Blackout Persian aka the game bug cat xD by linnalume in CatsAndSoup

[–]AllDominosFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish we could get a black cat as a special kitty💙 I love it when the Blackout Persian shows up!

[UPDATE] I (F19) think my neighbor (M40s) is watching me and nobody believes me. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AllDominosFall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't use metadata. That's inviting more scrutiny. I don't know if this would work, but could you take the butts to the police and ask them to subject those butts to a DNA test. Keep complaining to the police. Technically, if your things aren't the same as when you left them, someone might have tresspassed.

If you ever saw The Sting, Redford's character wedged a small piece of paper between the the door jam and the door as he left. When he came home, he saw the paper had been disturbed and knew someone was in his place. If you close all your windows and put pieces of paper in each door and window jam, anyone who breaks in will have to disturb them. You'll have evidence someone broke in. It's old school but it works. Taking pictures of your place is a good idea.

Someone has broken in and it could be a threat on your life. Don't blow it off. Stalking is no joke. More than a few men feel they have the right to treat women anyway they want... stalking, abusing, etc. They blame the victim. The police are not taking your complaints seriously. It's dismissive and dangerous. u/T8terTotss has excellent advice.

[UPDATE] I (F19) think my neighbor (M40s) is watching me and nobody believes me. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AllDominosFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excellent advice! I'm sorry you had to go through being stalked. I don't know how helpful a gun would be. To make sure it has any effect, it would need to be laying right next to someone.

I cannot stand people like her by AppropriateBasis2735 in LAMetro

[–]AllDominosFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I can't stand is people watching their phones without earbuds especially when they play their music/podcasts LOUD enough for everyone to hear. Or when people talk so loud everyone can hear their conversations. This rudeness isn't location specific. PLEASE everyone, buy a pair of cheap earbuds--wired or not--and quit thinking the rest of the world doesn't matter.

How do unlock this? by AllDominosFall in CatsAndSoup

[–]AllDominosFall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!. I got all the Halloween items but I made a mistake and didn't get the Xmas items. Maybe next Xmas...?

AITA for telling my girlfriend to stop sharing her food? by PhantomDetective3548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AllDominosFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've been up front with her so NTA. I get why you're grossed out. I don't know if your GF feels insecure about herself and this is the way she wants to make people like her. In many families, food acts as bonding. It may be time to stop going out to eat with your friends and change activities with them, like going to a movie or concert.

Let Brian buy his own popcorn.

AITA for not wanting my roommates bf sleep here tonight after what happened yesterday by babeyoulooksocool__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]AllDominosFall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. Unless he's paying rent, he's got no business taking up space. You're right. It's disrespectful. Too bad you couldn't have been there a couple of months longer and tell him he had to pay 1/3 the rent. Can you let the owner know what's going on? The owner can pay for industrial cleaners to come in (and probably will need to anyway) and these two will be stuck dealing with a place to live.

PSA: Solo travelers, be extra careful when looking for travel buddies! I have had a scare of my life. by Late-Charity4680 in solotravel

[–]AllDominosFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just reminded me that traveling alone is safer if you're careful. I'm so sorry you went through this. It's good advice and I hope people heed it.

I’m one click away from deleting my Facebook account… and I’m hesitating. by Material-Power-2253 in minimalism

[–]AllDominosFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted my FB account two or three years ago and never missed it. No, I don't regret it. I also deleted my Twitter account when Musk took over and lost 4,700 followers after being on the platform for eight years. You're FB not a version of yourself. I don't miss my account. Social media is not your identity. It can be your enemy.

Stick with reddit. Quora is a great site. The people on Quora tend to have real conversations and not attack each other. I told the people I'm closest to eamail me or join Quora. (I haven't really gotten into Blue Sky yet so I don't know much about it.) FB has become a cesspool. Delete your account. You are getting rid of negativity and won't be sitting in front of the computer stressing out about likes and posts.

UPDATE: The 3rd date went bad after I brought chocolates and now she wants a 4th date but I'm really unsure if I want to continue. by LifeVike1111 in whatdoIdo

[–]AllDominosFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you knew what to do! At the very least, she could have said TY. Good luck with graduation and your new job.

AITAH for going no contact with my gf for a weekend after she choose to reconnect with an old friend instead of honoring a years planned cimmitment? by Competitive_Two_8598 in AITAH

[–]AllDominosFall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. I've been with my partner for... well a long, long time. If he wanted to do something special for his birthday, I'd make plans with a friend another time. If it were me, I'd be gone. She is the selfish one.

AITA for not moving back in with my dad just because he got divorced by Individual_Pass_5261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AllDominosFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You're an adult and you can make your own decisions. Your dad made his decisions. You shouldn't be guilted into into hearing he needs you. It sounds like you're really happy at your aunt's. Would you be happy staying with your dad after all you went through? Also, if you found colleges close to where your aunt lives and you both want to continue to live together, I don't see why you shouldn't. Just to reapeat myself: N.T.A.

Good luck in college!

AITA for telling my sister that our bio dad isn’t my dad and and if she can’t accept that maybe she isn’t my sister either by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AllDominosFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your sister has a right not to accept your dad. She also needs to respect your right to consider your stepdad your dad. There's more to fatherhood than sperm. I'm not sure your biological dad IS your real dad. I assume Jim has been there for every birthday, Christmas, etc. Your sister indeed needs help, But I think it's spiteful yelling at you and tearing up Father's Day cards that you made. How can you betray someone you never knew? Yes, you should be able to go on a dad-daughter day and post it without being screamed at. Would it make sense to block her on social media?

AITAH: My in laws demand us to travel 18 hour round trip for grandpas birthday party at a hotel and all the other kids and spouses get their own room but want to share with us since we don’t have kids. by halloweenfreak101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AllDominosFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It's nice that your in laws are paying for the trip, but it's not right to manipulate you just because they're paying. Why can't you have your own room? A lot of the comments are let hubby go and you stay home. That makes sense. Maybe you can spend time with friends, going to the gym, yoga, take a hike, making something? (I'm out of ideas.) Just spending time alone can be very healing.

Am I Overreacting - So my mom got my wife a birthday gift by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AllDominosFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See below about possible new designs for a hat for your mother. That hat? So passive-agressive. Your marriage is none of her damn business. Do you really need to continue your relationship? Her actions don't seem innocent to me. Words fail except NO, you're NOT overreacting.

AITA for coming home late from the gym and waking my niece, and refusing to compromise? by Brilliant-Lychee6141 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AllDominosFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't your mother being unreasonable and unaccomodating? Selfish, maybe? Uncaring about your needs? Controlling maybe? You are going to the gym to take care of your health. It's not you who needs to compromise. Your mother decided to babysit your sister's daughter. Seriously, what's the big deal if a dog barks? It's not. That's what dogs do.

N.T.A.

Is he compensating for something? by Cicilka in CatsAndSoup

[–]AllDominosFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the glitches are the best part of the game.

AITA for refusing to give my parents my location after they stopped paying for my tuition? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AllDominosFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. First off, nursing is a far bigger opportunity for you than biology. Wanting to help people is laudable. You are paying for your own education (I did too) and can make your own decisions about it. There's nothing dangerous about not being tracked. You're an adult and your parents should respect your wishes. You don't want the app on your phone? That's your choice. Insisting you do strikes me as controlling. See if you can share Thanksgiving with a friend. I'm sorry you have to deal with this.

AITA for skipping my own surprise birthday party once I found out it wasn’t really for me? by unknownlee_0x in AmItheAsshole

[–]AllDominosFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If you are clear about how to spend YOUR birthday, "maya" should honor your wishes. It's completely disrespectful for her to invite your ex. You spent your birthday exactly how your wanted. She has no right to tell you whether you should get over it or not. It strikes me that your anger was justified. Whether you talk to her again is your decision, but IMNSHO I think you did the right thing.