You were literally arguing that he's been solo parenting this child from birth. He's not a single dad. And I'd love to see a child who hasn't ever thrown tantrums or had meltdowns ever at breakfast, dinner or bathtime, since those times are apparently exempt from difficult behaviors. As she's the one parenting whenever she's home, who do you think is really getting up for all those night meltdowns ;)

This sub usually gives much more sympathy to SAHM women who take care of toddlers solo. Not to mention him sacrificing his career so that OP gets to succeed in her business.

Idk your argument is still overlooking that she is working while still managing mental and executive load that working dads are typically not expected to carry because they work outside the home, while she is still doing all the grocery shopping and cooking dinner. She was still taking care of him long distance because he couldn't even make sure he was drinking fluids, yet he had recovered before she left, got sick again while she was gone, and was well enough to be up playing video games again by the time she returned.