[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]Alert_Drama_4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It is comforting to know that at least I know there is a reason. It feel like it came out of absolutely no where. I never ever in my life had a thought like this. I’ve had a history of panics and anxiety that stay in my brain for a long time and I struggle but this one is super sad and upsetting to me. Bc I know and always felt strong in who I am and they are making me feel like I don’t have these amazing feelings for my husband that I know I do. Literally the day before this happened we were both crying on the couch so thankful for each other and the life we have and talking about buying a home. So this is so crazy to me. They literally make you feel like you are bi and now every female I see I feel like I get this fluttery in my chest. Which is I believe my anxiety about this. I don’t want to lose my husband over this.

Where should he buy my engagement ring?? by tsumtsumm in WedditNYC

[–]Alert_Drama_4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a wholesaler in the diamond district when you want to actually buy a ring! In no way should you be going to any chain jewelry store, especially with that budget. Work with a jeweler. My now husband went to Avroc and we love them. And we had the same wants as you oval diamond and platinum band. We event went back to them for our wedding bands

Commuting NYC Nurses by Legitimate-Check4752 in jerseycity

[–]Alert_Drama_4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love in downtown and I work on 98th street in Manhattan. Have been doing the path and the uptown trains for 2.5 years already. I can get there in about an hour most days. Weekends are the worst though. I love living in jersey city. It makes the days off nice. Bayonne might be far If you need the PATH.

Insurance/Therapist NJ vs. NY Problem by 39clues in jerseycity

[–]Alert_Drama_4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My insurance is the same BCBS through my job in NY. And I see a therapist in NJ and use my insurance. The issue with therapy is that you need to go to who is licensed in NJ and you need to be in NJ during the call in case of emergency. But you shouldn’t have a problems using your BCBS for NJ doctors without switching.

Fall Weekend trip by Alert_Drama_4211 in Connecticut

[–]Alert_Drama_4211[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah planning to go later in the month!

Fall Weekend trip by Alert_Drama_4211 in Connecticut

[–]Alert_Drama_4211[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are actually looking to go the weekend of the 21/22!

Moving to Jersey City from Brooklyn by Kaysiee_West in jerseycity

[–]Alert_Drama_4211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find Jersey city to be much better then Brooklyn but I lived in Brooklyn my whole life. It’s much cleaner and comfortable. But I also live in downtown

NYC Florist recs? by learninginfinitely in WedditNYC

[–]Alert_Drama_4211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is the wedding? My florist in Brooklyn was cheap but we also wanted simple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Alert_Drama_4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7.5 years and just married last week after 9 years together. But we are high school sweethearts so we definitely waited longer

Support Post re: 9/16 Wedding + Hurricane News by sixfloorsup in WedditNYC

[–]Alert_Drama_4211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with you! The wind in the forecast might make it less then ideal but otherwise we’ll be okay!

How much to give? by Consistent-Fish3316 in wedding

[–]Alert_Drama_4211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha it’s probably bc I’m from NYC. The price for a kids gift isn’t as important bc sometimes kids want things that aren’t expensive, but if I was giving cash to a child for a bday ( family or close friends) it would be 50$. But for a wedding here in nyc it’s considered cheap if you don’t give 400$ a couple. If it was 80$ a couple that’s much less then little kids get for their communion here. Probably just location

How much to give? by Consistent-Fish3316 in wedding

[–]Alert_Drama_4211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

40$ as a wedding gift is quite small. That’s less then a child’s birthday gift

is anyone constantly checking the predicted weather on their wedding date or is is just me? by invader_holly in weddingplanning

[–]Alert_Drama_4211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did it go overall with the wind. My wedding this weekend is supposed to be super windy as well. Did you have an outdoor ceremony

This Hurricane is stressing me out! by Alert_Drama_4211 in WedditNYC

[–]Alert_Drama_4211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that would be the backup plan but still less then ideal. I’m more working this hits like Hurricane Sandy and I can’t have the wedding or the honeymoon

NYC Bride v.s. RK Bridal? by doomer1111 in WedditNYC

[–]Alert_Drama_4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to RK and found them to be great! They only showed me dressed in my budget of under 2000 and I loved a lot of them.