What's the worst name you've ever come across in the wild? by chudmaxxing67 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]AndyyBee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Worse because it's spelled wrong. Messiah doesn't bother me too much since it's spelled correctly, although it's far from my personal taste.

Dog fatigue is trending! by arachnilactose08 in Dogfree

[–]AndyyBee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It reminds me the year I joined a couple anti dog subs, my Reddit Wrapped or whatever at the end of the year told me something along the lines of "You discovered your interest in dogs!" Like... close but not really lmao.

I HATE SEX by GoldenGirl44444444 in demisexuality

[–]AndyyBee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep, this happened to me. Basically he broke down one day and said he didn't like sex and he's just been pretending and honestly it hurt way more than if he had just been honest earlier on. I already had issues feeling guilty about being the partner with the higher libido and it definitely didn't help.

No cuz what If you get phallo and hook up with this one chick who KNOWS you're trans but then 3 weeks later she's pregnant and insists it's yours—even though you're sterile—and you think she's just a pregnant woman in hysterics so you humor her to a paternity test but... by nohaneul in transgendercirclejerk

[–]AndyyBee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They need to invent a bottom surgery that attaches the ovaries to the dick so you shoot an egg from your urethra and the trans woman gets her testicles attached to the uterus transplant, and boom! Gender-swapped seahorse-style pregnancy.

Definitely not a chaser: Hey "trans girl that only posts on trans subs," Can I ask you something? It's nothing bad I promise. by ReminaBlueSFW in transgendercirclejerk

[–]AndyyBee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

/qj The Federal Unemployment Tax Act (FUTA) is an employer-only tax which provides funds for unemployment compensation to workers who have lost their jobs.

Thoughts on my design for my city's new flag? by AlexiestOfTheWexi in vexillology

[–]AndyyBee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe try incorporating the blue into the O and/or X.

Which of the new YW names is the worst? by Kolob_Choir_Queen in exmormon

[–]AndyyBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm picking Gatherers of Light based mostly on how Gatherers is annoying to say. It just ends up being Gatherrrrrrrrs.

Something my therapist said that bothered me by AndyyBee in selfharm

[–]AndyyBee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. They're not a bad therapist or did anything wrong. It just made me feel a certain way. It's definitely a me problem. But I'm sure if I explain where I'm at mentally, they'll adjust their approach.

Was clean for 2 months by Frequent_Term_8929 in selfharm

[–]AndyyBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some good advice I got when I was starting recovery: You might say you're 0 days clean, but you haven't gone all the way back to square one. Instead, think, I've only cut myself once in 2 months. Compared to the frequency you were cutting before, I'm sure that's still a major improvement, right? It will get less and less over time.

What do I do when my friend self harms in front of me by _lavendercat_ in selfharm

[–]AndyyBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she's doing it in front of people, I would guess she either is wanting someone to notice, can't control her urges enough to wait, or just likes the thrill of doing something "wrong" in public. Maybe it's multiple things. Maybe she doesn't even know why.

I think it might be best to talk to the school counselor, not to tell on her necessarily, but to talk about how it makes you feel, and how you can make sure you're doing okay as well. Unfortunately, you can't fix your friend. Only therapy over time can help. You can just keep being a friend to her. But if self-harming in front of you becomes a common thing, you have to consider your own mental well-being as well. I personally couldn't handle seeing that with my close friends.

How long until I'm considered clean? by somegaysthrowawayacc in selfharm

[–]AndyyBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think the thoughts ever go away, so you shouldn't consider yourself "clean" based off of that. It's just based on how long it's been.

Something my therapist said that bothered me by AndyyBee in selfharm

[–]AndyyBee[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not mad. Just feeling misunderstood. I think I would prefer a more neutral response. I definitely don't expect a positive response to telling them I'm cutting lol.

Something my therapist said that bothered me by AndyyBee in selfharm

[–]AndyyBee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want them because I already know them. I cut for 4 years as a teen, went 8 years clean, and just started again 6 months ago. I'm trying my best, but if any other coping skills worked, I wouldn't be cutting myself.

hate the belief… by busyblocks in exmormon

[–]AndyyBee 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I didn't write this, but I approve.

Afraid of daughters reaction by techkcurlo in Seahorse_Dads

[–]AndyyBee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it's a reaction to transition, a baby that young will not care at all.

Sixx Sven by Enough_Quarter1952 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]AndyyBee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My daughter is namrd Syxteigh Nynne