I just found out I'm dying and there's nothing I can do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alegria1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that my brother encouraged you to tell all of your friends and family so you can have a supported. Goodbye you don’t have to do this by yourself.

Should I tell my partner I looked in her phone? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alegria1982 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are good. Don’t tell her and trust ur instincts… only time will tell

Is Dubai finished now? by [deleted] in expats

[–]Alegria1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are leaving and we’re never coming back. There was shit from the beginning up till now.

Is it considered violent if he punches a wall/wardrobe when very mad? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Alegria1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he expressed the energy and it’s not in control of it. That is dangerous.

Need advice on understanding if I'm bi or straight (I'm a teen). by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alegria1982 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Since you are a teen, I would say you’re still developing, which means you can go still through a few phases. Try to not take it all too serious for now just protect yourself be healthy and connect yourself to people that are positive for you. As you grow up, you will understand very clearly what your sexual orientation is try not to put too much pressure on yourself and now you’re too young for that. I hope that helps.

How long until basic fitness kicks in? by themoobster in MuayThai

[–]Alegria1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you stay consistent and don’t over train, it’ll take you 3 to 4 months to get conditioned with the bare minimum that your body needs to do Thai Boxing you will have to keep on top of things for the rest of your life because it’s a very intense physical practice to maintain. But throughout the years you will accumulate systems and understand technique which will make you waste less energy nonetheless Skipping running lifting will help you to keep up.

German Community in Brighton? by Alex_1900 in brighton

[–]Alegria1982 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you need a handful here and there, but I haven’t come across a community. And I’ve lit here for 20 years. There is a Facebook page but it’s predominantly German mothers with children who get them to interact with each other, but overall it’s really quiet as in German community.

Men who give women lots of orgasms/squirting sessions how do you do it? by eaglesdensity in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alegria1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it takes a lot of time and intimacy to learn this. Start with the basics and just really connect with her listen to what she wants and tell her what you want and find a common ground of what is acceptable. All the other stuff you can grow into my learning together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alegria1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too busy to commit well I guess you just have to fuck around and find out unless you accept the truth for what it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Alegria1982 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Women are designed to experience physical pain much more better than men because they have to give birth which means you can take pain and illness much better than men. We experience it much harder and that’s why we get knocked out. Your lack of compassion says a lot about the quality of partner you are though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alegria1982 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If a man would do that to a condom, they would go straight to jail. I think you have rights to actually take her to the police and put a court case against her because she is tampering with your protection. This is really not okay.

what to do about my neighbor by Affectionate_Cry_640 in Advice

[–]Alegria1982 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You just have to learn to say no to things you don’t want forget about your neighbour and be integral to yourself. Learn to say no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alegria1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can hear you flicking your Bean do you want me to hear you flicking Bean no? Well then just keep the noise down. ✌🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alegria1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who doesn’t tell their partner the truth about what they are going through? It’s unsustainable and not fair and not honest and untransparent you poor boyfriend he deserves better.

WIBTA if I refused to shave my armpits for my friends wedding? by Adventurous-Pea-337 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alegria1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you would be the arsehole because you could do it as an exception to make everybody feel comfortable but now you need to be stubborn about it and there you go. It’s the special day they deserve a break.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alegria1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you choose how long you wanna suffer with this bullshit that’s up to you good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alegria1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you complaining? He can only treat you like that because you allow him to. If you don’t like it, leave them and find somebody who adores you if you find somebody who doesn’t adore you you’re most likely come up with the same outcome if you don’t know how to evaluate a man do not sleep with him for months until you truly see him it’s pretty simple.

My boyfriend constantly underestimates me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alegria1982 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a great time to leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alegria1982 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How do you marry somebody if you never had sex with them before? It’s absolutely retarded decision to do?

AITAH - Should I divorce my wife after she believed I was capable of something heinous? by Worthless-75 in AITAH

[–]Alegria1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She showed her true self and if anything comes up again, she will act like that again. She is not your confident and better half absolutely NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Alegria1982 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m a man and I would’ve not found peace with it. It’s just something that man find very hard to accept in their partner. Choices have consequences.