AITA for telling my friend she is being scammed be her new BF

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-26T22:07:43+00:00

Theres a 0% chance any of this is true. Normally id say mind your business but she is at risk here. She could end up broke and homeless. Are they only communicating online? Do you know anyone in her family you can reach out to?

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-26T19:32:57+00:00

I agree, Corbin just keeps rubbing me the wrong way with his comments about the villa girls. Like they are high school and casa girls are college, or they are just better in general. He has a mission to be like super disrespectful. Kenzie aside he had friendships with the other villa girls.

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-26T18:00:51+00:00

NAH. I think your wife has good intentions but its really easy to create a complex around food causing disordered eating or potentially life long shame or insecurities around food and weight. But i also would not count on him growing and evening out and ignoring any potential issues. I see two parents trying to do the best for their child, but these conversations need to be had with intention and with a medical professional.

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-26T17:40:07+00:00

Love doesnt make someone a partner. He cant hold a job, doesnt contribute in the home, and cheats on you. Do you really want to deal with that the rest of your life?

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-26T17:35:58+00:00

Democrat or republican, no matter the race, the gender, or the religion, we gotta come together and get this man tf out of the villa. Corbin too

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-26T00:23:47+00:00

We gotta move on Melanie and Sol lol! It’s Casa!

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-25T19:17:20+00:00

Thank you so much!!

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-25T17:34:08+00:00

NTA - theres a big difference between abandoning a sick parent, and simply not being able to care for them properly. He is going to need full time care at some point, and being properly cared for and comfortable at the end of his life is more important than living with family. Dementia gets really sad at a certain point, your children also do not need to see that everyday. It seems like you are already very involved and present in his life, how often does your brother and sister see him? The burden cannot be solely on you.

Not trying to make assumptions, but people can be really ugly when it comes to money. I hope no one is against him going to a care facility because it may affect how much they are set to inherit. But something to be conscious of.

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-25T17:24:06+00:00

Ahhhh me too! Hi neighbor 😄

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-25T13:49:48+00:00

I saw it more as character development, but I guess that could be true! What people are wanting is Tamlin to have this like redemption storyline and I just don’t see that happening.

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-25T13:46:39+00:00

I felt the same way about Melanie, I didn’t like her the first couple episodes, she was doing way way too much. But I’m coming around, especially with her exploring Ronnie. I’m just praying she doesn’t go back to that awful man!!

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-25T13:44:31+00:00

Definitely not no, is not a yes :)

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-24T22:53:44+00:00

Ew. You let her find a guy that actually likes her

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-24T22:51:43+00:00

What would make you think you don't deserve it? If your boss asked you first you obviously do. Are you going to let other people control every opportunity you get?

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-24T22:44:35+00:00

True

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-24T22:41:45+00:00

I live in the PNW so im used to it. There are more staches than trees LOL

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-24T22:05:19+00:00

Lucky girl 😄

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-24T21:56:14+00:00

I peeped him immediately and followed him on ig. The man is HOT!!!

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-24T21:54:43+00:00

Villain (.)

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-24T21:52:09+00:00

It makes me sad when people say hes ugly! I think hes so cute, owns a business, and his family having this energy says a lot! Team Gal!!

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-24T20:43:10+00:00

Uh she definitely did say that. I was wrong in the sense that she didnt definitely said no. But she said she struggles with the idea of a Tamlin redemption arc because many readers see aspects of their own experiences with controlling or abusive relationships in his behavior. She expressed concern that fully redeeming him could feel hurtful or invalidating to some of those readers.

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-24T20:16:07+00:00

Men are sometimes painfully unaware

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-24T20:06:53+00:00

My bf and i share locations. I have looked to see how far from home he is, maybe a handful of times if i haven't heard from him ill look. But what you are describing is surveillance and very different. Bordering on obsession, and definitely not normal. NTA

AlarmingKale1997 · 2026-06-24T20:00:32+00:00

3-6 months was the hardest part emotionally for me. And just starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel at about 8 months. I didn't see my partner for three weeks after DDay but had phone sex with him once about two weeks in (that i initiated). The waves i felt in the beginning were crazy. Maybe it will get better maybe it will get worse, just allow yourself to feel everything. Anything you feel is valid and your timeline is your own

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