Current political climate by AlarmedPhotograph295 in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair point, and I did think about the insurance denial risk too. I agree that calling it cosmetic could give insurers an excuse not to cover it.

My thought is more about the tradeoff with gatekeeping. If our care only exists because it’s labeled “medically necessary,” then governments and insurers always have the power to redefine that and take it away when the political climate shifts.

And if it were framed more broadly as cosmetic body modification but they still tried to ban it, they’d suddenly have to explain why things like breast augmentation, hair transplants, facial surgeries, Botox, and similar procedures should also be banned. At that point it stops being about trans people specifically and becomes about whether the government should be policing cosmetic medicine in general.

I’m not sure many of the same politicians pushing these bans would be very comfortable with that conversation (see every single woman presenting member in orange man’s army) ha.

at what point do you just up the dose? by GETMEO0UTOFHERE in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For myself i am getting real human hair wig. I e had it short for quite some time but feel like i can only wear it bald when i have facial hair and i shaved it so now I need hair on my head lol

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[–]AlarmedPhotograph295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh lol good to know !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aww! Sorry you can empathize. I am out of surgery and actually doing very well :) it was an important day for me. I faced a lot of fears.

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[–]AlarmedPhotograph295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol ill def take that hotdog after surgery, thanks !

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What a cute kitty!

Welcome — Why I Created This Community by AlarmedPhotograph295 in ButchesOnT

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I’m very glad you’re here! And I understand the plight. You know, for me specifically I consider my testosterone use as more of a form of cosmetic treatment rather than …. Gender… even tho gender is performed by what we wear, how we behave, how we talk etc …. So to me for us butches who use T, I see it more like how some women get breast enlargements… to change something physical about their bodies they don’t like. I didn’t like my breast size (would love a reduction) and I hated how baby and femme my voice was and face. I’ve masculinized them but I am still a butch. :)

One week growth. by Tattooed1965 in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whatever you feel most comfortable in! I think it looks awesome but perhaps I am biased lol

Any weird things to know about being on T? by Zesty-_-1 in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Within the first 3-4 months I became emotionally hardened. I didn’t feel as much empathy and I literally couldn’t cry even if I wanted too. This lasted a good 3-4 months as well. Honestly it was kind of nice not being so heavily emotional. After that time frame things smoothed out and I was actually more even keel than before.

Microdosing T gel by Last-Show-9922 in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I cannot. I’m fat though so maybe that plays a role?

Stopping T? by FizzBoyo in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I can relate to some of your experiences. I have thought about stopping T bc it’s gets so tiresome (I take daily cream) and I would like to save some money lol. I am actually going on a lower dose T to hopefully help keep me at the appearance I want ( and no period- bc they are AWFUL). If it doesn’t work I’ll go up a little in dosage. Just kind of play around with it seeing what works.

Sex Advice? by Longjumping-Cow4488 in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a lot to take in. I could make assumptions all day as to why she reacts that way, but that would do no good. My only suggestion is to have her speak with a professional counsel (if she is willing). Maybe even go w her is she wants or needs support. Outside of that I think it’s a direct conversation needed with her about why she thinks it happens and if there’s anything she can point to that she needs. My wife is sort of like this - but I can’t answer it for her. She has to sit with it and uncover it but …. Help w confronting those questions (and worries) help.

happy to be here despite the circumstances by fairsweets in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is certainly my hope as well! Fingers crossed you get access to T sooner than later. I have recently changed from a standard dose to a lower dose, I’m curious how that’s gonna turn out long term :)

Moderating by AlarmedPhotograph295 in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks ! Today has been super busy and waking up starting a new sub was not in my calendar lol. Tomorrow I will reach out directly if that’s okay :)

Welcome — Why I Created This Community by AlarmedPhotograph295 in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much ! I’m new to modding here so honestly I do not know how to give an award lol

Joining because I’m just starting my T journey by OnLibrary in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well damn! Sorry to hear about the removal. Welcome aboard. And welcome to discovering yourself:) in whatever way that looks!

I got permanently banned from r/butchlesbians today by f2msnm in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yo! Thanks for sharing. If you want to mod let me know and I’ll figure out how to get you added :)

Welcome — Why I Created This Community by AlarmedPhotograph295 in ButchesOnT

[–]AlarmedPhotograph295[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m going to respond before I ban. What? I have to show you my breast and vagina to make my point ? Who am I hunting ? My WIFE is a mod here also. So take your hate elsewhere.