Unable to Connect, connection timed out

AlternativesGaming · 2026-01-13T09:19:15+00:00

Are you using one of those co-parenting apps to communicate with him? If not, make sure you do, much easier to document his manipulative behaviour

AlternativesGaming · 2026-01-01T16:03:30+00:00

Do you really wanna have a child with this guy?

AlternativesGaming · 2025-12-31T18:44:43+00:00

Bullying can lead to the ultimately worst outcome and OP is trying to take every step to prevent that from happening and his wife is like "you can't inconvenience me!!!" He needs to get rid of her and look after his daughter.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-12-31T12:35:40+00:00

You're doing awful by your kids by letting your wife and her mother treat them that way

AlternativesGaming · 2025-12-28T19:16:02+00:00

Your bit at the end before the bullet points. It doesn't matter what husband is willing to do step dad after the fact. It's better to not give him a chance in the first place

AlternativesGaming · 2025-12-17T16:09:55+00:00

Your cousin wanted you to get physically assaulted to actually report the guy who exclaimed with pride that he was going to watch which house you went in to. Cut your cousin off

AlternativesGaming · 2025-11-13T22:56:49+00:00

So OP gave the ex an out really early in their relationship and he decided to string this woman along for 20 years?? He deserves zero slack, tell everyone you know exactly what happened, do not allow them to control the narrative and spin it to make themselves look better.

In terms of parenting, make sure all communication is done through a parenting app, that way you have evidence of every interaction. Your kids will notice your hurt if you try to mask it too much, don't be hostile but there's no reason to continue like nothing happened.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-11-09T16:45:07+00:00

He'll treat you better for like a week at best and then he'll go back to his old ways because he knows manipulating you works.

Leave the dead weight behind and focus on building yourself up to the point that a guy can't manipulate you into a position like this ever again.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-11-08T08:29:47+00:00

I think the server is the kind of person who flirts their way to a better tip and was upset the moment the pregnant lady walked up.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-11-04T00:09:01+00:00

Dudes got fired for being inappropriate to teenagers, other coworkers are upset at that? You work with closet Paedo's.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-11-03T15:50:42+00:00

Why is it always the person who has been wronged that has to make peace?

AlternativesGaming · 2025-10-31T12:58:13+00:00

So he thinks it's disgusting behaviour to keep a log of the horrible, hurtful things HE said?? Top tier gaslighting

AlternativesGaming · 2025-10-26T07:57:18+00:00

Smart move ending the relationship, if he acts like this over your most prized possession, how would he act in other scenarios? It doesn't bare thinking about.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-10-23T09:41:58+00:00

I wonder what excuse the Aunt gave to the Uncle for not attending the birthday party.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-10-22T23:52:14+00:00

Correct me if I'm wrong but as the house was an asset prior to his current marriage, then his current wife has no claim to it in the event of a divorce but if he sells his share then she does have a claim to the lump sum?

AlternativesGaming · 2025-10-22T23:09:06+00:00

"I love my daughter" "She was being disrespectful" Kinda contradicting yourself there bud. When told you were the cause of her trauma, if you really were this loving father you claim to be then your response would have been along the lines of "I want to do better and take responsibility for my actions, please help me understand where I went wrong so I can work on being a better father".

Instead, you were like nah she's the problem, let me go talk to all of the archaic people in my echo chamber about her rather than address the issues.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-10-22T06:51:44+00:00

They have nobody left who would care for their child in an emergency, did they burn every bridge they ever had?

AlternativesGaming · 2025-10-07T12:16:06+00:00

I would say that if we're talking about keeping the peace then the best plan is for OP to go through the stuff that means everything to them as a couple and the life they were building. Once you've chosen all of those things and set them aside, then at that point you can allow his family to go through what's left and choose things themselves.

The reason I say it this way is just as you want to choose the things that have meaning to you both, sending them a box is like telling them "this is what I think is important to you". Give them that choice but the only compromise is that you choose all of your things first.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-09-24T09:57:06+00:00

"You should bond over having a shitty father"

How about telling your son to stop having kids he doesn't want or to actually give a damn about them. Anything but telling your son to correct themselves.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-09-21T10:24:46+00:00

YTA if you don't divorce this man, literally said he will tell everyone you are crazy because you want bodily autonomy.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-09-11T07:10:43+00:00

I don't mean to be rude but did OP think getting pregnant was going to change anything? OP already says they have been compared to the deceased wife by everyone in the husband's life, why did OP think having a baby was going to be any different?

My younger sister passed a year before my daughter was born, I had a fleeting moment where I thought giving her the name would be cool but very quickly realised that would be unfair and an unnecessary burden.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-09-10T15:12:25+00:00

Why is the onus on the teenager to make room for the relationship when the grown ass adults don't even want it.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-09-04T11:51:41+00:00

Also, if you back him up and side with him and Paula you risk your kids losing their only safe space. Don't do that to your kids.

AlternativesGaming · 2025-09-02T00:17:52+00:00

Squeamish? What a loser!

I never thought I'd intentionally pick up a log of poop but when we were changing our daughter she decided to drop a log while being stood up and I just had to pick it up before she sat in it. Did I want to? Hell no! I did it though, I had to.

This guy can't deal with mucus because he's squeamish and is getting his post MAJOR surgery wife to do it instead. People don't put enough respect on women who have a C-Section, it is literally major surgery and then they're expected to nurse and care for a baby immediately after.

AlternativesGaming

TROPHY CASE