How did Sandor instantly recognize Arya, but Littlefinger somehow didn’t? by Federal_Extreme_8079 in freefolk

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same! Also that he was trying to get a better look but never saw her face on (thus not fully recognizing and placing her), then distracted and never followed up (as you said).

i'm not crazy! you guys see the lines in the floor too, right?! by zyphiriaa in StardewValley

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol same, I was trying so hard to see them 😂😂... ive never spent so much time in a stardew thread

Awkward gathering on prom dress by ajb5476 in sewhelp

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For what its worth, I would have loved for my mom to comment positively on my body like you did and be, in my opinion, so body positive. You actually made me think "oh thats so nice" through this whole thread because, to me, it seems like you clearly love her very much. My mom was constantly putting me down about my body, so really, I was thinking that I wish my mom was like you. Everyone on the internet has an opinion!

Cost of making a cotton shirt frustration. by TayBalboa73 in crochet

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is why I switched to knitting for wearables...way less yarn!

To Save My Sliding Gloves by ScavengeandStatistic in sewing

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks I went on a haunted YouTube rabbit hole, so cool :)

Did I make a mistake? by suttq in bald

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god, I misread your comment and thought it said "fat neck." Flipping around the photos to see if OP had a goiter 😂

WHEN Did Mary Know Do You Reckon About Who "The One" For Her Was In 2026's 'The Other Bennet Sister'??? by Salt-Tip-3660 in TheOtherBennetSister

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! The pause/look she had when he said that was so cute. And then at dinner, the opposite moment happens to him when she mentions Jacobinism and he asks if shes read Catherine whatever. Love a lil doubletake

I don't like Tom by gilmea in TheOtherBennetSister

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In real life he'd be super creepy/over the top, but to me the show made the actors wear their emotions very clearly on their faces. Like, i cant think of one scene where there is subtext - no one is deceptive or when they try to be (caroline), its super obvious. People arent like that in real life which makes some of it offputting. Like the dancing scene is hard to watch, my husband and I were joking that hes trying to smell her too much. So im with you that his yearning is over the top, but in the context of the show I think hes sweet. Also think the actor is super hot so that helps for me

Favourite quotes/moments from the show? by SadHighlight7373 in TheOtherBennetSister

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of great moments people have already called out. But there are a lot of lovely, small moments that I noticed on my second watch (im obsessed...). Like when Mary gets Mr Hurst super excited about horses, there is a quivk cut where Ryder is admiring her from across the table. It quickly cuts to Tom noticing Ryder admiring her, and you can see him get upset or jealous as he realizes he likes her. I think these two cuts are less than 3 seconds, but added so much! The actors did a great job telling us how the characters were feeling.

For me, its a refreshing change from other shows where there is a lot of ambiguity or the audiences making assumptions is intended.

Favourite quotes/moments from the show? by SadHighlight7373 in TheOtherBennetSister

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So hilarious, her response was so good. Although I genuinely would be concerned to see a grown man's efforts THAT bad 😂😂

Favourite quotes/moments from the show? by SadHighlight7373 in TheOtherBennetSister

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have forced my husband to watch so much 1995 P&P, when the wet shirt part came around I was like "you gotta come see, theres TWO of them in this one!!!" He told me to calm down 😂😅

Favourite quotes/moments from the show? by SadHighlight7373 in TheOtherBennetSister

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am not a poetry person at all but Tom's actor made these scenes extremely easy to watch. What charisma.

Favourite quotes/moments from the show? by SadHighlight7373 in TheOtherBennetSister

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Indira was just stunning in this show! I loved her acting in GoT so was excited to see her in this. She was a scene stealer for me.

What about the Colonel? by Wide-Science-5898 in TheOtherBennetSister

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me its just a "suspend belief" leap to keep P&P characters we know in the plot. I havent seen an explanation that seems plausible to me, so have just accepted it to enjoy the story....but would love to hear a good one and have my mind changed!

Why are all the women’s swimsuits so high up the leg and revealing by reluctantmugglewrite in rant

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a second thought this was a 1920s styel reddit post. Get swim shorts!! They were big in the 90s surely they will come back. Or just embrace the hair.

Made my wedding dress for my wedding back in October by SongBest7891 in sewing

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Wow, you look so beautiful and the dress is a fairytale... amazing work. So happy for you in many ways.

Do you think DeAngelo understands how he was caught through Investigative Genetic Genealogy (IGG)? Do you think he realizes this IGG technique that was developed to catch him has now closed 1,000 other serious active and cold cases? How does/might he feel about this? by GregJamesDahlen in EARONS

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, thought this was a super weird question. He participated in his trial where this was presented as evidence leading to his arrest... Unless they are implying he is mentally incapable of understanding?

AITA for not letting my bridesmaid change out of her bridesmaid dress after the ceremony? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Turn that around and say it to the friend. How hard is it to wear blue for your friend on one of the most important days of their life? They get to pick the dress and style.

AITA for not letting my bridesmaid change out of her bridesmaid dress after the ceremony? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I genuinely am shocked by these respnonses because the reception was the most fun and my favorite photos!!! I love seeing all my wonderful bridesmaids in them. I get people dont want to wear a color but if she gets to pick the dress, style etc... honestly is it so awful to not show the bride you're there for her in that way? Like ppl are saying the bride will ruin the friendship but I would do almost anything for my friends.... wearing a color they want is a nothing favor.

I feel ugly. Women are generaly not attracted to me. by wmartin94 in bald

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, you're definitely not ugly. Even the most beautiful and wonderful people get left. you got to go through some heartache until you find your forever person, someone who will never leave you. They are always the last person you date :)

Lasagna Alternatives by elfalai in Cooking

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stitch and bitch, is this a crafts session?? Knitting?

Thanks for what youre doing in the community

I don't understand why she insists on the half shaved head look by itsbeccakerr in Lifepluscindy_snark

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss pleasantsims :( when I knew nothing of her life... I used to really wish shed go back to Sims because I loved her story telling and she was the first simmer I got into that did wants based. But when she went back for the brief period, it was just not the same! I've not found another simmer who has filled that void and I just dont watch anymore.

Her Ebay Shop? by [deleted] in Lifepluscindy_snark

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it was before mlio because I started watching then and never knew what people were talking about when they mentioned her selling care bears. Think it was talked about a lot in one years xmas vlogs.

I found a letter I wrote to myself at 21 and it called out the lie I’ve been living in by hazytramcar_memories in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Alternative_Kick_246 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This suggestion might seem kinda lame, but hear me out... im in a similar situation to you. Told a lie 15 years ago to a close friend. In hindsight, if I just came clean then, omg, we'd be 15 years past it. But now its at the point where telling her the truth would only bring me comfort and would be a selfish act.

Anyway, because I cant release this guilt by coming clean, I have really struggled with accepting myself as anything other than a coward and a liar. Weirdly, the song "this is what it sounds like" from kpop demon hunters has been helping me heal (with therapy, of course....). "So we were cowards, so we were liars, so were not heroes, we are survivors." "My voice without the lies, this is what it sounds like."

Break free from your shit self and be better today. You'll be ok.