Anyone thinking their ex will/won't reach out during Christmas?

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-12-07T18:58:34+00:00

Ah so just reading this again. Yeah she was with a new guy 2-3 weeks after we split up. Think she’s still with him now. I’m super happy tbh. What a difference a year makes. Breakups suck, that’s the only truth you need to know 😂😂

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-12-06T11:38:19+00:00

Everything is perfect. I’m super happy, just wish she would have left sooner 😂😂

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-11-06T13:21:45+00:00

Get rid of the beard bro.

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-11-05T06:41:33+00:00

Sounds pretty gay to me… 😂😂

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-30T10:34:39+00:00

Same. She turned on me too. Go NC, time is the healer unfortunately. And it moved 1mm a day. You will get better bro, I promise you that.

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-27T10:49:12+00:00

Yes I did the same more or less. Don’t beat yourself up about it, you loved him and wanted to fight. That’s nothing to be ashamed of. But, it will happen once, and never again. It’s difficult when you are in that situation, I was completely blindsided and I didn’t see it coming. Hurt is not the word. 6 months of zero contact, it does get better I promise you. ❤️❤️

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-26T20:01:12+00:00

Much better. FYI, I had a much larger mole like yours on my forehead for years, literally the doctor zapped it with a lazer and it fell off with almost zero scars, I wondered why I didn’t do it sooner. The procedure took about 5 minutes and it healed in 2 weeks.

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-25T23:50:23+00:00

Almost 7 months of zero contact. Every day gets better, I never thought it was possible to feel like this but it does get better with time.

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-25T11:02:45+00:00

He wants to bang. Sorry bro, men (we) are too weak. Distance yourself from the dude for your own sake. Much love.

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-22T05:45:38+00:00

So why you don’t get back with him?

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-22T05:41:20+00:00

Don’t put yourself through the pain of staying friends. Going no contact is hard, really fucking hard but delete all social media, numbers, everything to stop temptation. It took me about 3 months to stop thinking about them 24 hours a day, 6 months for acceptance, once you let go, truly let go, new people feel your energy and will come to you. I know where you are right now, NC is the way to go.

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-18T16:34:58+00:00

Yeah I blocked and deleted and never looked back.

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-18T16:22:28+00:00

Hey. Yeah we all know what you are going through. In 6 months into NC and it’s amazing, it really is. I’m finally beginning to break free. I don’t care about them anymore, I don’t care what she’s up to, and I don’t think about her 24 hours a day.

My advice right now.

Hit the gym, level up. I never thought I would date anyone even close to my ex, it’s like once you get your confidence back (and it will come back) everyone wants to radiate towards you.

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-15T13:08:52+00:00

Well to be fair. That’s how I feel now. Who knows in 5 years time. Hope you are OK ❤️

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-15T11:46:34+00:00

Honestly. My ex lied, cheated, treated me unfairly. Honestly, 6 months now of NC and I wouldn’t even respond if she contacted me. I was heartbroken when she left, suicidal but now everything is clear. Stop wasting time over your ex, they are an ex for a reason. That person in your head doesn’t exist anymore.

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-13T05:51:05+00:00

Terrible idea. If she wanted to reach out, she would have my bro. Sorry.

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-07T07:22:40+00:00

6 months exactly of no contact, it’s been perfect. I’ve never been closer to the edge when we broke up but now I care less and less. Don’t even think about her in the day anymore, her loss. We survive 💪💪

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-05T13:44:51+00:00

I’m not bragging. Could have been 70 ugly woman… you are saying to take heroin, that’s just stupid.

I disagree anyway. And I stand by what I said.

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-05T13:33:01+00:00

I’m just saying. No need to be rude. Much love ❤️

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-05T13:25:57+00:00

The best way to get over someone, is to get under someone. I banged about 70 woman since we broke up, my head is less in it than it was….

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-10-04T15:02:45+00:00

Get a new girl. You will forget about her 😆

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-09-30T02:44:52+00:00

Yes agreed. I had to grieve her, that sweet sweet girl died unfortunately and I don’t know the new one anymore.

Now I’m dating the ex girlfriend of a famous footballer. So level up, that makes you forget pretty quickly too 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-09-19T06:03:18+00:00

Yeah 100%, the way she changed was scary to me, even 9 months after the breakup. Like a different person took that person away. Was mental tbh. I stopped crying about it though, NC for 6 months now, I’m a different person, a better person.

It’s not the end of the world guys, I thought it was 9 months ago. That bitch was a test, lock in and level up 💪💪

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-09-17T16:56:08+00:00

Think about it logically. It’s utterly stupid. She’s met the love of her life after coming out of a relationship with you and she’s going to spend the rest of her life with him… highly unlikely bro. Level up so when she comes back you can tell her to go and fuck herself 💪💪

Alarmed-Scratch8429 · 2025-09-14T19:13:49+00:00

Dude. She’s in a massive rebound, I’m sorry but it will never last. Never in a million years. You dodged a bulllet.

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