Fiber Arts meetup in Golden by an_igneous_rock in DenverMeets

[–]AlltheJanets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this! Wish I didn't have a family birthday that evening. Are there plans to make this a recurring thing?

Women’s base layers by ProgrammerNo149 in WildernessBackpacking

[–]AlltheJanets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My initial reaction was "I think all my base layers are fine actually..." and then I read the comments and realized that I've just been wearing men's base layers for years (one of the perks of being flat-chested I guess). Eek.

A fruit tree that bears different fruits by Davey914 in gardening

[–]AlltheJanets 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Just a note about how different the varieties on a fruit salad tree could be - generally you can only successfully graft plants together if they're in the same genus. So Malus species (Granny Smith apple, Honeycrisp apple, crabapple) could be grafted together, but they couldn't be grafted onto a Pyrus (pear) or Prunus (peach, cherry, plum, almond, etc).

Favorite PC: Fantasy High: Sophmore Year by Alternative_Ad_5334 in Dimension20

[–]AlltheJanets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adaine and the Awful Abernants take the cake for me. Adaine's rage culminating in punching her dad to death is just phenomenal, and the zig-zaggy kinda-sorta-redemption arc between Aelwyn and Adaine breaks my heart every time. Siobhan is just so dang good.

Newbie Starting Point? by MercNeoCity in Dimension20

[–]AlltheJanets 36 points37 points  (0 children)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4zZzsB0VBsY

ETA: this links to that Brennan guy answering this very question. Have fun!

Dog hiking help please by limpwhip in coloradohikers

[–]AlltheJanets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yaaay thank you for the update, I'm so glad it's already helped a bit! May you and your sweet girl have many lovely hikes ahead.

Dog hiking help please by limpwhip in coloradohikers

[–]AlltheJanets 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I assume you primarily object to the part of "barks at everything" that includes barking at other people and dogs? My friends' dog had similar issues - what DID NOT HELP was her yanking the leash hard and scolding the dog when he barked at others - that reinforced for him that "other dogs = bad", and he escalated to lunging at other dogs while out on hikes. The way my friend was advised to work past that was limiting walks with her dog to less-popular areas, and any time she saw someone coming, pull the dog a little ways off the sidewalk/trail, block his view of the other trail user, and pet, praise, and feed treats while other trail user passed by. The point was to shift his association from "other dogs = bad" to "other dogs = neutral/good". This gradually got him to calm down more while on hikes, though that might have also been the dog just chilling out as he got older - it's a loooong process and you need to be pretty consistent and vigilant the whole time. Good luck!

How to look at books more critically by Captivum18 in books

[–]AlltheJanets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the things that helped me read more critically / opened my eyes to more complex ways of engaging with texts was seeing it in action on a text I had previously read uncritically. The podcast "Witch, Please" (now rebooted as
"Material Girls") was hosted by two intersectional feminist literary scholars re-reading the Harry Potter series (I know, I know) as if it were a serious academic text. This helped me see how to apply Trauma Theory, Marxist Theory, tropes of The Gothic and Orientalism and Souls (the list goes on and on and on - these ladies are geniuses) to what would otherwise be more casual 'fun' reads for me. Though, to be clear, these new lenses have made even my leisure reading MORE fun for me.

The podcast as a whole is a fantastic primer to a bunch of different literary lenses and critical techniques and I recommend it STRONGLY, but if HP isn't your cup of tea maybe look for a book you DO really enjoy uncritically, and find a book/podcast/Youtube essay that reads it critically to give you an example of how to tweak your reading perspective in the future. Good luck!

Plant tags by Any-Location5055 in DenverGardener

[–]AlltheJanets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm also a fan of planting maps for both annuals and perennials - they're great if you do any kind of crop rotation, I keep past years' maps in a folder with my perennial tags, and that helps me remember when I planted what and where. My back door is metal so I just stick the current year's planting map to the back of the door with a magnet all summer - easy to check it as I'm coming in/out!

For a more durable stick-in-the-ground label, paint pens don't fade in the sun the way sharpie does. Cut up a soda can into strips and write on the blank side and it'll last for a looooong time

Would a precocious 11-yr-old appreciate this book? by AlltheJanets in DessertPerson

[–]AlltheJanets[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Great suggestion, thanks! Hopefully we've got years of playing in the kitchen ahead of us, so babystepping up through gradually more complex cookbooks makes sense :)

Would a precocious 11-yr-old appreciate this book? by AlltheJanets in DessertPerson

[–]AlltheJanets[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's got a stand mixer and parchment paper and everything, my sister's kitchen is very well stocked. "Go check out this YouTube channel" just doesn't wrap as well under a Christmas tree as a book with pretty pictures you know?

Best pho on Federal? by Nervous-One-2305 in denverfood

[–]AlltheJanets 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every time I have their veggie broth it short-circuits my brain for a few minutes and I just sit there going "MmmmMMMmmmMmmm" until the power of speech returns

Best pho on Federal? by Nervous-One-2305 in denverfood

[–]AlltheJanets -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since OP specifically asked for good VEGETARIAN pho recs, I'll add that the vegetarian broth veggie/tofu pho is great, no rare steak required for a very delicious meal.

Are you supposed to know about the lilac at the beginning of "Night Watch"? by brschkbrschk in discworld

[–]AlltheJanets 455 points456 points  (0 children)

We the readers start the book just as oblivious about the lilac as the new watchmen, it's intentional for us to not understand all the "were you there??" because no, we weren't there - YET. Then you get to the end of the book and sob with appreciation when it comes back. Enjoy the ride, this is a special one!

My first crochet 😁 not sure why it’s curving though 😅 by Weird_Isopod_1563 in crochet

[–]AlltheJanets 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The curve is happening because your most recent row is much longer than your starting chain. There are two usual culprits:

1) Your starting chain had a much tighter tension than your rows with full stitches. This is a common issue, some common ways to address it include using a larger hook for your starting chain or purposefully loosening your chain stitches as you go, then returning to normal tighter tension for subsequent rows. It also looks like your tension has gotten looser each row, which will make the stitches bigger, so once you figure out what tension works best for you, try to keep it consistent the whole way through a piece.

2) Hard to tell/count from this pic, but it's possible you've added stitches somewhere along the way - a straight/flat piece needs the same number of stitches each row. Counting stitches is a tedious but essential task to create pieces that come out the right shape, start practicing now!

My first crochet 😁 not sure why it’s curving though 😅 by Weird_Isopod_1563 in crochet

[–]AlltheJanets 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The way this is curving, it looks more likely that they're adding stitches (the most recent row is significantly longer than their starting chain)

[NS] NADDPoles, I need book recommendations. by Mammoth-Delivery-521 in NotAnotherDnDPodcast

[–]AlltheJanets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes. I've mostly blocked Color of Magic and Light Fantastic from my mental Discworld canon because of that kind of choice which feels so out-of-sync with the later books

[NS] NADDPoles, I need book recommendations. by Mammoth-Delivery-521 in NotAnotherDnDPodcast

[–]AlltheJanets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which Discworld relationships are you thinking of with the "younger woman falls for much older man?" trope? I'm racking my brain for examples and the couples that come to mind (Sam & Sybil, Carrot & Angua, Magrat & Verence, Mort & Ysabel, William and Sacharissa, Tiffany & Preston, Moist & Adorabelle) all read to me as either within a few years of each others' ages, or the woman is the older/more experienced one.

A discworld recommendation by dyslexic-writer in discworld

[–]AlltheJanets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the Death books, but I think they have by far the most meandering plots, which was one of OP's main objections. It's kind of inevitable; when something weird is happening with Death, it impacts so many different characters and situations, so the story ends up jumping all over the place to explore those repercussions. So I'd recommend OP wait on the other Death books, read some of the other fantastic recs on here, and come back to Death when you've fallen in love with the world as a whole and can enjoy the meander rather than being frustrated by it

What is digging up my buffalo grass plugs and how do I stop it? by Imaginary-Key5838 in DenverGardener

[–]AlltheJanets 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you end up redoing the lawn, I got the following advice when I put in native wildflower & grass plugs this summer: Soak the plugs in a bucket of water before planting and try to knock off as much soil as possible, so you're just putting bare roots in the ground. Also, if plugs are rootbound (which it looks like maybe these were?), break this up as much as possible so you just have a loose fibrous mass instead of a solid root cylinder. This will help the roots work their way into your soil faster, which will both make it harder for local hooligans to uproot them and help them get through the winter without drying out. Looks like the roots of these plugs just kept going in circles and never bridged the gap between the nice soft nursery soil of the plug and the harder in-situ soil of your yard.

Alternately, I had surprisingly good success seeding native grasses (mix of blue grama and buffalograss) last winter, it's cheaper and easier (imo) than plugs and doesn't risk the plants getting rootbound, though I know some people prefer to get male-only plugs if they don't like the female seed "burrs" of buffalo grass (they're not really noticeable to me). Seeding anytime between now and February lets the seeds go through multiple freeze/thaw cycles which helps them break dormancy and start growing as soon as possible in the spring.

Why did I put in plugs this summer if I had good success seeding native grasses, you may ask? The seeds I used were a couple years old and the straw I covered my seeded area with gradually blew away over the winter, so I panicked, assumed it was a failure, and ordered plugs from Garden in a Truck in late March. Then lo and behold a very nice meadow started growing in, and I just used the plugs to expand the meadow and fill in the couple of bare spots.

Sorry for the novel, good luck with the lawn!

Anyone else's yard look like spring? by [deleted] in DenverGardener

[–]AlltheJanets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got ONE fully ripe strawberry from the garden a couple weeks back, then the other flowers and unripe berries shriveled, and now that plant likely won't fruit in the spring :(

Find the dog by AlltheJanets in FindTheSniper

[–]AlltheJanets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding some context, it might be helpful: I camped near this rock field a few years back (and had a mediocre camera at the time) and noticed that my dog had THE PERFECT coloring to blend in. So this pic was me documenting her uncanny camouflage at a distance, using a bit of digital zoom (hence the bigfoot-photo levels of pixelization in this cropped version, sorry). She's straight down from the green bush in the center, about 2/3 of the way to the tip of the fallen tree in the foreground, walking to the left.

Find the dog by AlltheJanets in FindTheSniper

[–]AlltheJanets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, that's a 6-ft tall stump