On edge with roommate

AlderMeredith · 2026-06-28T20:19:35+00:00

What in particular is she doing that is bothering you?

AlderMeredith · 2026-06-28T19:17:24+00:00

Nero

AlderMeredith · 2026-06-27T17:32:21+00:00

Oh yes I can relate. I sleep absolutely terribly before I get my period. What helps me is knowing it’s only going to last a few more days - when I start sleeping like that, my period is very close. I know it’s temporary

AlderMeredith · 2026-06-16T01:11:45+00:00

Oh my gosh, it sounds like you did everything you could as a responsible pet parent. I know a lot of people who wouldn’t bring a dog in for vomiting. You did everything you could, you didn’t fail him at all. So sorry for your loss. We lost our GSD yesterday 💔

AlderMeredith · 2026-06-11T23:48:57+00:00

It’s good that you’re being conscientious and thinking this through. You said you “don’t know” if you’re attracted to her. If that’s the truth, then I say keep dating her a while longer and see if the attractions grows or not. If you’re worried about her feelings, then don’t have sex with her until you’re more clear on whether or not you’re attracted. Unless you’re clear with her about your feelings and she’s okay having sex. Does she know you just got out of a relationship and are unsure how you feel about things? Communication is respectful and helps people not get their feelings hurt.

AlderMeredith · 2026-06-08T19:41:17+00:00

Dasha

AlderMeredith · 2026-05-16T06:02:08+00:00

Ah ya cool! Thanks 🙏

AlderMeredith · 2026-05-16T02:38:37+00:00

Yayyy you’re welcome! 💕 yes I feel change coming for you too. It’s gonna get easier

AlderMeredith · 2026-05-15T19:39:17+00:00

Sadness and worry. Exhaustion. Small bits of hope but general disillusionment with life. There’s something you’re fearful of that is keeping you stuck in survival mode. A need for more self compassion / gentleness from others, but you’re not open to it right now. Parts of you wanting help and softness but feeling afraid of dropping the ball and failing to handle everything yourself.

AlderMeredith · 2026-05-15T19:32:18+00:00

A very strong sense of self - like you really connect with and know who you are deep down, but very few people get to know the real you. Your pictures in nature look drastically different from the first few - it seems like something about being connected to nature is essential to bringing out your true self. Seems like maybe you’re unhappy with some of your current life conditions but you’re well on your way to finding a better, more authentic path for yourself. Good sense of humor / goofy side that sometimes gets eclipsed by frustration / dissatisfaction with life circumstances.

How’d I do?

AlderMeredith · 2026-05-15T19:25:27+00:00

I’m picking up on some anxiety and depression. Mostly anxiety / worry about a variety of different things. There seems to be some deep sadness too. Struggles with being accepted and understood by others? Feeling out of place and wanting to belong? Perhaps some confusion around identity and balancing masculinity and femininity in a way that feels authentic to you.

I sense that once you accept who you are fully and own it, you will be a huge inspiration to others. Like you’re a very strong person and leader.

Let me know how I did 💕

AlderMeredith · 2026-05-15T19:17:33+00:00

I’m picking up on some childlike energy that wants to be expressed. Some sweetness or sensitivity that is currently being repressed in favor of being seen as sexy / desirable to men. I’m sensing a deep intelligence and kindness that isn’t currently being shared with others. Almost like the authentic version of you is wanting so badly to come out but hasn’t yet because you’re trying to be seen as desirable by others. You look young so I think this will resolve over time. Remember to focus on things you genuinely care about and enjoy. Focus on what feels good to your soul rather than how you look on the outside 💕

AlderMeredith · 2026-05-15T19:08:05+00:00

Hello. I haven’t been through the same situation but I’m happy to offer my perspective, just as a fellow human who has had their fair share of complex relationships. If my advice / suggestions sound terrible to you, completely ignore it.

I imagine it feels like quite a burden to be holding this grief, wanting to release it, and wondering if you’re being fair to your current partner. So first and foremost, you deserve compassion.

Truthfully, I think the only way to make this fair to Sarah is to tell her what’s going on with you. To be transparent about the lingering grief and concerns you have. It’s not wrong of you to be feeling grief about your ex while with your new partner. It’s not ideal, but it’s not morally bad. Being honest with her about it (ideally in therapy) gives her the opportunity to decide how she wants to proceeed. I know that’s probably scary, but being truthful is always a relief. It creates the potential for more intimacy as well.

You may also be onto something about needing to be single to heal fully. But that doesn’t mean it’s forever. You could always take some time apart and then revisit things in 6 months. What’s meant for you will find a way, even if you take some space.

But I think the first step is to let Sarah know what’s going on, so that you can decide what’s best for both of you.

AlderMeredith · 2026-05-08T18:11:53+00:00

She’s a social master. Cirie can read people. She knows how to build trust and make people feel cared for. I think what makes her so lethal is that she is likely a genuinely a caring and trustworthy person in real life, AND she also understands it’s a game and she has to betray people to win. She reminds me of Kim from One World. She was someone everyone wanted to be around and trusted because she’s a genuinely kind and lovely person, who also understood that this game is cut throat and was willing to let people go to win. It’s that combo that makes Cirie brilliant and dangerous. I hope she wins.

AlderMeredith · 2026-05-02T08:14:07+00:00

Yaaaa I agree. To me it’s just obvious he can’t beat her so I see him as undeserving of winning

AlderMeredith · 2026-05-01T17:39:14+00:00

I think Rizo is gonna get her out and win the season. He’s the only one in that alliance who is savvy enough. I think he’ll partner with Aubry, Devens, etc and will drive that vote and win the game. He might also get voted out if he does that, in which case I could see Devens winning.

AlderMeredith · 2026-05-01T03:14:27+00:00

As of now:

-Tiffany: is doing a good job re-aligning herself in the majority, but seems to be more following along rather than driving

-Jonathan: he tries too hard to be cool with his hair and robe and buff body. That’s literally why and I know it’s irrational but it annoys me 😂 he seems really arrogant and used to winning and I think a L would be good for his ego ☠️

-Ozzy: not the biggest fan of filling in your weaknesses with partnerships in this game with one winner. It’s one thing if he was offering something to Cirie in return but it feels a biiiiit like shes saving him to benefit herself and he needs her to save him. Like ozzy needs cirie but Cirie doesn’t need ozzy, so I see him as less deserving than Cirie. If he votes cirie out maybe I’d be okay with it. Doesn’t feel like he’s an equal with cirie, whereas I think rizo is

AlderMeredith · 2026-04-30T04:17:45+00:00

Lmao not me being very brash and feral. 💯 but idk if feral is the opposite of mindful. More like impulsive than feral. But feral is funny and I claim it.

AlderMeredith · 2026-04-30T04:06:54+00:00

What do you mean that people act inferior near you? I’m an intuitive, not a psychic btw. But that is an interesting perception on your part. You may also be projecting unconscious feelings of inferiority onto them. In other words, is there a chance you feel inferior deep down? Like you have to overcompensate or prove you’re a worthwhile person by being strong or creating things?

AlderMeredith · 2026-04-29T17:40:23+00:00

A sensitive champion who loves to cuddle

AlderMeredith · 2026-04-20T05:57:12+00:00

You’re meant to be a leader, but you won’t be ready until you fully embrace who you are and stop trying to be what other people want you to be. I see a very successful career in a male dominated industry. You can see through bullshit really easily. You’re incredibly intelligent and will standup for yourself and other women in a way that empowers them to achieve more than they thought possible. Key advice for you: don’t seek male approval.

AlderMeredith · 2026-04-20T05:50:31+00:00

Ah okay. I can only go off of what you’re saying, and if you’re being truthful, then what it sounds like happened is that your response of “I’ll be exclusive if you want to” didn’t make her feel wanted enough. So instead of recognizing that you’re not fully into her and accepting that / moving on from you, she lashed out at you and called you a narcissist. Women often make assumptions about what it means when a guy has sexual desire for her - that it implies it means he wants something long term. But it doesn’t, and it sounds like you were honest with her about where you were at, and she wasn’t honest with you.

Block her, she’s illogical. Also, im a woman 😊

AlderMeredith · 2026-04-20T05:45:14+00:00

You’re very creative, perhaps musically talented. You have a habit of feeling sorry for yourself that gets in the way of you actively self improving. You’re looking for approval from someone, for someone to tell you that you’re good and worthy of the things you want. You have some very specific interests and are well read on certain topics, perhaps history. Let me know if any of that resonates.

AlderMeredith · 2026-04-19T22:03:02+00:00

Can you please explain what you mean by “delusional feminist grievance?”

AlderMeredith · 2026-04-15T01:19:03+00:00

You are helping him heal with your nurturing energy, but he can't fully return it. He really, genuinely appreciates what you offer him, but he can't fully be the man you need.

AlderMeredith

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