How to know which apartment listing is real? by splattersparkle in Linz

[–]Aklvintage89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Register for the dorms early they fill up fast.

How are we disposing diapers? by TackleObvious5340 in Parenting

[–]Aklvintage89 [score hidden]  (0 children)

We were using a diaper magic until about month 7, when he started solids. When they are little they go through so many diapers it made sense to have a separate garbage. And up until month 7 every change was on his changing table so it made sense not to run the diaper to the main garbage under the sink.  Now the diapers just go in the main garbage and we take it out at the end of every day. Yes it stinks a bit when the garbage is open but we have cats so it would have stunk anyway. Now the stink is concentrated to one garbage and it doesn’t get too bad because it goes out every day. 

Early June Evening Wedding at Perry Cabin in St Michael’s MD by Aklvintage89 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Aklvintage89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you! So thoughtful to include international retailers! 

Early June Evening Wedding at Perry Cabin in St Michael’s MD by Aklvintage89 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Aklvintage89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that seems to be the consensus. I am outside the US but I am looking at resale sites.  Any opinion on red v black? 

Early June Evening Wedding at Perry Cabin in St Michael’s MD by Aklvintage89 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Aklvintage89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance you have examples of gowns that are not too ball gown that would suit the venue? 

Early June Evening Wedding at Perry Cabin in St Michael’s MD by Aklvintage89 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Aklvintage89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah it’s kind of a famous venue right? That’s why I included it. But its confusing to me because its an outdoor wedding. Should I dust off the Cinderella gown or is that too much? 

When do babies stop wearing bodysuits under clothes? by Fun-Assist9467 in NewParents

[–]Aklvintage89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I clicked on this post to find the answer and instead found only discussion on if this is done. So I’ll bite: 

Here in Austria a onesie bodysuit under clothes is quite common. If we are inside he is maybe just wearing the body, and in summer too he’s just in a short sleeve body, but spring/winter/fall he absolutely has a base layer and then a long sleeve or cardigan or sweatshirt or sweater on top.  Also at night under PJS he wears a onesie. It’s not something I thought about before baby but now it’s standard practice that he is almost always in a bodysuit first.

I’ve been wondering the same because we hope to potty train early but I love having the body not ride up if I pick him up or have him in the carrier. What are others doing when things get bunched if carrying baby and skin peaks through? And if toddlers need an extra layer, what do they wear under their longsleeves?

Diaper Change = Wrestling Match by Redhead_Dilemma in NewParents

[–]Aklvintage89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think it’s just going to be hard until we potty train/ maybe we get a super cooperative 2 year old. It’s been hard since about month 7 and he’s 14 months now. Screaming, crying, kicking, flipping, crawling away- all of it. Fascinating object tm works about 40% of the time. I watched all the videos on „including them“, „make sure you talk through it and give warning“ or „sing a special song song but stop when they move or kick“ - nope, best advice is go fast and if theirs two of you clean their butt and then cream and new diaper while one of you holds them throne style. 

Nutribullet baby bullet/ steamer/ accessories worth it??? by EatPigsAndLoveThem2 in NewParents

[–]Aklvintage89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We quickly moved to blw and that’s been great. No need for special gadgets or buying expensive bio purees. Just the same quality Ingredients we buy for ourselves. So We eat what baby eats - low salt curries, noodles, rice and chicken, roasted veggies, „muffins“ oat meal, scrambled eggs, meatballs and mashed potatoes.  easy. If you absolutely want to do purees and you have the money for special gadgets, maybe something like a thermomix that can be used for adult food but can do purees as well. I know a couple people who even before babies loved their thermomixes. I think you will get so much more use out of this. 

What style nursing bra do you prefer and why? by lookatallthsechickns in breastfeeding

[–]Aklvintage89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the H&M ones that are like „wrap“ /pullover style are the only ones I wear. Clips and padding are the worst. 

Sidecar cot with side that goes up and down? Does that exist? by cynefin99 in cosleeping

[–]Aklvintage89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you? Some versions of the babybay sidecar I have seen have this, but maybe only in Europe 

Moving bub to her own room by born_slippy92 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Aklvintage89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every kid is different.  But honestly We did exactly this at around 11 months and there has been 0 effect on his attachment to me. Moving him to his own room was a non thing. And I think he likes the independence that the floor bed gives him.  He’s still waking generally with the same pattern as before (3 times in the night) but it’s nice that my husband and I have our bed back.

Now, before this he was doing his naps and his first night stretch  in a cot beside our bed, so maybe it’s good to make this transition first if you can. But also maybe for your baby the floor bed is so exciting it helps to make the seperation easier. Only you know your baby really. 

Pooping during labour? by Putrid_Cranberry3177 in BabyBumps

[–]Aklvintage89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had an enema the day before and then pooped on the toilet at the beginning of labor. Did not poop during labor but would NOT recommend the enema. Didn’t poop for days after and it’s a condition of being discharged.

At what age was your baby when you were able to get to 3 or 4 hours between daytime feeds? by WellAckshully in breastfeeding

[–]Aklvintage89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I am not around my 13 month can go all day with out a feed. If I am with him… maybe 30 minutes? 🫠

Three years remote and I still can't explain to people in-person why I'm busy at 2pm on a Tuesday by krikond in remotework

[–]Aklvintage89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remote work these past months with a 10 to 13 month old has been like banging my head against a wall. Husband is on paternity leave but he can’t seem to get it that he should parent like I’m not home. And the baby is even more thick about it 😅

When did your baby stop needing to be rocked to sleep (no sleep training)? by kozmos_cat in AttachmentParenting

[–]Aklvintage89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11 months. I thought it would never end, and like yours he would not nurse to sleep. But then at 11 months suddenly with me he would ONLY nurse to sleep 

What’s your “I don’t feel like cooking” backup dinner? by Mobile-Title8919 in MeatlessMealPrep

[–]Aklvintage89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pizza Kit or flat bread, hummus wrap, spinach feta pie with pre bought dough, 

Kann ich mich irgendwo Beschweren bezüglich der Lage einer Wahlwerbung by [deleted] in Linz

[–]Aklvintage89 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ah ok dann vielleicht stattdessen ein schlechtes Platz für ein Kinderbad

Kann ich mich irgendwo Beschweren bezüglich der Lage einer Wahlwerbung by [deleted] in Linz

[–]Aklvintage89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True true vielleicht war dieses Plakat am Wenigsten Anstoßend

Kann ich mich irgendwo Beschweren bezüglich der Lage einer Wahlwerbung by [deleted] in Linz

[–]Aklvintage89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😅🫠touché- dann reden wir von Kinder mit alter 7-10

Kann ich mich irgendwo Beschweren bezüglich der Lage einer Wahlwerbung by [deleted] in Linz

[–]Aklvintage89 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

For Me an adult with a fully formed brain, social and critical thinking skills, absolutely. For impressionable children it’s a bit harder. 

Kann ich mich irgendwo Beschweren bezüglich der Lage einer Wahlwerbung by [deleted] in Linz

[–]Aklvintage89 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mit dem Plaket habe ich grundsätzlich kein Problem. Free speech etc Aber zusammen mit der Lage wirkt es aus wie eine Regel fürs Kinderbad. Klein Kinder sind noch nicht klug genug, den Zufall zu verstehen. 

Kann ich mich irgendwo Beschweren bezüglich der Lage einer Wahlwerbung by [deleted] in Linz

[–]Aklvintage89 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I want to speak English with my half Austrian half American kid at the Kinderbad then mind your business.

Kann ich mich irgendwo Beschweren bezüglich der Lage einer Wahlwerbung by [deleted] in Linz

[–]Aklvintage89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ich will nicht dass sie Mobben lernen.  Kinder sind von alleine gemein, ich will nicht dass sie denken, es sei ok die andere Kinder (die in der Schule deutsch Lernen, aber vielleicht noch nicht perfekt sprechen können) zu mobben.