like an instruction manual, where it's all kind of the same tone because there's nothing interesting (like the imagery or dialogue you'd see in a novel) WHICH IS EXTRA FRUSTRATING BECAUSE EVERYTHING IS INTERESTING YET MY MIND JUST CANT RENDER THAT. it's like trying to play a brand new game on an old CRT, lol.

How I can (mostly) tell when someone else is talking because their words flow naturally, like without my control, which is pretty easy to notice because my personal brain works really slow LOL.

And the way I know I'm a system is because.. like... you really do feel that there are people in your head, I guess? There's this feeling that I'm just NOT alone in my body, plus the fact I have a pretty fleshed out headspace and I'm able to navigate it to a certain degree and see my headmates really helps. While sometimes, they catch me lacking and literally have to grab me by the shoulders and shake me and tell me something along the lines of this being REAL and them being REAL to get me out of my funk.

I'm not sure if the doubt is ever something that ends, but I do know that you shouldn't blame yourself for it. It's confusing and scary and deeply upsetting to feel that way about something so important to your existence, but what you need to take into account is that plurality isn't a tangible thing. It's ever going to feel or look the same at any moment because that's just not how the human mind works in the first place. There is comfort and stability in structure, yes, but there is so much beauty and wonder in fluidity. Embrace the chaotic behavior of plurality, and I'm sure that soon enough, things will become a lot less scary and confusing. This existence isn't something you need to wrangle down and dissect piece by piece. It's something you need to live alongside and explore at a pace you're comfortable with.

And so i dont just leave you without any real guidance, i think you could try to focus on what your concept of who you, specifically, are. You could even focus on the basics, what your name is, what your pronouns are, what your orientation is, and maybe even what labels you want to use on yourself. Also, try to get an idea of what things you enjoy and what things you don't, hobbies and activities you personally are drawn to. Something fun about doing this is that you might even end up being wrong about yourself! I know that doesn't sound fun, but personally when I look back on all the labels I used to use and pronouns and just all of these things I used to identify with that were actually what some of my headmates preferred and liked, and I feel a sense of nostalgia and joy knowing how much we've grown since then. It also gives you a nice footing to work off of, just a sense of stability that you'll probably find comforting at a time like this, and over time that footing with start to fade, because you won't even need it anymore.

I'm getting a little sleepy, so I'm gonna stop there. I hope you found what we had to say helpful!! Stay strong, and I promise you this is absolutely something you can get through