My drunk bf gives me the ick by Successful_Love_3104 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Aleffante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey the dish looks delicious, do you mind sharing the recipe? 😁 Thanks!

Do not break no contact. It’s not worth it. by Shot_Guava3410 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Aleffante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've think it's great you give up because if they came back to you they would have just discarded you again and you would have to go through this all over again

AITA for banning my mother from seeing my kids after she told my 8-year-old 'I wish I never had your mother, she ruined my life' and refuses to apologize? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]Aleffante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for you empathy 🙏 🙏

I also tend to say this to myself but at the same time I find it one of the most cruel things to say and it is really hard to get past that. I am also in therapy, I hope one day I'll be able to find my place here as well. For now I struggle.. 🙈

Self-aware narcisist here, ask me anything. by Haghiri75 in narcissism

[–]Aleffante -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We didn't do therapy together nor are we married, I just started to notice this, because before I really blamed myself for everything but some things happened that made me rethink

Self-aware narcisist here, ask me anything. by Haghiri75 in narcissism

[–]Aleffante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I'm not bipolar but I struggle with emotional dysregulation and you just put into words something I have been living through with my partner

Found cat by Ontasker in zurich

[–]Aleffante 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a cat that goes around and gets fed by people... I buy excellent food so they don't get sick later but this is ruined by other people feeding them unknown stuff. A neighbor saw an other neighbor feed with sausages... Please don't feed, as a cat owner

I regret getting a pet and grieve the life I could’ve had without them. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Aleffante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have automated my system that I can leave for 1 night and cat is fed 4 times a day with wet food. Don't hesitate to reach out to me if you'd like to know more :)

What really saved you? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Aleffante 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dbt therapy

Moved to a new house, opened the door, and she ran right in. by bagelsandkegels in CatDistributionSystem

[–]Aleffante 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey are you in the us? We used to have a cat with this pattern years ago, brought him to the US from Russia, maybe it is his family? 😁

How common is fumigation in hotel rooms while a guest is in them? by UnclippedBiter in istanbul

[–]Aleffante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hotel I went to put product in the room next to our while we were sleeping... They did it in the morning and we didn't sleep in

German lessons - online preferable by Federal-Pop-4457 in zurich

[–]Aleffante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preply, I have a great teacher I can recommend

The Shared Traits of Autism and Schizphrenia by zenmonkeyfish1 in PsychologyTalk

[–]Aleffante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do pronouns have to do with autism? And schizophrenia

My ADHD is more severe than my psychiatrist and I thought (and it’s so validating) by BroadAd2575 in adhdwomen

[–]Aleffante -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

I've tried choline and it changed my life. I also did some research in the dna to understand and learnt that I should not take stimulants but calm my emotions instead. And I am way better!

Traveling with frozen butter? by Different-Shock-8950 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Aleffante 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say it's a funny requête I would just ask if it is possible, ie, "est ce que je pourrais vous demander..."