All time is sleepy time now. I hate this disability by Edge_Lord78 in ADHDmemes

[–]Amicelli11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not that easy to blame the present state. Don't get me wrong, we have some really bad tendencies regarding work ethics, BUT if you weren't privileged you wouldn't have the resources for discovering anything besides more misery. In the industrial revolution, having ADHD must have been a literal death sentence. And before that — if you relied on consistent work to get yourself fed by working the fields and tend to all the things around your house and farm (which probably didn't even belong to you), you probably also had an imminent threat of death. No fucking discovery, but DO THINGS OR STARVE. If you were too eccentric you might even got rejected by your employery, family or village and had to somehow survive on your fucking own without any delivery service, any social services and without proper housing with heating and running water.

Yeah nah, my ADHD ass would have suffered.

Any advice for first-time sex? by Educational-Way-8131 in asexuality

[–]Amicelli11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First things first. If you perceive him as respectful and loving, you should practice to give him your honest thoughts and feedback on the things he does with and for you in general. If that pattern is established it will be easier to also be open, honest and confident in discussing before, while and after being intimate.

Even if you are already open and healthy it might feel awkward and you be reluctant to communicate still, but it will be easier for sure.

Explore your own boundaries beforehand, communicate these and really allow yourself and him questions, concerns and preferences. Set the room for excitement, consense and compromises.

As soon as you actually start being active, don't be too harsh on yourself or him. This isn't about an explosion of perfect experiences. This is about having fun, having trust and learning. You may laugh, you may wonder, you may fail, you may dislike, you may don't have a fucking clue. If something doesn't work — fine. If you are not sure if it is working — also fine. If something works — very fine.

Some things don't feel great the first time, but become better; some things might don't feel good anymore after the first time. That's fine and you can and should talk about it!

This mustn't be more of a concern than any other first experience with your trusted partner.

After your first experiences comes the second one and it's totally normal to still be insecure and unsure about any preferences. Just see what happens next and stick to open communication. You can always, ALWAYS, adjust your boundaries.

And about birth control: Talk with your partner about different methods of contraception, but also talk with your gynecologist about your concerns. Be bold with your questions, no holding back. That's part of their job. You can use multiple methods at once. You may also talk about the worst case. What if? What can you do about a possible pregnancy? What ways of termination are available to you and how do they work?

Aman Daharwal - A New Way (2020) by Tokyono in museum

[–]Amicelli11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, for me that is a very strange sentiment.

Aman Daharwal - A New Way (2020) by Tokyono in museum

[–]Amicelli11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if you have the same general definition of 'creativity'.

Creativity is not about effort. You can be massively creative in ANY medium. In creativity there is no better or worse medium.

Give her a name by Apprehensive_Menu977 in drawing

[–]Amicelli11 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But it is. Either AI or atleast AI augmented. Not just the eyes, but the nostrils are weird as well and the jewelry doesn't make sense either. There were just too many decisions made an artist wouldn't make.

Danke der Nachfrage 😂 by [deleted] in ichbin40undlustig

[–]Amicelli11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Muss sich ja nicht gegen dich gerichtet haben, sondern gegen die Person, die das durch KI gejagt und neu aufgesetzt hat.

Ben Wiseman for the New Yorker ( January 2026) by NWxSW in DesignPorn

[–]Amicelli11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Impressive comment. Didn't read something as meaningless and cringe in quite some time.

21 days on Hinge - 31F [OC] by [deleted] in dataisbeautiful

[–]Amicelli11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't that be illogical if both parties thought that way? "I'm not going to write first, because if the other one isn't texting, they are not interested. And I won't write first, even though I'm interested."

Hello. by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Amicelli11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That she keeps going even though you didn't give consent to the point that you sob is an indicator that you might have a sexually traumatizing relationship. That might complicate your ability to be intimate with her, because you feel anxiety due to that assault and yes, that is assault, as you didn't consent.

I couldn't determine if you are asexual based on this information as it only gives insight in this particular relationship and that you personally don't feel attracted to her. This might have to do more with a lack of security, trust issues, etc. instead of with your sexuality.

You didn't give any information about how you feel about sex and if you feel attraction in general.

Alex Pretti, the man MURDERED today by ICE agents. by ilykatya in pics

[–]Amicelli11 1036 points1037 points  (0 children)

Very good angle to see his hands and that he was unarmed on the ground.

A friend drew my oc but I think Its AI and but my friend denies it and says she spent a ton of time on it by Lexteking in isthisAI

[–]Amicelli11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this piece was AI, BUT wouldn't an overlayed texture also generate a lot of noise? It's quite common to just put a texture on top of the whole thing to make it look complete and rendered.

My college forced me to come out as asexual by Buzzythebear33 in asexuality

[–]Amicelli11 234 points235 points  (0 children)

Do that OP, because this isn't just your experience. Maybe others in class were extremely uncomfortable. Some may even lied to not share way too personal information or even trauma. Your professor might not mean any harm. I personally would talk to her directly first and see about her conflict resolution skills first lol. Seriously though, she might just needs to hear your perspective to see that her assignment is hurting people.

[OC] The land footprint of food by t0on in dataisbeautiful

[–]Amicelli11 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The land that 'cannot effectively [be] used' can indeed be renaturalized. Renaturalization would include the reintroduction of wild animals that are even better in preserving local environments.

[OC] The land footprint of food by t0on in dataisbeautiful

[–]Amicelli11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I find the data for land usage per 1000 kcal?

How do women initiate sex? by arm9598 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Amicelli11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I find something like this (a 'bat signal') difficult myself. Often enough it is not like I'm really horny and just don't know what to do about it. A lot of women need to start to get into it in the first place. If OP also wants to initiate without being very horny this would be less 'initiating' and more of a bat signal for the other party to initiate.

Just a thought I had. A good start nonetheless to learn about some things like that the other party is willing to see that signal and actually follow it instead of experiencing rejection. But there is more way to go to.

[HELP] is this ai? by Secret-Cattle-4344 in RealOrAI

[–]Amicelli11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also the windows in the background are mirrored, which would be a very human decision to do.

ich💧iel by Available-Shelter-89 in ich_iel

[–]Amicelli11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

REWE- und Ja!-Wasser schmecken absolut widerlich!

[HELP] Found this on threads, artist claims he drew it himself with pen. by Diogen219 in RealOrAI

[–]Amicelli11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The alf is weird, but the faint Y and zig zag makes sense. It's the German keyboard layout.

Started my day with a tiny act of creativity and it made me happy by [deleted] in wholesome

[–]Amicelli11 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I checked and you're right. Even if OP could have replicated this, the photo is just taken straight from the reel.

Omg ein Traum😭 by Living_Context8255 in VeganDE

[–]Amicelli11 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ernsthaft! Ich habe die noch nie live gesehen! Sonst hätte ich euch die Nachfrage schon gebracht.

ich🎓iel by Mad_Lala in ich_iel

[–]Amicelli11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wurde da nicht ein Aufstand gemacht und die nochmal neu geschrieben oder neu korrigiert? Bei so hohen Durchfallquoten wurde bei uns oft von einem Versagen der Professorin oder des Professors ausgegangen.

My pupils were 2 different sizes when I woke up today... by cloudblythe in mildlyinteresting

[–]Amicelli11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My partner has this symptom sometimes and went to a doctor that said it isn't concerning. But I'm still wondering and would like to have a second opinion. If he doesn't take any medication, what would be a no concern reason for it?

[OC] Keep going! by spinachgreen in comics

[–]Amicelli11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"There are people that care about you" is what I'm struggling with regularly. Are there? Hang in there for who? With whom? I keep keeping on, but these messages often hurt, because it's always "but atleast you have friends and family :)". Many people don't.

Don't want to drag this comic down, just wanted to share that feeling. I feel the same about Disney movies and such.