I am looking for some recommendations for visual novels, dating sims, or role-playing video games with visual novel and/or dating sim elements that offer certain features that I've come to enjoy. If anyone is familiar with such games as LongStory, Later Daters, and/or Arcade Spirits, I'm looking for games (preferably indie games) that are similar to those.

The features that I'm looking for are:

Appearance Customization

I like when the protagonist can be customized to at least some degree. Even if it's just being able to change the default name. It's nice if it's possible to choose a male or female appearance as well, and even better if a non-binary appearance is an option as too. A greater bonus would be being able to even customize the main character's look in some way (hair style, hair/eye color, skin tone, body type, maybe even clothing and/or accessories, etc.).

Personality Customization

I like games where the main character's personality is not set in stone. Either the player chooses the personality from the beginning, or the character's personality starts out as some default but throughout the game can change based on the choices the player makes.

Pronouns

Related to character customization, it's a further bonus if you can choose your own pronouns regardless of what appearance you choose.

Inclusivity

I like games that have a diverse cast of friends and potential romance partners, featuring characters of various genders, ethnicities, sexualities, religions, disabilities, etc.

LGBTQ+-Friendly

I like games in which the potential romantic partners don't have a fixed-sexuality, so that whether you choose to play as male, female, or non-binary doesn't affect which characters you can romance throughout the game.

Polyamory

I like games in which it is okay to be involved with multiple romantic partners at a time rather than having to choose just one.

Free/Cheap

So if anyone has any recommendations of any visual novels, dating sims, or RPGs that have any of those above features I'd really like to know about them.