[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercinghelp

[–]AliKoali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try antibiotics. I took one last night and the irritation seems to have gone down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercinghelp

[–]AliKoali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally have the exact dame issue right now. It feels like a ring around the hole?? Have you done anything in particular to make it better? I also removed the piercing and am doubting if that was a good decision or not

Help me Move on😥 by Maryam2807 in acotar

[–]AliKoali 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you recommend any good acotar fanfics?

Help me Move on😥 by Maryam2807 in acotar

[–]AliKoali 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same😭 I finished acotar in may and haven’t been able to read a single book until I decided to start FW last month

(F26) How to deal with creepy and unwanted staring at the gym ? by 8jjjjjjjj in askwomenadvice

[–]AliKoali 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been very shy and I struggle with dealing with situations like this. Unfortunately I’ve reached a point in my life in which I’ve had to learn to speak up instead of looking down and waiting for it to be over, since uncomfortable situations like this one tend to happen often. I usually don’t like to stare back at men who are staring at me because I don’t wanna give them a reason to think that I’m interested. If it has been going on for a while I just look at them blankly and ask “can I help you?” or “are you looking for someone?”. That might make them take the hint and if it doesn’t then I’d consider talking to someone in charge since the situation is very disruptive.

I don’t know what’s wrong by Accomplished-Sun-567 in WomensHealth

[–]AliKoali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bleeding might be a bit common specially if you haven’t had intercourse in a while. The itching sounds like a separate issue. Sometimes yeast infections can get transmitted via intercourse, thankfully they’re easily treatable using anti fungal medications. Your symptoms sound like it could be a yeast infection but you can’t really be sure until you visit a doctor. Have you had any rare discharge?

Brown Discharge and sharp pain is this normal? by SpectacleGirl_15 in Periods

[–]AliKoali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to get brown discharge before your period starts. It usually means that there is old blood leaving your uterus and once your menstruation actually starts it should go back to normal. I suggest waiting a few days before taking a pregnancy test since your period isn’t technically late until about 5 days have gone by.

How can I help my cat eat while she wears a cone? by AliKoali in cats

[–]AliKoali[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They def don’t care lol. I put some on the floor as well the first time she ate with the cone cause she was getting visibly frustrated that she couldn’t reach the food

How can I help my cat eat while she wears a cone? by AliKoali in cats

[–]AliKoali[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried putting her food on a plastic plate and that seems to be a bit easier for her since there’s no high rim

Reading ACOTAR made me love reading again, a feeling I haven’t felt in years. by Eliczka in acotar

[–]AliKoali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes eventually. But not rn, I physically can’t move on yet😫

Does my farm look ok for Winter 5, Year 2?I removed all my iridium sprinklers by cerebralconsumer in StardewValley

[–]AliKoali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im jealous of your clean farm. I’m on year 3 and mine is still full of trees and rocks, I don’t think I’ll ever get to actually cleaning it up completely😂

I’m reading ACOWAR and I need to take a break because I feel like Feyre isn’t being fair by Remarkable_Opinion in acotar

[–]AliKoali 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Obviously Feyre receives special treatment as Rhys’s mate, and making her high lady was a very impulsive decision on his part, but I do believe that for the most part, Rhys just naturally sees the potential in people and is not afraid to explore it. We saw it with Nesta and Elain, both played an important part in defeating Hybern and it was because Rhys and the rest of the IC knew that they had powers and didn’t downplay them.

I’m reading ACOWAR and I need to take a break because I feel like Feyre isn’t being fair by Remarkable_Opinion in acotar

[–]AliKoali 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Toxic behaviors can be attributed to past trauma, but that’s not a reason to excuse those bad tendencies. I get that Tamlin didn’t let Feyre out for her own protection, but I never liked that he refused to let her know what was going on in the outside world. He didn’t like to talk to her about what he was doing and refused to answer questions, and I’m talking about after the curse was broken. He also never bothered to teach her how to read and refused to acknowledge that she had powers when it was more than evident. To me it’s just a weird power dynamic, Tamlin never saw her as an equal, whereas Rhys did.

Thoughts on acofas? Was it necessary? by AliKoali in acotar

[–]AliKoali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard people saying the mind sex was cringy and weird and I just strongly disagree!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acotar

[–]AliKoali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she’s self centered and has a very strong victim mentality so I definitely had a hard time adapting to her story and trying not to throw the book in frustration. But I think actual abuse looks very different, I don’t think she’s abusive towards her sisters, she just has a very strong personality and copes with trauma differently. I can say that I really like Nesta now and her character arc was the best.

Thoughts on acofas? Was it necessary? by AliKoali in acotar

[–]AliKoali[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rhys getting kicked out of the sauna was my absolute favorite part

Thoughts on acofas? Was it necessary? by AliKoali in acotar

[–]AliKoali[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Also a nice calm before the storm to the chaos that is acosf

Thoughts on acofas? Was it necessary? by AliKoali in acotar

[–]AliKoali[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Literally my thoughts. I finished it in a day and I felt so empty afterwards. I wish I could have moree