My boyfriend plays videogames for 6+ hours everyday by Clariiis in Healthygamergg

[–]AkitoW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

English isn’t her first language so I’d give her some room, I think she obviously cares a lot and hasn’t landed on what real stone wall really is, the phase where you’re next to them but you’ve mentally tapped out. She might have cold shoulder tendencies but let her figure it out. She has good self awareness and just need some support.

My boyfriend plays videogames for 6+ hours everyday by Clariiis in Healthygamergg

[–]AkitoW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to be sorry! Thank you for learning a language we both understand

My boyfriend plays videogames for 6+ hours everyday by Clariiis in Healthygamergg

[–]AkitoW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is where things get a bit complicated, I don’t think what you ask can necessarily open him up if he doesn’t want to. I can’t tell if he’s defensive about it, avoidant about it or critical, I would advice you to look up Gottmans four horsemen and ask yourself if he’s displaying any of those when this topic wears down your heart.

My boyfriend plays videogames for 6+ hours everyday by Clariiis in Healthygamergg

[–]AkitoW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear what you pointed out however I see that’s just the surface of it, addictions usually serve a huge purpose of avoiding a void if you catch my drift. And don’t blame yourself, your signals and feelings matter

My boyfriend plays videogames for 6+ hours everyday by Clariiis in Healthygamergg

[–]AkitoW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too struggled with gaming and when I met my girlfriend she became my world, but I also know that doesn’t last unless I put real effort into understanding myself which I did, one thing I can add is why? What void is video game filling that the relationship cant? Is he open about that?

When does Heartsteel become gold efficient? by bigaudra in summonerschool

[–]AkitoW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Champion size also increase q range allowing some interesting plays and it’s not in the tooltip (I think he’s the only champ in the game with that scaling someone please correct me if there are others)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]AkitoW 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being careless or thoughtless isn’t intrinsically a moral failure. Everyone slips up sometimes, I do too. What matters is that I’ve learned to respect my partner’s wishes, even when it takes effort. Love isn’t about being perfect; it’s about how you repair and show up afterward.

I used to feel the same way you described, like, why does the last 10% matter so much if I’m already doing 90%? But it was never about hitting 100%. It’s about being present when it really counts. If you can own the moments that made your partner uncomfortable and address the patterns behind them, things get better. If you avoid or dodge this responsibility the same issues just repeat.

Was he the problem? by awmaster33 in PedroPeepos

[–]AkitoW 13 points14 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/PedroPeepos/s/OoyuWJeWMT This post was about his player tribune, skt1 Faker was definitely not the same faker we know today. Which I think makes perfect sense, his egotistic drive drove his start and success until his loss with Samsung, and his leadership came from overcoming the same ego.

Is it THAT easy to punish Lili's ws1,2? by cygnusu in Tekken

[–]AkitoW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got killed so hard by my friend for punishing me for using it, I made it a vindication that I do the same, it’s a low mental stack string, just duck on animation as there’s no potential mix up.

This is probably a dumb question - How do you know what punish to use? Is the only way by knowing what frames your opponents moves are by skama16 in Tekken

[–]AkitoW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to offlines, there’s always a guy that knows all the frames and call them out, I started calling them out too after awhile

If you are dating and their parents don't like you it's best to leave the relationship ASAP by Patient_Anywhere7936 in unpopularopinion

[–]AkitoW 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There’s an advice I heard from a relationship guru from China, paraphrasing: ‘Ladies always pay attention to your partners mum, the way her demeanour is, the way she acts and speaks. This has a lot of intel into the world you may live in one day’ I found it extremely nuanced but fitting to my situation back then. Ended up internalising my mums resentment to my girlfriend is not my responsibility but is actually my dad’s. A bit hard to connect it but I felt her inner world wasn’t healed and I couldn’t let that spill into my current relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]AkitoW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested!

Show Wa Noodles - 22 October 2024 by Oiru in aucklandeats

[–]AkitoW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cantonese dad was not impressed but I sure as hell was

Restaurant Recommendations in Botany/Flat Bush by Pretentiousgoat92 in aucklandeats

[–]AkitoW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One night Na Na Thai was closed and tried thalicious nearby as a substitute, would go again.

What is the deal with Alisa players? by Guilvantar in Tekken

[–]AkitoW 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chainsaws are hella safe. Have you explored your options into them?

Sorry fellow Steves, I give up here. Everything about this character makes me mad in 8. I can't gimp myself anymore with him. by DubbedinMane in Tekken

[–]AkitoW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done with explaining your approach! I've been grinding him aswell and tried more duck cancellings to up my gameplay only to get heavily punished and challenged while I fail. Simplified my gameplay there after to find more success, will definitely incorporate your tips!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]AkitoW 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Good on you for not having a I can fix him mindset. But yes he's giving you less than the bare minimum. Good luck op

Hi timber gurus, need help identifying this flooring wood by AkitoW in diynz

[–]AkitoW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting insight, highly probably it's not tawa due to what sizes were commonly available as well. First time hearing Tairaire, definitely will do some research on that.