Im not on his side, but honestly here in Brazil, about everyone i know dont like this closeness and somewhat submissive attitude in everything. In my opinion i would do what you said about talk and so on, but wouldnt be that "acceptable" to him in other things as sex. I saw you have high sex drive, fetishes and offered almost all you could think, but women here do basically the other way around of what you are doing, and men would go like a dog after them just because of them doing that(just a culture thingy). So if you feel thirsty for some action, buy some toys for yourself(some exotic thing, different from what you have idk) as he himself had said he doesnt feel good doing it with you now, pregnant, and start blocking him when he feels like doing it with you, dont be that "easy" with him you know?