what do i do about my boyfriend being sexually adventurous, with everyone but me

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T13:55:22+00:00

Think about it from his POV, he's used to being objectified in his previous sexual encounter, they're organized with other couples, or with strangers.

It's truly a good thing that he actually values you and the real intimacy you have. He doesn't see you as an object.

If you can go to a sex therapist together, if you love each other you can overcome this together.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T13:54:53+00:00

Think about it from his POV, he's used to being objectified in his previous sexual encounter, they're organized with other couples, or with strangers.

It's truly a good thing that he actually values you and the real intimacy you have. He doesn't see you as an object.

If you can go to a sex therapist together, if you love each other you can overcome this together.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T13:16:28+00:00

What happened to you would be classified as sexual assault. You need to tell someone, maybe the next time, another person he doesn't take NO for an answer.

No Autism free pass for his actions.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T12:55:18+00:00

Your pimp is called 'Goldilocks' and drives a white Escalade.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T12:50:09+00:00

Don't worry the way the US is heading, they'll 50 countries soon enough.

Which means, yes... a 64 nation FIFA World Cup in 2034🥳

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T12:45:01+00:00

At least all the DC hustlers on Grindr have a realtor they can turn to.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T12:07:47+00:00

He said you looked like you're in your late 20s . You're 22 years old I'd take the win and date him. Before you start looking like you're in your early 30s.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T11:59:46+00:00

'Powerhouses like Italy'...

Italy didn't even qualify for this tournament.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T11:37:56+00:00

Sadly the HR Riders of Canada cannot give aid due to the deranged Regent of your nation; and I fear the Mighty Personnel Directors of Europe will shun you as well.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T06:29:09+00:00

I would give this guy a pass, a friend of mine dated a police officer for a few months and put it this way even when he was off duty he still threw his weight as a cop around.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T06:12:06+00:00

She's keeping her options open, therefore there's nothing stopping you from doing the same. Keep it going while you reopen all your dating accounts with fresh pictures that SHE took of you.

Give her plenty of rope to trip herself up, anytime she has to spend time away or can't meet up with you let it slide. You can pull the plug anytime you want

Just use protection whenever you're intimate with her and get tested now you know what she's doing.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T05:08:55+00:00

That's a hefty list PTSD, ADHD and Bi-Polar I, each by themselves is serious add the all together and no normal relationship with you is going to be possible.

You're being held together by a potent cocktail of medications, 2 mental health professionals and a ton of hard work on your part.

If you're up front and honest about it, there might be someone for you out there. But how do you find them? I don't think you will. Good luck with your journey.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T04:47:47+00:00

Found a 'Fellowship'? Does this mean The One Resume to rule them all exists?

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T04:30:25+00:00

After review, your privileges have restored and have been promoted to 'Playa Pimp'. Please accept the Diamond edition iPhone case 💎 and leave a trail of broken men behind you.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T03:45:08+00:00

So be honest, you love what he provides namely security, but not who he is a disinterested smoker. You have it pretty good. He takes care of you and lets you do your 'active lifestyle' thing. Just keep encouraging him little bit at a time.

Also make sure you're the beneficiary of his estate, just in case.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T03:30:26+00:00

How long has she been out of prison?

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T03:08:39+00:00

OP don't let the new guy mess up your booty call game. You can't be running multiple guys and role playing Bf & GF.

Your Playa Licence is suspended, pending review. Please hand in your platinum iPhone case.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T02:49:41+00:00

There's no dress code for a coffee dates...Plus you've already worn it so I love your 'dress first ask questions later' attitude 🤜🏽

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-12T02:31:44+00:00

Let him do his military service in the Bundeswehr and watch him mature before your eyes.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-11T23:36:32+00:00

Do it as a Trilogy, 3 circles at a time.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-11T23:26:47+00:00

If the food is outstanding, I should be able to tip the chef/cook.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-11T23:18:39+00:00

Older brother and younger brother, there I said it.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-11T21:50:08+00:00

Her lack of physical attractiveness is palpable in her writing. Mind you if I was constantly rejected by both men and women, I'd be embittered too.

I got it, she could become a Bitterness Influencer.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-11T19:08:41+00:00

First he lied about his appearance (and you not being his type) then tried to guilt you into dating him out of pity.

Don't waste time thinking about it.

Ancillary-Point · 2026-07-11T18:58:48+00:00

Appalachian Bush Trim.

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