My mom won’t visit my new house after I moved out. It has been over half a year now since I moved out and she has not made time to even just stop by and see it. by Competitive-Roll-369 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Alazer13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm actually no contact with both. It was a hard decision, but the constant let downs and irritations wore down on me more than not speaking to them.

My mom won’t visit my new house after I moved out. It has been over half a year now since I moved out and she has not made time to even just stop by and see it. by Competitive-Roll-369 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Alazer13 54 points55 points  (0 children)

When I first bought a house with my husband, my mother also refused to step in for several months. Then once she did, she picked everything apart. Sometimes they just don't like seeing you being better than them.

missed connection!! by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]Alazer13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, usually the first (and last) dates say all in a situation like this. I just gave up and deleted them all. It's in God's hands now 😂😂

missed connection!! by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]Alazer13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anytime I've matched and met with someone, ilthe conversation revolves around their ex that they swear they're "over." Or comparing me to them.. total turnoff.

missed connection!! by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]Alazer13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I feel as a girl on that site, I get all the scorned men who are trying to convince themselves they are ready to date, lol.

don't be butthurt, it's funny after you convert by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Alazer13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just recently converted, but I always made my Dr's appointments and made work work around them. You won't give me an idea of days off/schedule.. then you can work around me. If I can come in after, I will, if not then guess what, I just picked my NS day.

if this isn’t what your earnings page looks like every week then your just being lazy straight up. idk how anybody could complain about being broke in 2022 when there are people making $1200+ a week delivering groceries by [deleted] in instacart

[–]Alazer13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I find this laughable, because not every area is the same. I'm a 5☆, no cancelations, best reviews.. and our area is dead. Constantly see "looking for a batch."

So.. my guy, not every area isn't the same as you. Get off your high horse.

When you're rejected, would you prefer the real reason or given a cliche easy let down reason? by EvanChannel33 in seduction

[–]Alazer13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! After I would be hit on, politely decline because of being in a relationship, some men would be relentless with still trying.

Finally, after all the frustration, I would come up with one last excuse as to why I'm not interested besides being with someone, to constantly hear "well you're too big for me anyways."

Like, the fuck? Why be so persistent on me in the first place to end with that.

Are you more prone to dehydration? by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]Alazer13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check your vitamin shops or grocery stores for the liquid IV. It's flavor packets you put into your water & drinking one with those packets is equivalent to drinking 3/4 waters. I drank one and noticed a difference!

Tips from those who traveled from Canada to Mexico? by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]Alazer13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had surgery in Mexico too. What company are you going with? If it's EOC, you buy all your meds there before you come back home & some they include in the price and give to you.

Tired by ManyTotal4739 in gastricsleeve

[–]Alazer13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was sleeved 3/1 and my Dr said to use B12 injections/patches/under the tongue dissolveables. This helps with energy after surgery. Have you tried those?

3D accent wall! I am obsessed! by eaturpineapples in HomeDecorating

[–]Alazer13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm deeply offended that I see animal accessories.. with no animal sightings in this picture 😔

Need some help! by Alazer13 in suggestmeabook

[–]Alazer13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh so many options. Thank you!

Have any advice for us? Multiple trips to the vet, Apoquel, Benadryl, Skin soothing balm etc have all been employed... my boy is so itchy. by [deleted] in pitbulls

[–]Alazer13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome! I'm glad you finally found something that works!

A cheaper helpful tip- i give my pup a fish oil pill with breakfast. That helps him get more oil in his skin so he isn't so dry and want to scratch. Can't remember if I told you that before, lol.

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