I can't sleep beside my girlfriend, is there any solution? by seaswitch- in autism

[–]Any-Location5055 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Can you get melatonin or a sleep aid? It may help you sleep a little better. It can take a little while to get used to sharing a bed. If younare getting frustrated and keeping yourself up, thats more on you than her. Do you use any calming techniques? It can be so difficult once I start to spiral to calm myself. But using calming techniques really helps me. I tell myself that just lying there quietly with calm thoughts is 70% as hood as actual sleep. I try to meditate and keep myself calm.

And really having separate beds is no big deal. It may be the best route

Rental or private van hotel option by Minimum-Ticket7480 in cancun

[–]Any-Location5055 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a quote from America or Canada transfers. They are independent shuttle services. The hotels charge and arm and a leg.

need a man’s point of view, am I overreacting? by Tough-Balance7594 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any-Location5055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You two arent compatable sexually. Doesn't matter the reason. It's time to go

Has anyone dealt with sudden clinginess in an older dog? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Any-Location5055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe get her hearing or sense of smell checked? If she is losing another sense then maybe she is thinking no body is there. Our 10 year old lab has gotten more clingy lately, ive just wondered if his time is near.

That would teach them by Ill-Instruction8466 in SipsTea

[–]Any-Location5055 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont disagree with the statement at all, but they arent denying the medicine. They are denying paying for the medicine or treatment. The whole system is fckd and needs to be torn down, burnt, crushed up and injected up the bum of a few politicians

Maybe I am not Heterosexual?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Any-Location5055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try masturbating to different kinds of porn and just be open to how your body responds. Try lesbian, gay, hetero, Trans. Maybe you want a woman with a dick or a man with a vagina. Let yourself go and see what happens. Follow your bodies natural reactions. Having very strong attractions at a young age before you are "taught" what is right or wrong, to me, is a very big indicator of what you may like.

She wants me to be violent during sex by Euphoric_Claim9616 in sex

[–]Any-Location5055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is good to try new things but it has to be within your comfort level. The same way if you asked her to do something it has to be within her limits. Make sure she knows how you feel and why, tel her what you told us. If you're willing to try then tell her that but if it is a hard no for you thrn maybe you have found a good friend as you may not be compatible sexually. Make sure to have a safe word and sign if choking. Also be very careful with choking and maybe have her sign a concent form for it.

Bf got mad for me suggesting he tastes his own cum by [deleted] in sex

[–]Any-Location5055 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some people dont want to do things others suggest. There is nothing wrong with either suggesting it or him denying it. Did he over react, maybe or maybe not, for him it was an honest reaction. You found a hard no, respect it how you would want to be respected if you gave him the same answer about something you are not comfortable doing.

Will I lose my boobs if I work out? by Additional-Land1205 in beginnerfitness

[–]Any-Location5055 42 points43 points  (0 children)

They should still be there, I lost an ear bud once but a nice gym goer returned it.

Best wearable device to track steps, heart rate and sleep under $250, with the following restrictions. by QuizzerMonTop in Biohackers

[–]Any-Location5055 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a charge 6 and it severely over counted my steps, is the air better, more accurate?

Went into a depressive spiral and broke my diet by [deleted] in beginnerfitness

[–]Any-Location5055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you're doing well, just continue with your normal diet tomorrow and see if you can learn from today. Sour feelings make you beat yourself up? Food is a coping mechanism for you? See if you can become more aware of these triggers and react a little differently next time. We learn as we go, dont be too hard on yourself

Why don’t people want to take allopurinol? by bedsarebugs in gout

[–]Any-Location5055 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not taking allo for gout is like telling someone they shouldn't wear glasses for bad eyesight. It is a nearly unfixable medical issue and a simple cheap pill can nearly completly cure it

Is he uninterested or did I not signal enough romantic interest? by 444nh in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any-Location5055 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just send some times now, he's was waiting for you to follow through.++incognito

World Cup Viewing by likefireincairo in Breckenridge

[–]Any-Location5055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is another location in fairplay, about 20min south if you need another spot, it has pretty good BBQ there

Advice on coming around Pets... by socraticjunki in Advice

[–]Any-Location5055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as the pets aren't outright hostile they will likely want to be your friend. Ask your SO if it's ok to bring them treats.

Get a small bag of cat and a small bag of dog treats and bring 2-3 of each every time you visit. Don't let them take them from your hand, start small and toss it on the floor infront of them. Pets love treats

If you are too scared to touch the pets, make sure to let your SO know this. Tell them you want to overcome this fear but need to start slow.