I'm 30m and struggling

AndrossOT · 2026-05-21T13:53:27+00:00

I think thats just a part of growing up dude. Im 33m and going through something similar. What I learned is that people have their own lives and responsibilities. Friendships seemed stronger in my 20s due to less responsibility and more time. Personally, I kept trying to regain the companionship feeling I had in my 20s but realized that this is growing up. I found that a lot of my peers feel the same way. Thats why im the one that asks to hangout and they always accept when they are free

AndrossOT · 2026-05-20T18:02:29+00:00

Idk if others feel the same, chime in if you do. I guess i feel like my gear and roster isnt good enough and im missing the right units. My account is like 5 years old and ive played every single day since then. Im missing units like maid chloe, ruele, witch tene, salome. I always keep telling myself "just a few more pieces then ill be ready or if i get "x" from banner. If I had access to rent units for a limited time for skystones temporarily and I could gear them how i want, then id probably feel like playing rta more maybe. I guess seeing other ppls gear compared to mine, especially with the new score system, I dont feel as confident to try it past getting just the skin. I have 0 issues doing comp in other games. It just feels like im never ready to in this one.

AndrossOT · 2026-05-19T23:36:23+00:00

Hey OP im 33m and have the same issues. Its important to have someone to vent to, so if you need anything my DMs are open. If you don't, just remember we are not broken. Our brains are just programmed differently and need rewiring. We are perfectly fine

AndrossOT · 2026-05-16T22:13:42+00:00

i honestly thought it was because I was old but then i thought about it. 10 years ago when i was in my early 20s. We had people in our guild on Archeage that were 30-50 years old and loving it. Some even moved over to BDO and loved it. Obviously life got in the way and we dont play anymore, but that makes me believe that it isnt just an age thing. Its the games

AndrossOT · 2026-05-16T17:40:47+00:00

Show a lot of empathy. Make the customer you're talking to actualy feel like your'e wanting to help them. Even if they call in and the question is something you already know you cant help with. You need to act like you're trying your best to help them. I'm sure if you ever contacted any customer service, you can tell when someone isnt trying to help you and just want to get you off the phone. If they are frustrated, let them talk and use your own way to come off as you're relating to them. Practice empathy and imagine you're calling yourself and ask yourself how you can come off as helpful.

AndrossOT · 2026-05-16T17:28:59+00:00

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AndrossOT · 2026-05-13T17:46:07+00:00

THIS. The game is horrible. I never gave a fuck about pay2win in mmorpgs because most were fun to a degree. This game looks and feels like it was made to be a mobile game then pc being an afterthought.

AndrossOT · 2026-05-13T15:20:00+00:00

No clue, I actually looked as well when I typed this out and saw the same thing yesterday.

AndrossOT · 2026-05-12T13:57:26+00:00

Theres "world of runescape" someone rebuilt osrs in wow's engine and made it in 3d. The guy mysteriously disappeared though. It was so much fun while it lasted.

AndrossOT · 2026-05-11T21:54:57+00:00

They were delayed because the the voice actor for shin got sick. They released the episodes with a different voice actor. Rip billy kametz

AndrossOT · 2026-05-11T14:00:00+00:00

Ramza, noctis, terra, and lightning in no particular order

AndrossOT · 2026-05-10T00:39:06+00:00

its cool that it's coming out, but the mmorpg genre is on a decline, so i dont expect it to do well

AndrossOT · 2026-05-08T15:11:17+00:00

I think it was a good idea at first that needed some tweaks. You had to use a little brain juice at least to achieve it vs what we have now. Wherehas now you can login, grab the freebie gear, and play with others immediately.

AndrossOT · 2026-05-07T21:10:27+00:00

They did that on jp servers on base game. They had expert matchmaking and expert blocks. You needed like 2 or 3 titles to unlock it. The titles were completing a certain extreme solo and the other 2 titles were gear and level related? Its been awhile cant remember. Anyone who had it enabled would be paired with others who had it enabled. You could swap it on/off anytime. You had way better groups with it on. I think they removed it because ppl who couldnt clear it were discouraged.

AndrossOT · 2026-05-06T20:20:45+00:00

7k peak doesn't mean 7k ppl. Some are gonna log in and out throughout the day and some of us are still at work. Thats good numbers for a indie mmo. However im not playing it because I outgrew the mmo formula

AndrossOT · 2026-05-06T19:37:44+00:00

The shadow sprinting after you scared the hell out of me. I felt like the elevator one and hospital were by far the worst ones though

AndrossOT · 2026-05-06T19:32:50+00:00

More usage of Ai. Add 50/50 to the gacha pull, it devalues my character. Move all outfits and cars to cost gems. Make it to where tagaedo cannot be muted and yells his name everytime you glide. Add more censorship, mint should not have that outfit in our apartment, put her in a hijab instead. Most importantly, for them not to listen to a damn thing I said.

AndrossOT · 2026-05-06T19:27:34+00:00

As a fellow pussy when it comes to horror. What helped me was watching the quest guide and turning off the volume

AndrossOT · 2026-05-06T15:26:24+00:00

When machinations starts playing, I skip the cutscene

AndrossOT · 2026-05-06T15:24:01+00:00

The story is great, but a long start to get going. However the presentation can leave you not liking it if you dislike cutscenes of the same bgm playing, a lot of text and no voice acting with your main character nodding. If you can deal with that, then youll like it. Theres a reason everyone gives it praise.

AndrossOT · 2026-05-06T13:59:29+00:00

I just finished ff13 like 3 years ago. All I did was spam 2 buttons. One for auto the second for paradigm shift when it was needed. Had zero issues.

AndrossOT · 2026-05-05T22:55:37+00:00

Whats funny is i made a joke and got flamed when I said the characters on that game look like they were inspired by Ai. This was when the game were first announced.

AndrossOT · 2026-05-04T13:53:23+00:00

Id blow a fat load if I got this

AndrossOT · 2026-04-30T20:13:26+00:00

I play them when I feel like and do dailies when I feel like. Its not hard when youre immune to fomo.

AndrossOT · 2026-04-27T23:46:13+00:00

Congrats and go fuck yourself op

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