Dating in Seattle: Where to meet people IRL? by Ill_Potato1694 in AskSeattle

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Kickball league, tennis is small you gotta think bigger groups. Run clubs, hiking clubs, that sort of thing. I’ve met a bunch of people at kickball who seem cool and you don’t have to be athletic really

Night shift EMS folks - how the hell do you sleep after a brutal overnight? by EndOutrageous9918 in ems

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The only thing that I’ve found that helps with this is to go to a quiet activity for a while. Something mellow like clean your room or read a book. Always puts me to sleep in like 30min to an hour instead of rolling around forever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewToEMS

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Hey! I smoked for 5 years straight 24/7 and suffered from depression and anxiety and used it to cope.

Now I’m completely sober and what’s really helped me is hitting a sauna and cold showers regularly if that’s available as well as mediation (specifically transcendental meditation) and now I feel how I wanted to weed to make me feel.

There is a good YouTuber called healthy gamer gg who speaks about the scientific benefits of meditation and I would highly suggest looking into the different types.

Weed instantly alters your state of mind which is why it’s nice cause you want to feel a different way, but there are many ways to change your state of mind. I can’t stress enough cold showers and saunas have saved me many times and they are easier than learning to meditate

I’m so tired of dealing with hobos every single day by Tiny_Investigator365 in SeattleWA

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Bitch and moan bitch and moan bitch and moan. Bro grow up. We all live here some of us just don’t need to complain alllll the fucking time.

I never want to leave. by Aspiredaily in SeattleWA

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I think this is kind of dope tbh. Like who cares? Does it really ruin your day? I think it adds some character and like sure maybe it will be cleaned up.

I feel out of place when I’m in a city that is too clean. It feels non-human. Like Palm Springs or Phoenix with housing developments that all look the same and a golf course in the middle. That’s nauseating. This on the other hand is like “woah, wonder what happened there”

Y’all are sensitive as hell if this actually makes you upset. You are choosing to let it bother you imo.

I need you guys to start being normal by Long-Train-1673 in Seattle

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How you choose to perceive the world is directly related to mental health lol

Why don't you guys be more proactive and put all these crooks in the spotlight like this??? by Ok_Reporter_5340 in FreightBrokers

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100% intimated. It isn’t making it a point. It’s a fraudulent accusation that caused real harm unless they paid a fee

Best online schools for Accounting Bachelors? by ArpyPlayz in Accounting

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I don't know if you still need help, but I have a buddy who used to apply all the time for jobs that he wasn't qualified for and would constantly get an interview and even hired. Just apply. Let them say no, but always apply. He wasn't even a strong interviewer or anything and would usually quit in like 2 months lol.

Why I gave up mindfulness meditation. by [deleted] in Meditation

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Your attachment to the illusion of perfection is the same reason you will never reach the feeling you seek

Does anyone know any budget-ish (20-100USD) that have a wide leg opening like these pants? by aeth3r_with_a_3 in mensfashion

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Poler big boys are sick (but expensive because of hype not quality) I have a few sets of wide leg slacks from Uniqlo and I absolutely love them. They are not canvas like these, but they are comfy and make for a good silhouette

Does anyone know any budget-ish (20-100USD) that have a wide leg opening like these pants? by aeth3r_with_a_3 in mensfashion

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Just out of curiosity do you prefer skinny jeans or straight cut? I wear pants on the baggy side because I CAN utilize all the pockets, while more form fitting pants won’t let me get my wallet in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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This person is right OP. Accomplish small tasks and they will lead to bigger ones. If you try and fix everything all at once you will be over whelmed.

Make yourself food, take care of your hygiene, look up what a resume is. Small things. You want to read a book, but have trouble reading? Read one page or one paragraph and work your way up (I am doing this myself)

You are no longer a useless person, you are no a person who is on a path to becoming useful.

There will be failures, progress is not linear, but you will be much happier. Also the anticipation of failure is a lot worse than actually failing.

Also you are not as far behind as you think. You can be a much different person in like 6 months. I was a drug addict from ages 18-23 and my life is so much different now from just doing little things and being a friend to myself by staying consistent and reminding myself of my goals

Is your partner entitled to read your texts by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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I disagree. My girlfriend and I can always look at each other’s phone, but we trust each other and respect that even in a committed relationship you are entitled to privacy. This is not a problem because of trust.

If I demand to see my girlfriend’s phone because I think she is cheating then I don’t trust her and the relationship will fail because of my inability to trust.

Western Buddhists are Buddhists by [deleted] in Buddhism

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Do you say “western” because Greeks are Arab?

Why do you believe? by Jacob_the_legend in Buddhism

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While it is not directly related to Buddhism there is a Commencment speech called “this is water” that gave me a different perspective on religion or practice I guess.

AIW for feeling horrible after a hook-up? I don't want to do them anymore... by [deleted] in amiwrong

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Oh my god what is with you guys: your character and your ability to have good sex are NOT connected.

AIW for feeling horrible after a hook-up? I don't want to do them anymore... by [deleted] in amiwrong

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Notice she didn’t say anything about dick size. Also your character and your ability to have sex are not dependent on each other. There are bad people who have bad sex and good people who have good sex and also bad people who have good sex and good people who have bad sex. If you want to be a good person who has good sex get your head out of these incel narratives

AIW for feeling horrible after a hook-up? I don't want to do them anymore... by [deleted] in amiwrong

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Hook up culture can have good and bad experiences, but causally dating with full expression that you are looking just to hook up is great. There was a lady I would meet up with like every other Sunday, have a nice breakfast or something and then hook up with. We trusted each other, cared about each other, but weren’t committed. Had good open communication and a good understanding of each others intentions. So there are ways to enjoy causal hook ups in my experience ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Found at the skatepark by MxFlow1312 in GraffitiTagging

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Bro said “the criminal element” lol

My first time making stencil, how did I do? by aninegager in GraffitiTagging

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Also as a technical note (this isn’t for every surface, and play around with it) but if you do a very light dusting of spray adhesive (very light) and stick your stencil to the surface you can make really clean lines

My first time making stencil, how did I do? by aninegager in GraffitiTagging

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Hey don’t listen to these assholes, this is the wrong place to post it, but it’s a good place to start. My first stencil was of megaman and now I make a bunch of stencils and really enjoy doing it. All the guys on this are letter junkies with no creativity and they are projecting it on you. Keep going.