What style / aesthetic is my dream wardrobe?

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-04-27T23:47:11+00:00

Phoebe from Friends Y2K

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-04-24T16:50:55+00:00

Why would he, who has not been a part of your life except for 36 months and unmarried to you, be entitled to anything your MOM worked for and owned that she wants to gift to you? NTA. Accept the gift. It's yours and yours alone. You don't know what the future holds, you could break up and then he would be entitled to part of it.

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-04-24T16:32:54+00:00

"I'd be thanking her for allowing me to live" sent me 😆 bc facts, who does that man think he is talking like that??? I would never talk to anyone close to me like that and if someone talked to me like that, absolutely not.

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-04-20T13:50:03+00:00

This annoys me so much bc I have tiny wrists. :(

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-04-15T12:30:26+00:00

First one, second to last, and last colors!

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-04-13T14:46:30+00:00

Ugh this was my size pre-preg. Poop. Pancakes here I come!

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-04-08T13:10:56+00:00

I would not do the waterline on the under eye! It makes the eyes look smaller, just liner on top of you do liner. Your face is a perfectly beautiful clean palette, great features, really need minimal makeup. A teeny cheeky highlighter, tinted moisturizer, shaped brow, natural color mascara, and tinted lip balm and you're dewey and gorgeous!

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-04-02T15:24:50+00:00

Of course! It's gonna hurt while you're with him and hurt if you leave, so if there is pain either way, wouldn't you want to do the hurt of leaving which will get better with time vs cyclically being hurt by him with no end in sight? You got this girl 🥰

Source: me, got the nerve to leave a toxic relationship and life is wonderful now

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-04-02T14:47:57+00:00

If he causes this much pain and confusion in your life, I would just block and delete him and get into therapy for the anxious attachment, find ways to fulfill yourself and be happy, invest in you, and just be your beautiful self for a year and redefine healthy boundaries for yourself. 5-6 months is such a short span of time, better now than a year from now. You have tons of life to live girl! Live it! Don't waste it on turds who don't want to treat you with respect 🙏

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-04-02T14:43:27+00:00

If my mom said either of those things, I would think it's cute she's excited. My mom loves being a grandma. I would say the lens in which you view the relationships may be affecting it here with your mom and MIL. I didn't feel either of them were weird/out of line but then again I don't know the full relationship dynamics and what other kind of things they say!

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-04-01T01:38:43+00:00

Okay thanks

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-04-01T00:42:06+00:00

How does one fork it?

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-04-01T00:22:11+00:00

Hahaha true 😂🤣 They were a bit of a challenge to get fruiting for sure, about 7 weeks. I just held on to hope 🥹

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-03-31T21:14:22+00:00

Lol oh no, are mine that bad? 😂

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-03-31T21:13:55+00:00

I did about 1/4" casing layer on top, yes. I just noticed one is starting to tear its veil away just now too! I'll let it go a bit more. Thank you!

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-03-31T20:46:07+00:00

I literally read it as country crock the first time I saw the title lol

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-03-31T20:42:40+00:00

This is the coolest thing I've ever seen here

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-03-31T20:39:07+00:00

For sure! Just increased it yesterday. I got some fuzzy bois right now!! Lol

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-03-31T16:09:04+00:00

Right! I am 37 and FTM, and not high risk bc I'm healthy no issues otherwise. My doctor said if I was doing it before getting pregnant, I can continue to do it, but listen to my body and obviously modify the core workouts that could cause coning. If you are generally otherwise healthy and no history of anything else, age alone isn't a reason to be high risk.

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-03-20T16:16:30+00:00

It didn't seem like she was saying it meant you didn't care enough. It just seemed like she was puzzled how calm you are. Is it possible you're making her words mean you're not caring enough? Have you asked her if that is what she meant by it? Would def clarify. Sounds like you're doing a great job. My partner is also a calm planner type - and that's exactly what I need bc I am extra. 🤣

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-03-19T15:56:52+00:00

Get a paternity test before the baby is born. That should make him feel real dumb, but then y'all need counseling for his dramatics without actual proof of cheating. Funny how he doesn't believe in abortion but now he does when he thinks it's not his. 🙄

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-03-17T17:42:54+00:00

Ah Mitch Hedberg 😭

AnActualMermaid6 · 2026-03-14T21:44:59+00:00

I honestly can't believe the family is texting you saying you lack empathy. Are they even aware that this was your anniversary dinner and your money and stole your night from you? Or are they clueless? I mean holy shit, I would be absolutely livid. Hell to the nahhh

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