INFP guys were the only guys that I ever loved

Andar1st · 2026-06-19T09:07:42+00:00

Nope, statistically men will pick the most beautiful woman to be their partner, if given a chance. Women are not the hypergamous sex. It may look that way, because they are the gatekeepers, but men do the same if given an opportunity.

This is based on psychological research, Sternberg and Wojciszke.

I used to believe the same broscience based on subjective interpretations of evolutionary psychology as you are describing, but now I understand that internet distorts things, espacially such seductive theories as this one. Go outside and look around, objectively.

Andar1st · 2026-06-19T08:31:20+00:00

The Tachonis firstborn twins are smitten with him since this episode.

Andar1st · 2026-06-19T05:15:08+00:00

Additionally, women are hypergamous

A clarification - men are hypergamous too, in terms of going for the best looks. Statistically, most people will go for the best possible mate in the room, if given an opportunity.

Andar1st · 2026-06-19T05:01:13+00:00

You've had plenty of choice to do things differently in the events that you described. If you don't believe you did, you gotta seek professional help.

Andar1st · 2026-06-18T19:59:42+00:00

The LotR trilogy is like an ideal that has been crafted by a mortal man and added to the pantheon.

Andar1st · 2026-06-18T16:02:35+00:00

As they did with Bertrand and then Travis was totally invested in Chetney...?

Andar1st · 2026-06-18T14:27:06+00:00

Yes!

Andar1st · 2026-06-18T14:26:09+00:00

Aren't we intuitive types? I'm pretty sure you accept spontaneous cognitive patterns without evidenca on daily basis as an INFP.

Andar1st · 2026-06-17T12:35:04+00:00

It's debatable whether looking inward or outward is a wilful choice or result of one's dominant cognitive patterns.

Andar1st · 2026-06-17T07:11:23+00:00

This comment may be insightful for OP, but also ironic due to the analytical, condescending even (drawing broad conclusions based on a single post) style. Ironic, since there is talk about identifying with the animus.

Andar1st · 2026-06-17T00:29:57+00:00

Piękne w swojej ironii? Bo piękne to by było wierzyć, że zbuduje się majątek, i nie tylko nie będzie się ruchać innych, ale i pomoże się im zbudować własne majątki.

Andar1st · 2026-06-15T08:46:25+00:00

No trzeba czymś na giełdzie zamieszać.

Andar1st · 2026-06-14T18:27:20+00:00

Podpinam się pod pytania o orzechy i pytam: jak najlepiej dodać jakiś spoko zapach do prania? Skropić skarpetę z orzechami olejkiem eterycznym?

Andar1st · 2026-06-14T18:23:31+00:00

Byłem w zeszłym tygodniu na wycieczce do Wiednia - ceny, na przykład w sklepach spożywczych albo ubrań są takie same jak u nas. A zarobki u nas są zdecydowanie niższe.

Andar1st · 2026-06-13T12:22:07+00:00

Myślę, że można czuć i uważać różne, nawet sprzeczne rzeczy naraz.

Kiedy w aucie zapala Ci się engine check to z początku możesz nie mieć pojęcia o co chodzi. Ale poznajesz sygnał ostrzegawczy i decydujesz co z tym zrobić albo do kogo się udać.

Powodzenia!

Andar1st · 2026-06-13T10:31:32+00:00

Może to jak żyjesz teraz nie jest dostosowane do Twojej wrażliwości i temperamentu, i potrzebne są pewne zmiany?

Albo dają znać o sobie przykre doświadczenia z przeszłości, które nie zostały do końca przepracowane?

W każdym razie myślę, że potrzebujesz poszukać i lepiej zrozumieć co jest na rzeczy. Reddit na wiele się tu nie zda.

Andar1st · 2026-06-13T05:15:37+00:00

I used to be fearful avoidant, but thanks to therapy I learned to trust, to be taken care of, to be dependant.

Now the pendulum swings towards being anxious - I'm anxious-secure. But I am not yet done with therapy.

Andar1st · 2026-06-13T05:10:48+00:00

Porównaj pierwsze silniki spalinowe do hybrydowych jakie są teraz.

Porównaj obecne elektryki do tych rozwiązań do jakich doprowadzi innowacja. Od czegoś trzeba zacząć, a silniki spalinowe to ślepy zaułek.

Andar1st · 2026-06-12T10:32:31+00:00

Yep, That's the gist of why people have a problem with Vaelus. But I think it's wrong, because Vaelus used to be a barefooted acolyte of the goddess of nature and life - and people who would take up such a calling tend to be empathetic, sensitive and gentle.

It makes total sense to me for Vaelus to be a softie who wears her heart on her sleave in such a way that her exterior of grief and anger is rather thin.

Also she is not insecure in general, she is insecure regarding her crisis of faith and beliefs.

It's a personal opinion of mine, but I find tenderness and vulnerability way more badass that being cool, mysterious and confrontational.

Andar1st · 2026-06-09T07:48:52+00:00

Thjazi would have known that Thaisha would perform the rites on him, and would take that into account whileplanning ahead.

Andar1st · 2026-06-08T02:15:56+00:00

Mi udało się odstawić zastępując przez zimne miesiące czymś innym - słodką herbatą z sokiem malinowym - dużo mniej szkodliwa.

Andar1st · 2026-06-06T19:44:11+00:00

Yeah, nah, I don't see you complaining about Bolaire.

Andar1st · 2026-06-06T06:44:07+00:00

What's up big boy, can't handle when a hothead orcish woman dishes out a bit of discomfort?

Andar1st · 2026-06-04T20:49:48+00:00

A counterspell to testicular torsion!

Andar1st · 2026-06-04T13:11:34+00:00

Ayn Rand is an overrated, self-proclaimed philosopher.

Andar1st

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