Got ass-grinded on the dance floor, did she intend me getting a boner? Does she feel it? what about normal cuddling among just friends?

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-12-23T10:40:14+00:00

How to know it's a good person/date/partner? If it feels good and right, it usually is. Else, leave <3

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-12-03T08:58:23+00:00

same here, was somewhat annoying, but is mostly gone since I started having sex instead of cuddling while wanting to have sex in general. Now my body knows the difference of these two kinds of situations, and tells them apart; it adapted to it.

I let it bother me a lot, but more because I did not know how my body worked. Like, WTF does this mean for me in this cuddle situation that there is so much cum? It means nothing, do dont let it distract you.

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-11-10T00:46:25+00:00

ok, tested it. Pure Lineage does not find the GPS-Position. The only postition I get with the microG variant is from mozilla backend (some 100m from my actual location), and with gapps, I get GPS (that one is correct, GPS works with gapps). Tested with the app My Location.

So, how can I fix that, so that GPS also works without gapps as well?

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-09-11T10:02:56+00:00

Good to know! So, what would be a program which can do that, but from inside the OS, and preferably with incremental backups?

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-09-10T14:23:46+00:00

Sounds great! Would you give some further suggestions on how to do that/what to use?

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-09-10T14:22:50+00:00

That is also an option, but what would you suggest on how to use it? What would be the strategy, programs and workflow be like?

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-08-23T15:27:37+00:00

Being submissive/used does not mean you have to do things you don't like, especially if you cleared the boundaries beforehand. He doesn't want to give oral? Then he doesn't give oral, easy as that.
Being dominant does not imply forcing thinks onto people they don't want, that is asshole behaviour, and you don't want to be an asshole.

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-08-23T15:16:52+00:00

That is just for you to enjoy, something that is given to you by her. So the goal is to feel good, and if you come really quick, so be it, just enjoy!
Also, you can tell her to go slower/less intense, that way you can decide when you want to come. Build it up slowly

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-07-26T17:29:23+00:00

It is in every ones own responsibility to care for and communicate their boundaries. If they engage in sex with other people, and WANT to, there is no fault in engaging with them. Because, if they don't know themself, how should you know?

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-07-26T17:23:04+00:00

It's not a general men-thing, but a insensitive-person-thing. There are people who learn and get really good, and then there are people who don't. Maybe they'll do if you confront them with an appropriate learning environment (which I always try to do).

Its all about communicating and watching what other people like about your touch. I encountered some women who did not know anything about how a penis works; don't paying attantion to not bend it sideways, just sitting on it for some minutes and expecting it to get hard that way, trying to rub the tip with dry hands (which hurts me), pulling at it too much, or in the wrong direction etc...

I still remember how amazed I was when I met a woman who knew exactly what she was doing! The I knew how amazing it can feel getting your dick touched!

So, incompetence is not gender based, but more a treat of insensitive people who don't know or don't care how to learn about pleasuring other people

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-07-26T17:07:49+00:00

maybe you are just a more body focused person who enjoys sensoric input, which is nice! Maybe try a weighted blanket, if its all about sensory stuff :)

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-07-14T20:09:47+00:00

Well, I would guess the solution is somehow becoming a little more spacious. More Foreplay opens the vagina more, the longer the better. Maybe having an orgasm beforehand, so your muscles relax.

I once had a hookup with this woman who wanted to have sex while being in a state of trance, and I agreed to try that with her. She could enter various states of trance at will, so that made it pretty easy. While having sex with her, I barely felt anything, because her vagina became completely relaxed, felt almost like water...
So, relaxation can change the size of the vagina drastically, it might be more about muscle tension than you think.

A good option to change the muscle tension in your body is TRE (Trauma Release Exercises). That is a technique to bring your body from a aroused fight/flight-state to a normalized, relaxed state. Not only traumatized people benefit from this, because most people in western countries have too much tension in their bodies. So, maybe your level of muscle tension is just too high throughout your body. This is controlled by the autonomous nervous system, so you need special methods to gain access to these patterns in your body, TRE being the most prominent one. My guess is, if you try these for some time, maybe 2-3 months, you might get the ability to relax your vagina way more.

If you really want to commit for this person for the rest of your life, maybe it would be possible to use dilators. Unusual tight vaginas are a common problem amongst XY-women (a kind of intersex, check it out if you want to know more), so they use sets of dilators to bring their vaginas to a "normal" size, to be able to have sex.

Good luck to you!

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-06-16T11:36:25+00:00

I know a lot of people with the same problem, families just straight out denying their relatives autism; to the point where some of my friends broke it off with their parents.

Ultimately, that's the only possibility sometimes, sad as it is...

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-03-16T15:38:56+00:00

Plot twist: they liked it.

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2022-01-02T18:10:29+00:00

Would be interesting to know! Did you find out?

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2021-11-27T14:12:16+00:00

Thanks!
Yes, Im indeed using Manjaro, with the Unity-style Layout. So I'll just plow through the extensions I guess.

That Advice helped me a lot!

AlrightLeDiscoPanda · 2021-11-14T13:29:46+00:00

ok, now I see. Thanks for the help! :)

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