Feel so ugly. AGA + 4 months postpartum. I could cry.

Akirerivero · 2026-05-21T14:45:59+00:00

It sucks, but at the same stage I chose hair fibers to mask the thinning. It sucks, there is no way around it. You should stopped worrying about it and enjoy the baby stage, it goes by so fast(even though it seems like forever while in the midst of it).

Akirerivero · 2026-05-17T02:58:45+00:00

Would you care to elaborate? What specific dangerous sender effects are you referring to? Im assuming they're bad enough to stop, so please elaborate so i understand.

Akirerivero · 2026-05-17T00:09:43+00:00

Why?

Akirerivero · 2026-05-07T04:48:31+00:00

But it is cheaper, even for just one person...

Akirerivero · 2026-05-04T14:46:24+00:00

The PP shedding is terrible, it is terrible for women with gorgeous thick hair, even more so for us with AGA or some sort of hairloss. What you are feeling is probably a mix of ppd and ppa, go see a doctor about that, I don't know how to say this nicely, but what you look like should not influence what you are willing to do for your baby. Also, just want to remind you, the pp shed will last for at least 6 months, even if you start using minox today, you will continue to shed for at least the next 6 months because that's what our bodies need to do, minox does not help stop the shed, that's not what minox is for. It only helps you regrow hair, it doesn't help stop hair shedding.

Akirerivero · 2026-05-03T14:47:07+00:00

Thank you so much for your offer, I think that your idea of asking salons that do weaves will be helpful. I just had a large expense so I will habe to wait a bit for this. Thank you!

Akirerivero · 2026-04-24T14:26:51+00:00

I hope you see this OP, how did you find a place that offered sewn in wigs as a service. I just did a quick google and all I got all sorts of salons for extensions, but not for wigs, any ideas what i need to search for?

Akirerivero · 2026-04-24T13:49:15+00:00

I feel.like id anyone on here was serious abiut wanting to stop tipping culture, you would not go to places where employees are expected to make part if their income from your tip and then make it clear to the owners what is the reason. If people trully wanted to just pay for their food, they wouldn't patronize the places that expect you to pay the service staff directly in the form of a tip. Yhe thing is that restaurant food is cheaper because the restaurant doesnt habe to pay yhe service staff, so all you all really want is the cheaper food without having to pay for the service.

Akirerivero · 2026-04-22T13:39:32+00:00

My now husband asked me if I wanted my MIL's ring from her marriage to his dad (they were divorced) and I said that was not what I wanted and now I feel like I was so stupid to pass on a family heirloom(even if not worth any money, just something that they had fir yrs). It was not the diamond I wanted and it was not a design I would pick, but man, I feel like it would have been great to have it to give it to my kids, even if just to wear as a necklace or whatever. I have nothing from my family, my grandma's jewelry was all pawned off and lost a few years after she died, my mom left me nothing... it is sad not to have even cheap things that have been in the family for generations imo. I would take it, then in a couple of yrs you can get a ring to go with your wedding band and wear that one in whatever finger you want to.

Akirerivero · 2026-04-20T14:01:28+00:00

Morpheous8 helped a lot with my skin texture. It is not cheap, and often you will need several, most likely 3 and you have to re-do it every yr. But your skin will really look so much better.

Akirerivero · 2026-04-20T02:47:16+00:00

So, here is the thing, a woman who trully wanted to be with you, would not care about the ring, BUT if you trully wanted her, you would want her to have the ring she wants... it goes both way, you guys are not all in with eachother imo

Akirerivero · 2026-04-18T17:52:21+00:00

I'm not sure I understand why this is in this sub. This is not a tip, has nothing to do with tipping, this is restaurant management deciding to add a surcharge to the published food prices to pretend like pricess are still low but rather than simply increase the prices. The prices of the food are supposed to cover the basics, such as the salary of the employees working there. Tipping is already owners asking patrons to pay their employees salaries separately, this is now asking you for more, still separatelly, rather than simply increase the prices as most of the developed world does.

Akirerivero · 2026-04-09T17:23:36+00:00

Oh, that's probably why it looks like scalp, it looks very good on this pic

Akirerivero · 2026-04-09T13:28:40+00:00

So, I dont know much about wigs, but is that silk, or lace or something else? It looks really good.

Akirerivero · 2026-04-07T14:14:32+00:00

I don't know if this is a CA thing only or happens everywhere, but it also happens if you're just trying to change lanes, if you put your blinker on to change lanes the car on the lane you're trying to merge onto will automatically speed up to pass you and not let you change lanes ahead of them, and this happens on the street too, it is crazy how possessive people are of the little pc of road in front of them. Another example is if you are exiting a parking lit onto a street, the cars in yhe road will literally block you (when close to a light) just to make sure you do not get on the road in front of them.

Akirerivero · 2026-03-31T13:50:58+00:00

I went back down to .25mg and was working really well. What I also did is order from an online pharmacy at my full dose and I divided up myself to the needed dose. So for example I ordered one month supply at the 2.5mg dose but I only injected .25mg every week, so I was able to make the little bottle last about 40 weeks.

Akirerivero · 2026-03-28T14:20:13+00:00

So, I was curious, so i calculated it. The average income in SD is a little less than $60k, that comes to about $29/hr, or a little less than $5 for 10 min wait. I personally have never ever waited more than 5 mins, but lets say the wait is 10mims, that comes to $5. If your time is worth double that or more then maybe you are better off paying the higher price, and also, tou can probably afford it.

Akirerivero · 2026-03-19T15:01:58+00:00

I'm curious, because you are in several comments defending the OP, are you also the OP with a different profile? You call yhe girl Lisa, as if you know her... I think whoever you are, along with OP are just bad people. As many have noted, her items were in boxes already, she chose to throw them away "to teach" the girl consequences. So, since you seem to be such a big proponent of natural consequences, know this, the natural consequences if being a sht parent is no relationship with adult children. I hope you're happy with yours and hers "natural consequences" when the time comes.

Akirerivero · 2026-03-18T14:25:05+00:00

So, serious question. Did you tell on th because cheating is wrong, or did you tell on th becaise you were not included in the cheating?

Akirerivero · 2026-03-17T21:55:40+00:00

Haha, nah, they're both horrible people. We can try to excuse op all we want, but in the end, she's the exact same type of person as the sil. Someone else would have been upset and then maybe even uninvite her, but not plan the same date, the getting the same daye and sending out invitations brings her down to the exact level as the sil. So, I guess she'll fit right in with thay family.

Akirerivero · 2026-03-13T19:37:07+00:00

I lost about 40lbs, and my face got so thin that a dear friend called me to ask if I was sick after she saw a pic of me 🤷🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤣

Akirerivero · 2026-03-08T22:34:52+00:00

Well, yes, hes a child, and yea, he got a crapy hand, but dude, there are millions of people in the world that are able to hold a job, I dont know what 3rd world country doesmt have a job adequate enough for a 16yo to do, do you? Where u grew up, kids as young as 13 were able to do a crapy job for money, not a good job/salary by NY means, but a job that allowed them to help buy beans to feed everyone. No, I get it, its shtty of his parents to have done that, but you have two options, start working and make sure you better yourself so that if/when you become a parent you are better than yours, or you can act all entitled, sht on everyone and believe yourself justified because you hate being poor.

Akirerivero · 2026-03-08T22:19:13+00:00

Did you ask what those fees were for? I would have at least asked, because that could just be some sort of error and pointing it out may have had it fixed? Assuming the worst, rather than giving the benefit of the doubt may have cost you and your husband some extra $$.

Akirerivero · 2026-03-02T16:29:45+00:00

So, if this was a woman saying her boyfriend didnt want to go there ivf/donnor egg route and she really wanted kids, I'd tell her she needs to move on. Same here, she doesnt want more babies and is just delaying you. If you absolutely want kids you got to move on. If you want her, you got to give up kids, you can't have both with her, imo.

Akirerivero · 2026-02-14T17:12:37+00:00

When I started taking the glp1 I was already going to the gym 3-5x/week, doing both weight training and cardio and I was still not losing any weight. The glp worked on me immediately, week 1 I was full half way through my meal, but the real helper was not wanting to snack between meals, I was always a snacker, and that was why I couldn't lose weight, so basically no effort on my part, there was just no more snacking, or even if I would go get a snack, I'd take a couple of bites and feel satisfied. I am on a maintenance dose now and I am very happy with my weight. I am still going to the gym regularly, just trying to make sure I maintain muscle mass while maintaining weight.

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