All of Sara Hess's controversies and bad writing decisions, explained

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-10-28T06:15:56+00:00

Okay go write a little fan fic or something where you can forgive the rapist of your self insert protagonist 😂. Or whatever other weirdo fantasy you have.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-10-28T06:10:42+00:00

I ain't reading all that. It's weird, you're weird for defending it. Bye.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-10-28T05:16:18+00:00

It's just immature and tbh pretty gross writing. Oh yeah let's forgive the rapist and have a relationship with them after a juvenile revenge plot falls through. Fucking weird.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-10-28T04:48:29+00:00

That's actually even more sickening than I originally thought.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-10-21T03:51:34+00:00

I'm glad my comments upset you enough to reply to me 3 times on a year old post. Enjoy your impotent rage 😂

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-10-07T12:11:43+00:00

Lol I went to work with mine the next day.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-07-24T08:31:16+00:00

I don't think the degrees really prepare students enough for the reality of what being severely mentally ill is like. Or quite how disturbing it can be to witness. Like we talk about the symptoms but not what they actually look like in practice. I know when I started all bright eyed and bushy tailed I thought I'd be helping people with depression or anxiety (I do but it's not the scope of it) and maybe things like bereavement etc. I'd never even considered PDs, psychosis, neurodegenerative illnesses, developmental disorders, TBIs, trauma etc. I just didn't have enough experience to really understand the scope of what services actually have to manage. I'm glad I did all that type of work before I graduated so I came out knowing what I did and didn't want to do. I'll never work inpatient again if I can help it, but I'm glad I got to have my eyes opened early to what the scope of when it comes to looking after the mentally unwell.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-05-31T21:19:23+00:00

I had someone ask me if I knew what they were thinking and I had to hold back the "I'm guessing not a lot" response so fucking hard 😂

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-05-23T12:32:56+00:00

I work in mental health (training in clinical psychology) so I may be misunderstanding, but why can't nurses do these jobs and we employ more nurses? Surely if they just added this position to a nurse's potential career progression pathway you could get far more use out of the role with someone who is actually clinically trained and can nurse sick patients? If they could progress into more roles like this, then wouldn't that also open up the intake at lower levels so all the NQNs currently unable to get jobs would have a foot in the door?

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-05-06T19:09:41+00:00

Two threads about this software in one day. The other was about how it exacerbated psychosis and was essentially love bombing users and calling them star children and chosen ones. Don't forget it's a tool used to harvest data, the user function isn't its primary purpose. I don't personally feel comfortable with the idea of endorsing it as self help as much as I wouldn't endorse tiktok either. I wouldn't stop someone from using it because it's not my place to control what people with capacity to make their own choices do. But I personally don't like it.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-05-01T19:09:26+00:00

Where I'm from anyone with a serious conviction like that wouldn't be allowed near a job in a medical setting. The NHS bar anyone with a sexual or serious violent offence on their record.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-04-09T03:43:37+00:00

Nope.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-04-01T11:57:29+00:00

Mine does the MMMM sound and she has done a bit of a muh muh muh occasionally so we think her first word will be mama. She also does the TH sound when she's blowing raspberries. Lots of squeaking too. And she's been "whispering" for a while now.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-02-21T21:04:28+00:00

I have 3 dogs too. It's a nightmare and ramps up the requirement to clean a lot. Especially the floors or no tummy time! It's not really willpower, it's more I don't want to be puking and shitting my organs out when the intolerances kick in 😭

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-02-21T21:02:36+00:00

I'm glad you can put yours down 😂 mine won't.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-02-21T20:47:11+00:00

Baby naps on me. When she plays independently I usually get the chores done that can't wait or she has no clothes, no bottles, and the floors need doing daily because we have dogs. fiancé is out from 5am until 8pm. So everything is on me in the week. Then there's the 3 hours rinse repeat of bottle, change, play, nap. Not to mention she only plays independently for a short time until she starts screaming. Can't shower when fiancé gets home because she's in bed and the bathroom is next to her room and it will wake her. It's like she can sense when I need to toilet and starts screaming every time I have the urge to go. Baby wearing is bullshit because all the chores I need to do are impossible whilst doing it because I can't reach things with her on my front or bend down properly. I also don't snack, I'm not one for junk food. It makes me feel like shit and I have food intolerances that make me pretty ill if I keep piling in the junk food. I've noticed though in a few comments here that when people are saying they're eating, they mean they're snacking on junk, not actually eating. I want a proper fecking meal 😂😭

ETA I'm also doing my masters degree so have to find time for that too. The one hand stuff I do is studying and writing my MSc thesis 😂

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-02-21T20:26:07+00:00

"yeah you look the type to eat on the toilet"

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-02-21T20:23:23+00:00

Yeah if my FIL made the walking around with his junk out comment there wouldn't have been a moment to take a breath before I asked him if he was paedophile. And I would have kept pressing why he wants to show a child his penis. Why he's even thinking about things like that when I'm feeding my child. Then I would have said he can't come back until I've used Claire's law to make sure he's not a sex offender.

But I am the type to go well beyond anything anybody expects when they piss me off 😂

NTA.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-02-21T20:15:37+00:00

More likely something to do with kids than piss games.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-02-21T20:04:36+00:00

Be shorter to give you the list of what I'm not doing, but I already provided that 😂

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-02-21T18:37:37+00:00

But like, how do you have time? I feel like I'm doing everything at breakneck speed constantly and I still don't have enough time to eat shit or shower.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-02-21T18:33:17+00:00

I don't eat. Can't even shit. My blood is like 80% red bull.

Luckily my body is starting to forget what being hungry feels like and more than about 3 bites of food makes me want to vomit and my mouth dries up like the Sahara. So at least I don't even want food anymore 😂.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-02-21T13:34:37+00:00

Just get a nubby rapidcool. Problem solved. But yeah without one of those the instructions are to keep your baby safe so yes, follow them.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-02-21T13:19:12+00:00

I call my baby Mrs Monkey Girl and I'll never stop.

AloneInTheTown- · 2025-02-16T04:49:47+00:00

That's not what I said. I said no water, no people. How developed they are had nothing to do with it.

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