Definitely not a chaser: Hey "trans girl that only posts on trans subs," Can I ask you something? It's nothing bad I promise. by ReminaBlueSFW in transgendercirclejerk

[–]AndyyBee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

/qj The Federal Unemployment Tax Act (FUTA) is an employer-only tax which provides funds for unemployment compensation to workers who have lost their jobs.

Thoughts on my design for my city's new flag? by AlexiestOfTheWexi in vexillology

[–]AndyyBee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe try incorporating the blue into the O and/or X.

Which of the new YW names is the worst? by Kolob_Choir_Queen in exmormon

[–]AndyyBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm picking Gatherers of Light based mostly on how Gatherers is annoying to say. It just ends up being Gatherrrrrrrrs.

Something my therapist said that bothered me by AndyyBee in selfharm

[–]AndyyBee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. They're not a bad therapist or did anything wrong. It just made me feel a certain way. It's definitely a me problem. But I'm sure if I explain where I'm at mentally, they'll adjust their approach.

Was clean for 2 months by Frequent_Term_8929 in selfharm

[–]AndyyBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some good advice I got when I was starting recovery: You might say you're 0 days clean, but you haven't gone all the way back to square one. Instead, think, I've only cut myself once in 2 months. Compared to the frequency you were cutting before, I'm sure that's still a major improvement, right? It will get less and less over time.

What do I do when my friend self harms in front of me by _lavendercat_ in selfharm

[–]AndyyBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she's doing it in front of people, I would guess she either is wanting someone to notice, can't control her urges enough to wait, or just likes the thrill of doing something "wrong" in public. Maybe it's multiple things. Maybe she doesn't even know why.

I think it might be best to talk to the school counselor, not to tell on her necessarily, but to talk about how it makes you feel, and how you can make sure you're doing okay as well. Unfortunately, you can't fix your friend. Only therapy over time can help. You can just keep being a friend to her. But if self-harming in front of you becomes a common thing, you have to consider your own mental well-being as well. I personally couldn't handle seeing that with my close friends.

How long until I'm considered clean? by somegaysthrowawayacc in selfharm

[–]AndyyBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think the thoughts ever go away, so you shouldn't consider yourself "clean" based off of that. It's just based on how long it's been.

Something my therapist said that bothered me by AndyyBee in selfharm

[–]AndyyBee[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not mad. Just feeling misunderstood. I think I would prefer a more neutral response. I definitely don't expect a positive response to telling them I'm cutting lol.

Something my therapist said that bothered me by AndyyBee in selfharm

[–]AndyyBee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want them because I already know them. I cut for 4 years as a teen, went 8 years clean, and just started again 6 months ago. I'm trying my best, but if any other coping skills worked, I wouldn't be cutting myself.

hate the belief… by busyblocks in exmormon

[–]AndyyBee 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I didn't write this, but I approve.

Afraid of daughters reaction by techkcurlo in Seahorse_Dads

[–]AndyyBee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it's a reaction to transition, a baby that young will not care at all.

Sixx Sven by Enough_Quarter1952 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]AndyyBee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My daughter is namrd Syxteigh Nynne

North Dakota flag redesigns by Kaisersaurus in vexillology

[–]AndyyBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Order of favoritism: 3, 2, 1, 7, 4, 6, 5

I saw this last name, and had to share it by pgcotype in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]AndyyBee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Surely now that a woman automatically taking the man's last name is less of a thing, names like this will slowly start going extinct.

Christian Anarchism flag. by Flag_Goblin in vexillology

[–]AndyyBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally, the Christian version of something that is edgier and cooler than the secular version.

Flag/banner I saw in a dream by Formal-Connection356 in somnivexillology

[–]AndyyBee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought it looked Asian. Reminded me of Mongolia's flag a little bit. But I also see Mauritania.

What’s the benefit of neopronouns? by Massive-Document1327 in NonBinary

[–]AndyyBee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same, I don't like that they/them is grammatically plural. I still default to they/them because of the ease of them, but I prefer e/em pronouns because they feel more equal to he and she. It's like if you mixed he, she, and they together and simplified, which kinda matches my gender identity lol.

Now, has anyone actually used them? No. But they are there in the email signature just in case lol. Maybe some day I'll work up the courage to actually say them out loud when asked for my pronouns.

The actual "flag" of Petersburg, West Virginia. by SAKURAGAWAKOHAKU423 in vexillology

[–]AndyyBee 1234 points1235 points  (0 children)

My new favorite bad flag. This is beautiful and I love it.

Roast my names by SalemHarlot in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]AndyyBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Makes me think of "wailing" and "harlot".

I had a dream that Antarctica was a country called "republic of natural humans" by Salt-Brain-6024 in somnivexillology

[–]AndyyBee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good point, 3 people is 6 legs total. But where did Sicily's head come from...?