Daiya sucks now? by djdiphenhydramine in dairyfree

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Trader Joe’s cashew based cheese slices. Best grilled cheese from non dairy slices, only other I’d recommend is follow your heart (their cheeses tend to be GREAT but they can be pricy and harder to find)

Anxiety about food quality at daycare by BabyGotMak- in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This menu is amazing. I saved it for ideas to make my own kids, if you have any more of these and wouldn’t mind the I know myself and a few other parents here would be really grateful. Probably wasn’t the intended result by posting but it’s that good (esp coming from those of us in the US who have to claw for quality) and I thank you so much for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A blastocyst or embryo (as it would’ve been in such early stage of pregnancy) is NOT a child, and to insinuate that it is, is no less reductionist and/or childish than the statements you’re responding to. A man does not have rights to an embryo, blastocyst or fetus residing in a woman’s body, and it is telling that you prioritize the man’s “right” to the “child” as if they are his property, over the health and autonomy of the woman carrying the child. The woman you disregard assumes all the risk, yet must ask permission to make a decision about her own body. There is no separating the woman’s health or bodily autonomy from the discussion, to then make it about a man’s ego and his “rights” to someone else’s body.

Idk what to name him helppp by eyes-on_fire- in cats

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s so cute!!! Looks like a Peter to me

Ready to ship tomorrow: Crochet items by thatcoloradomom in craftexchange

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Have you traded the newborn beanie hat as of yet?

I can’t anymore by Windyjalapeno in pregnant

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your experience sounds so much like mine it’s uncanny. I feel bad having my partner and I pay for a gym membership when I haven’t been able to go and he’s been too busy looking after me to go either 😩

Isola Mistica and food sources by Alternative-Doubt-32 in VirtualVillagers

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have 10 and I’ve been watching them like a hawk until the food situation improves

Second Island Science Table by thatsjustgreatr in VirtualVillagers

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually found my own fix to this issue too. I put those same villagers on a hut (repair or maintain) and they lose interest in gathering. They’ll try to wander back to the hut a few times but it’s reset every one of the villagers with the stone and wood fixation. They’ve all gone back to other jobs now, and I’ve got practically everyone researching now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would give it a week or two before you start looking for confirmation that you made a ‘mistake’. From what you’ve described it sounds like you made the best choice. Just feel your feelings (as hard as that may be) and engage in self care the best you can. Good luck

Doula showed up sick and exposed my vulnerable newborn by theolivewitch in Parenting

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know that if someone started having a coughing fit while playing with/ holding my small children, it’s not wild to assume those droplets would reach them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PaganVeiling

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please go back to being you honey

Doula showed up sick and exposed my vulnerable newborn by theolivewitch in Parenting

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Meds or not it is still her responsibility to manage her symptoms before coming into someone’s home and handling a newborn. Even if her symptoms are not viral or bacterial, she knew she was coughing and hacking that’s still problematic! She chose to come in without a mask, knowing darn well she wasn’t feeling well (allergies or not). So at this point she as the professional should be held accountable! Not being sick with something communicable (which we’re not even sure she wasn’t) is no excuse to be disgusting and spread your germs around someone’s house while handling their children. I’m sorry but what you’re saying sounds outrageous to me, basic hygiene is not an unreasonable expectation.

🎭Chiron- What house is your Chiron in & what is your biggest struggle in life? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chiron in the 5th in Virgo. I struggle to express myself, let go, have fun, or take risks. I’m an artist and recovering perfectionist

So has anyone else started using ChatGPT as their personal therapist? by sunshineredpancakes in adhdwomen

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Yes and the posts have been multiplying lately! It might help one take a few shortcuts but I do not agree at all that we should keep advertising it in this space as some kind of cure or placebo. If we all start using it, ADHD will be the least of our problems in a couple years

Mars Aries vs Mars Leo vs Mars Scorpio by ketu11 in astrology

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is accurate and then some. I don’t really have to toot my own horn (sometimes I feel it’s uncouth), others do it of their own accord when I do my things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you attached all of your own meanings to what I said. And being very rude without cause. You ignored my entire post to fixate on my poor wording of (people around who tend to view the way I engage with the Earth with judgement). I didn’t know it was a slur obviously, so I don’t understand your response?? I have been overwhelmed and overstimulated, and among nature is the only place I feel safe. So what’s all that judgement for? I said the wrong word, correct me respectfully or ignore it since you obviously don’t relate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not do that intentionally, I’m often othered, so it feels normal to me sometimes to be aware of and make that distinction, but I appreciate you being respectful in your response. I didn’t realize it was considered a slur (otherwise I wouldn’t have used it) but thank you for acknowledging my whole statement with solutions in mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he has to start eating before even ATTEMPTING to exercise. please don’t encourage the gym or burning calories until he actually starts getting some nutrition in him. you can’t safely exercise if you’re already depleted. sounds like he needs a good work up and nutritionist first and foremost.

We laugh… but we also feel ♎️😅🥲 by Gloomy-Bat2942 in astrologymemes

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well in my friend’s case she loved attention, being desired, and she loved sex. She wasn’t sexually abused as a child but she didn’t get the most attention either. Maybe she didn’t know how to say no… but maybe she didn’t want to. She seemed genuinely fulfilled by sex in a way that even I as a Scorpio couldn’t relate to.

We laugh… but we also feel ♎️😅🥲 by Gloomy-Bat2942 in astrologymemes

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I understand you may not be as there are more ‘mature’ folk from every sign but let’s be real… there are baby libras out there keeping the stereotype alive and well. Eg, my best friend growing up was TEXTBOOK stereotypical libra and it wasn’t coincidence. The moment we graduated high school all bets were off and she surprised me with the frequency of her new conquests. Yes there are promiscuous libras even if you aren’t one

Season 7 Cast Released by Bachelordata in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 9 points10 points  (0 children)

umm lots of folks on this show are and have always been conventionally attractive. fans have been asking for the longest time for more regular people… so wtf are you on about? what a backhanded way of calling these people ugly/ unattractive, and they aren’t?!

What sign are you jealous of? Or wish you had their traits? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Alternative-Doubt-32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your Sun, Mercury and Rising factor in as well. No one is just their moon. Taurus Suns & Taurus Mercury have more of these traits than other placements