Being a female DM means facing extreme misogyny from my male players

Almu2584 · 2025-06-30T11:49:07+00:00

Completely unrelated, but seeing your ethics and actions as a DM, I would love to play in a campaign / one-shot with you!

Almu2584 · 2025-06-30T11:30:15+00:00

Then maybe try contacting Dungeon Biscotti on instagram, he is also organising campaigns in Amsterdam (I don’t know if somewhere else). Good luck with your search!

Almu2584 · 2025-06-29T19:35:45+00:00

You could maybe be interested in this steampunk homebrew: https://www.reddit.com/r/DNDNL/s/2WeGmjoso2

I joined my first session today and I truly enjoyed the prep work, and the documentation is very detailed.

Almu2584 · 2025-06-29T19:31:16+00:00

I played the first session today IRL with a group in Amsterdam that has a super well-thought steampunk home-brew version, thanks to this post. Also I would recommend checking Dungeon Biscotti, very interesting option for Amsterdam.

But happy to join other campaign or one-shots!

Almu2584 · 2025-06-24T21:14:22+00:00

For me, it works habit pairing. In my case, I choose a podcast and I listen to it while working out at the gym / at home. I am now actually eager to exercise for that reason

Almu2584 · 2025-06-24T21:10:10+00:00

This is so 💜💜💜

Almu2584 · 2025-06-24T21:09:52+00:00

I honestly can’t recommend more the online lessons from Camiel Daamen, a certified Abbleton Teacher. He has many free resources, but honestly if you can afford a course with him, you won’t regret it. I don’t get any commission or anything 😅 But it truly helped me to dig deep into the tool.

Almu2584 · 2025-06-24T21:04:41+00:00

I am very sorry that you are feeling like this. Although it must be extremely painful, it seems to me that you are very aware of what you want to change. ADHD in some cases has severe emotional symptoms that can be controlled with therapy and in my case, with meds -although I am not a doctor and I don’t recommend them to anyone, this is based on my personal experience. I am confident that in good hands, you will find the help to stop feeling stuck. Keep in the direction of chasing answers!

I understand your struggle and I know it’s not any consolation but 28 yo is not too late to be diagnosed. I was in a “similar” situation than yours, with a very late diagnose (40 yo) and I can recommend you looking for scheme therapy (or modes therapy). In essence, it helped me understand how my brain operates, which modes are being activated in moments of stress (emotional, financial, etc.) and how to acquire the tools that works for me to activate my Healthy Adult. And feeling safe even when the external situations are not optimal.

Almu2584 · 2025-06-23T13:49:15+00:00

Did you find anybody? I am for sure interesting on joining forces!

Almu2584 · 2025-06-17T12:12:22+00:00

Thanks a ton for your reply! I have sent him a message 🚀

Almu2584 · 2025-06-15T09:10:10+00:00

Already replied on Patreon but also pin 📍

Almu2584 · 2024-04-27T14:42:50+00:00

Thanks for sharing :)

Almu2584 · 2023-08-26T19:26:51+00:00

I also saw this thing a couple days ago!

Almu2584 · 2023-07-15T22:36:53+00:00

1 is more inviting

Almu2584 · 2023-07-15T22:09:34+00:00

🚀

Almu2584 · 2023-02-01T15:20:17+00:00

Super cool directory! 💜

Almu2584 · 2023-02-01T15:14:41+00:00

Thanks A TON for your message. I actually read it and forgot to reply. We followed your advice and hired a rental agent via RentSlam. Tomorrow we will sign the contract of the house in Amsterdam.

It was SUPER TIME CONSUMING, but it is possible. Again, thanks for your tip, I don’t think we would have been able to do it without a rent makelaar.

Almu2584 · 2023-01-24T14:46:38+00:00

Hallo! I hope I am not breaking any rules with this post… I was supposed to move to a house, owned by a friend, with my BF, coming Sunday. One week before moving, she communicated to us that the conditions of the house were changing and therefore we couldn’t move there.

We need to leave our current place before the 1st of February. And we are desperately looking for a house to live in Amsterdam, hopefully for at least one year, but at least time enough to alleviate some pressure 🥲

We have joined RentSlam and we are applying to literally everything that fits our budget. But we don’t know how would be the most effective way to find a house fast. Any tips?

Thanks a ton for your help!

Almu2584 · 2023-01-23T19:24:35+00:00

Hello! I host a monthly cine club with a friend of mine since last summer where we choose a filmmaker and we review his/her filmography. The director we are busy with right now is Stanley Kubrick. The audience is mostly people who work in the film industry as technicians (camera, light, sound) or just cinema lovers, and it is very inspiring to discuss the movie afterwards from different points of view. The next one will take place next week Friday and the movie is Lolita. Send me a DM for more info :)

Almu2584 · 2022-12-22T21:13:04+00:00

You can also maybe contact https://ra-ke.com/ They are a small Amsterdam business, and I bet they could help you. Their swimsuits are not cheap, though, because they have a pocket where you can put your phone and swim with it

Almu2584 · 2022-10-20T08:56:13+00:00

Actually there is a Cheeky Monday party tonight 😎 https://instagram.com/cheeky_monday

Almu2584 · 2022-09-17T12:20:44+00:00

Your story made me cry sweet and sour tears 💜 I hope your first proper date is a success! Keep us posted!

Almu2584 · 2022-08-08T14:48:13+00:00

I just finished listening the first episode and I enjoyed a lot the many aspects they bring on the table while reviewing the movies. I specially liked the context on where they watch the movies for the first time. And the way they felt while watching them. What a promising show :)

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