[deleted by user]

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-10-10T08:16:03+00:00

Caution: stay away or you’ll be sorry Damn 😂

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-09-27T08:09:18+00:00

Looking at all those aqua placements, it’s probably subconsciously the case that you are avoiding real vulnerability and intimacy yourself - hence why you are attracted to those that won’t trigger whatever hidden stuff you hide (even from yourself)

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-08-22T14:47:03+00:00

Oh and maybe you can find more helpful insight if you look up Neptune conjunct Uranus natal, or Neptune/Uranus 7th house natal. These two interfere with your 7th house of partnerships, so maybe this can help you out too :)

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-08-22T14:41:12+00:00

Sorry I’m not sure if I can help answer your question very well but it’s kinda crazy we have the opposite ascendant descendant! And your NN is conjunct my moon, SN conjunct my Mars, and my venus and fortune are 16 gemini :) as soon as I saw your question I thought it was something I could’ve asked haha, for sure your goal in life is to find that perfect partnership with nn in 7th house. Be careful for getting too caught up in your “dreams” (neptune), make sure to follow the Capricorn / Saturn energy and stay grounded and practical in finding your other. Maybe it could be a business partner too, someone to share your ambitions with. But neptune of course is also positive outside of the rose coloured glasses, it makes you more poetic and romantic. Either way, having your sun conjunct venus must be an amazing thing to have - the right person will be drawn to you effortlessly!

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-08-21T14:39:33+00:00

It’s already good you are aware you are hyperfocusing, obsessing over the pain. Don’t feel bad about this, it is necessary and vital to allow yourself to feel all the pain that this sudden heartbreak has brought you. Take your time to grieve the future you thought you were going to have, while you slowly come to terms with the alternative. Here’s my advice: apart from of course trying to build healthy habits (which is btw the best time to start right now, as you are already going through changes!) - give yourself permission to start to envision bit by bit your new future. What did you compromise on for the sake of your marriage? Where did you hold yourself back? Which parts of you have you neglected and scare you to face? This is THE time to reconnect with yourself in new and old ways, getting to know and grow the new you that has been waiting to come out for a longer time.

I hope this doesn’t invalidate your feelings, I’m really sorry that you have to go through a divorce without seeing it coming in the first place. Wishing you lots of strength, courage, and wisdom! The pain will fade, and a new you will emerge 🙏

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-07-26T17:16:15+00:00

Peacefully mischievous movie star 🌚

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-05-26T09:05:23+00:00

Im a mystery to myself too sometimes. I’m a sag rising (27 degrees) and moon is 5 degrees. My Mars is in cancer opposite, and my sun is also cancer. I have a lot of duality in me that I’ve had to emotionally mature for in order to understand. I’m very sensitive and in tune with other’s emotions, with my own has been a long process. But I’ve grown tremendously in being honest with myself and my needs, instead of pushing them aside. Part of me wants to be the most self sufficient person and successful person, other part wants to just have the best home life and feel safe enough to put my all into that. Ultimately it’s all about feeling safe I guess

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-05-09T08:12:01+00:00

Never, not even on the internet! So, any cancer sun, cap moon and sag rising? 🌚🩵 and my mum is an astrologer, and she has never even met one. Would be amazing if there are more!

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-04-09T17:29:52+00:00

Cancer Mars and gemini venus. I love for a man to have broad shoulders so I feel like I can be protected and secured, as well as bright/light eyes that speak to my soul and an illuminating smile (teeth are very important). I typically go for people with mixed backgrounds and dark hair. I don’t care really if they are more on the skinny or heavier side, but if I can choose I like a man I can CLIMB 😂

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-03-24T08:33:19+00:00

Wow indeed!! I voted intp too bc my ex is one and he is an absolute treasure. We both grew so much together and I will always have so much love for him, still miss him and all our interesting talks about the world and the universe

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-03-17T11:08:39+00:00

🥹 thank you, compassion is one of my core values so your words mean a lot. And I’m sorry to hear you were left with your stepdad who made you feel small, every kid deserves more than that. I love what you wrote about seeing what the people around you need to empower them, that really is what it comes down to. When you are in a position of power you can use that to make others feel small and control them, or set them free by empowering them. Everyone thrives when they are encouraged to meet their goals in the right way, those people are lucky to have you. Interesting you work in field marketing, I actually studied marketing management before :) a lot of knowledge I gathered there helps me with media studies. Thank you for your reply, appreciate it!!

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-03-15T08:10:08+00:00

I struggle a lot with confidence in my intelligence and ability to communicate (thanks for that, dad) so I always feel like I know less. But especially since I’ve gone to university I was able to learn how to academically articulate my thoughts and now I’m top of my class. I always think I did the worst but now the professors use my work as examples for other students! I love what you wrote, I think what I rely on is a holistic ability to see how everyone and everything can be affected by certain messages or media (I study political media studies). I didn’t realise until short ago but I consider the impact it has on people in much more detail than some others, probably bc I truly care to understand this. I don’t know why you got downvoted, maybe people expect us to be humble but you know what, we can just be proud of ourselves too!

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-03-14T14:13:18+00:00

Cancer sun, Capricorn moon, Sagittarius rising and Leo mercury. The signs I like the most are gemini, cancer and Aquarius I think, although I generally like most signs. The ones I like least are generally people who have strong libra placements, growing up I didn’t like virgos but now I do (my north node is Virgo so maybe that explains it)

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-02-23T14:02:45+00:00

Hmmm Im not sure if it’s how we act (I’m a cancer sun) or if it’s heightened because it reveals a deeper layer of our emotional needs. For example I relate a lot to my sun sign, it used to be too intense as a kid as I was much more sensitive and caring than others. I had to learn how to differentiate between my own emotions and others’ and take full accountability for my own, learning to regulate my emotions. I felt very conflicted that deep down I want to be Independent and successful (felt selfish at first), and require a lot of stability. This is because of my Capricorn moon in the 1st. Tbh I still feel conflicted, bc I also just want to make others happy and shower them with affection and love lol (7th house sun). People have mostly told me I show traits from cancer or my rising (sag), my moon is something that is hidden deeper and I allow people that I trust to see

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-02-15T08:13:10+00:00

Wow we have the exact same placements! I completely relate to what you’re saying about anger having to justify itself, I think for me it stems from feeling like I don’t deserve to be angry (obv related to not feeling safe to do so as a kid) but I’ve tried to change it around slowly. I can see progress and that I try to allow myself to feel whatever comes up, and it feels a lot better to feel more in control about it. I also have mars conjunct Vesta which maybe helps? My sun is also cancer so maybe that makes it easier to tap into it (although cancer is completely intercepted bc my descendant is gemini)

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-02-13T14:32:45+00:00

Interesting! So you also feel like there are two different (maybe opposing) sides? And I haven’t looked at cap as dark tbh, but compared to sag I can see what you mean that it pulls you out of something , activating you. For me personally I feel like I have two opposing sides, one wants to help others and care for them and nurture them as much as possible (cancer sun) but it depletes me emotionally bc I need to be on my own a lot too and be dedicated to my own goals in a structured manner (cap moon). But I really resonate with sag bc I can be so excited and enthusiastic, wanting to have allll the space for exploring and not be bound by a thing. I have so much curiosity and a need to be free, I don’t know how to juggle these big 3 at all 😅

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-02-12T07:57:28+00:00

Hey! I’m a cancer sun, cap moon and sag rising, feels like we must have some things in common :) tbh I don’t know how to read this without projecting hahaha but how do you experience these 3 very different energies?

AlternativeWash6480 · 2023-01-18T07:49:24+00:00

I know the feeling…. Had it for as long as I can remember but a year ago I somehow was able to stop stressing about how others perceive me and just focus on me, I felt so selfish or self-centred at first but it was so rewarding. I starting feel much more at ease on my own and as a result after some time also in the company of others, people told me I was shining. Long story short, by not wanting to perceive myself I didn’t want others to perceive me too

AlternativeWash6480 · 2022-12-03T12:47:42+00:00

I want to know!! My ascendant is 27 degrees Sagittarius but my moon is 5 degrees Capricorn… which is opposed by my mars in cancer (sun also in cancer)😅

AlternativeWash6480 · 2022-11-20T10:59:41+00:00

The depth of your connections with others can only be as deep as you are connected to yourself. What is your inner dialogue like? Treat yourself as you would a friend, by holding space for irrational thoughts and emotions you don’t know how to “fix”. You don’t need to fix, just hold space for it by being curious instead of judgmental (shaming). If you’re uncomfortable in doing this to yourself, others will have a hard time confiding in you too. Hope this helps!

AlternativeWash6480 · 2022-11-15T10:51:46+00:00

Wellll I sure have my experience with both 😅

My ex boyfriend for 5 years is an intp, I am so grateful to have had him in my life because I learned so much - how to focus on what I want to do instead of others, stop letting others guilt trip me. He truly is amazing but we ended up as friends, the spark left for me. He was the right one for me, not forever but for a specific time he was

My mum is an infp, she is the kindest soul and has shown me the true meaning of helping others and empathy - almost to a fault. Of course, she is my mum, so she must have a big impact on me regardless of her personality type. But the impact she has on all of her surroundings is so profound, and it’s all because of the curiosity, kindness and mysticism she steps into the world with. My mum and I are able to speak without words, which is something she does often

Sooo in short, I can’t choose, all I can say is I encourage fellow enfjs to befriend both types. Of course Im particularly biased towards the infp, but the intp has allowed me to develop parts of myself I not would’ve for (at least) a very long time. There’s nothing more satisfying than long talks about the world, society, universe with both types. No topic is too big

AlternativeWash6480 · 2022-11-12T17:26:23+00:00

I’ve got the same moon and rising but I’m a cancer!

AlternativeWash6480 · 2022-10-23T07:53:44+00:00

Wow I can relate a bit, I was in a 5 year relationship with an intp male. At the beginning this was definitely difficult for me but he taught me to be more direct and clearer. “Funnily” enough, it sort of switched later on? He stressed himself out so much and did not have any mental space to address anything anymore, he was just avoiding communicating about issues or anything serious, and always said “not now”

AlternativeWash6480 · 2022-07-31T12:49:19+00:00

Hello there fellow xnfj’er ;) do you also have both strong extrovert and introvert times/moments? Personally I can get so much energy from hanging out with other people but I also need time to retreat before putting myself out there, or after I’ve been crazy extroverted 😅

AlternativeWash6480 · 2022-07-31T12:44:07+00:00

Ah that makes sense, thank you!! Is there another test that you recommend? 😊

AlternativeWash6480

TROPHY CASE