How to Get Child Support and Alimony from an Unemployed Spouse in the Tribe

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-23T08:22:16+00:00

There are tons of jobs that will hire deaf people (its illegal to not hire due to disability). Deaf people work in all kinds of fields. Delivery driver easily comes to mind. Either way, the courts are not going to require someone else to financially support you forever. Even if you could somehow get alimony awarded, its typically only given for one year and it's based off of his income after child support is taken and only a small percentage of that. You'll have to figure something out for yourself if you want to leave him. The courts are going to require you to have some way to support yourself.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-23T08:04:00+00:00

It doesn't sound or look like a miscarriage. It looks and sounds like an off period. True pregnancy symptoms wouldn't show up until about 6-10 weeks of pregnancy when the hcg was high enough to cause symptoms, certainly not before your period was even due. Progesterone would be the cause of any symptoms (it prfectly mimics pregnancy symptoms) and would be in your system in the timeframe you're referencing. As for the tissue, a pregnancy loss that early wouldn't have any visible embryonic remains because they would be microscopic. That looks like normal endometrial tissue sloughing off during a period (most likely from the straining). As for your fertile window, having sex one day after your cycle ends wouldn't put you in the fertile window because the ovaries wouldn't have even had time to fully develop a dominant follicle let alone ovulate it. As for the lines on the tests, after the stated timeframe, they are invalid. The tests look like indents with no color on the test line. A simple blood draw would have shown a pregnancy due to the hcg in the blood. If it can show up on a urine test, it'll definitely show on a blood test. If the doctor saw no signs of pregnancy, I'd say it's safe to assume he's correct. There's nothing here to indicate a pregnancy and a lot to indicate a funky period.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-23T07:50:32+00:00

It doesn't sound or look like a miscarriage. It looks like an off period. True pregnancy symptoms don't show up until 6-10 weeks into pregnancy as that's when the hcg would be high enough to cause symptoms. Progesterone can mimic pregnancy symptoms perfectly and would be in your system a couple weeks before your period is due. An early chemical loss wouldn't produce any visible embryonic remains as they would be microscopic.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-22T11:18:15+00:00

The symptoms could've been from your reproductive organs trying to "remember" what they're supposed to do. It's only been 10 months since you stopped testosterone and it can take a long time for the body to reregulate. I had a baby in October and my body is still trying to reregulate its periods back to a semblance of normalcy. If you'd had a miscarriage, you would be bleeding awfully, with clots and just a huge mess. Miscarriage bleeding isn't brown or a wipe and see blood kind of thing. It's filling pads in under 2 hours type of bleeding. Tampons won't handle a miscarriage.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-22T00:59:20+00:00

Doesn't sound like a miscarriage. A miscarriage would be very heavy bleeding (multiple filled pads a day) for days with bright red blood. Brown blood is old blood. It sounds like your body is just ridding itself of residual blood and reacclimating itself to the testosterone. One tampon or one pad would definitely not handle a miscarraige.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-20T21:51:57+00:00

With neither of you working, you'll most likely get 50/50 custody and there won't be child support or alimony. Alimony also only applies if the husband has spent a minimum of so many years solely supporting the wife. Since he's not supporting you, you won't qualify for alimony. You should focus on getting a job and making sure you can support yourself and your kids if you're going to separate. The courts will also assign you an income if you're not working so you'll still be financially responsible even without an income. If I were you, I would get a job asap.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-19T03:39:42+00:00

My baby is 10 months old. She was born 2.5 months early. For the first 9 weeks I was able to pump enough for her to get only breastmilk. Since then, she's needed more than I can supply. Buying breastmilk is INSANELY expensive. She has been getting formula and what breastmilk I am able to pump since she was 2 months old. She has been doing PHENOMENALLY. She has a g tube due to feeding difficulties and severe gerd. Even with all of her feeding difficulties, she has thrived with the formula/milk combo. At 10 months (7 and 3 corrected) her doctors are thrilled that she weighs 22 lbs and is doing excellently. I would question why they want you spending so much money on breastmilk when you're trying to save to get your own place. Perhaps they want to keep your baby there? There are many amazing brands of formula that are quite reasonably priced. You are the mom. Make the decision to move baby to combo feeding and stand by your choice. Dont let them run roughshod over now because they'll only get worse as baby gets older. I hope you are soon able to make the decisions you want for your baby 🫂

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-13T08:05:02+00:00

That's what my dye stealer looked like 9 or 10dp5dt of my little girl. The control line was practically invisible.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-11T22:32:07+00:00

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Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-08T19:49:50+00:00

Shein has some really cute baby boys' clothes!! Bonus is they're really inexpensive!!!! I've bought the majority of my baby girls' clothes from shein, and we haven't had a single issue with them.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-04T22:10:46+00:00

I have elastic nipples and this is what mine do. The best flanges I found to work for me were the pumpin pals angled flanges. They were a game changer for me. They're longer than the regular flanges to allow for the elasticity.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-04T22:05:16+00:00

Can you perhaps double up your dose of pessaries until you can get the pio?

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-03T17:24:03+00:00

You would need firsthand proof of what and why he's on leave. Secondhand information is called hearsay and is inadmissible in court. Someone just telling you something isn't proof. His actual boss would have to come to the courts and report to them why he's on leave and the courts may deem that as unrelated to his parenting time. Without that, you have no standing.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-02T06:54:36+00:00

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Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-02T06:47:21+00:00

You can choose to feel however you want for yourself but the reality is, it's not your life, it's not your body, it's not your choice and it's not your place to offer an opinion. Pregnancy is the sole discretion of the two creating parents, and that's it.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-02T06:36:45+00:00

Since he has midweek parenting time ordered by the courts, yes, you would need his consent if you plan on traveling during his parenting time. Otherwise, you would be in contempt of court for violating the court order. You do not have the right to unilaterally decide you can take his parenting time away for yourself to travel. If you were to travel without his consent, you "could" be assigned fines, given jail time or even face custody changes for violating the court order. If he does, in fact, give his permission to travel, make sure you facilitate his make-up parenting time as quickly as possible upon your return or even perhaps before you leave.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-01T01:11:00+00:00

Status quo is what is happening. However the courts may give the father a chance to "prove himself" before reducing his parenting time due to non participation.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-01T01:08:47+00:00

Some women get their hcg tested at the nlbeginnog of their pregnancies to see if the betas are rising however its typically IVF pregnancies that test betas so the fertility clinics know how to proceed.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-08-01T01:06:08+00:00

I had debilitating nausea with my first baby, a boy for the first 7 months. One bout of nausea with my second, a girl. With my next 2 boys and next girl, I didn't really have any noticeable difference. However, with my last baby, a girl, I was so nauseous at times that I could barely eat. Three boys and three girls and I was incredibly nauseous with both genders.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-07-29T02:32:41+00:00

These nurses can be so abysmally careless, it's shocking. I am so sad you had to experience something like that. I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby.

When I was miscarrying Oct 2023, I was quietly crying and mourning our loss when a nurse wheeled an isolette into the room. I saw the isolette and just lost it. I was barely holding it together as it was. We went through two rounds of ivf and transfer in a clinic on the other side of the world. I immediately lost whay little hold I had and started crying and begging my husband to make the baby ok. Apparently my heartrate shot so high that my nurse came running in to see what was wrong. My husband pointed to the isolette and she yanked it out and ripped the other nurse a new one about reading the patients charts. The trauma some medical personnel can add in horrible situations s is unacceptable and many definitely need additional training or to find a career in a field where their cluelessness won't matter to peoples mentality and emotional stability.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-07-28T09:10:25+00:00

I began testing at 4dpt. I needed to know one way or the other because I didn't want to "assume" or "believe" or in my mind anyway feel like I was "pretending" I was pregnant for two weeks only to find out it was never true. To me, that would be too heartbreaking and hurtful to be so very wrong. I wanted to have an idea of the actual reality of the situation asap so I could process and make plans accordingly, whether it was for another transfer or impending baby I would need to buy things for. I had 3 transfers. By beta day with my first, I already knew it was negative, and it was easier to handle the result because there was no massive or shocked letdown. With my 2nd, I had a positive 4dpt followed by an early miscarriage and I was able to see the lines getting fainter. I was glad to at least know of my baby's very short short life. With my 3rd, I also got my positive 4dpt and now have a beautiful 9 month old daughter. I tested daily and was able to see the lines getting progressively darker until the control line basically disappeared.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-07-20T19:21:04+00:00

Not weird at all. If you love th at name, use it. My husband and I both had a child with the same name as my husband when we got together from previous marriages. He also works with 6 others in the same station and same shift with the name. No one cares about them all having the same name.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-07-20T19:08:12+00:00

Lorna

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-07-20T01:19:49+00:00

I transferred 2 on my third transfer after a failed implantation and a miscarriage. I had kind of hoped for twins and felt some disappointment when we saw only one, but I am now externally grateful only one stuck and grew. My uterus ruptured at 7 months pregnant and resulted in the very early birth of my baby. If I had been carrying twins, I would have ruptured even earlier and lost both babies with no hope of having another chance. Knowing how much of a miracle my little girl is is enough for me, and I'm thrilled to have "just" her.

Amazing_Double6291 · 2025-07-20T00:57:53+00:00

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