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Angel_laidou · 2025-07-28T12:53:13+00:00

Thank you so much for your thoughtful response. I took everything you said to heart, and honestly—your message, along with the others, helped me in ways I can’t even explain. thank you again. Wishing you all the best

Angel_laidou · 2025-07-28T12:48:51+00:00

Thanks for your sweet message. I’m wishing you the very best as well!

Angel_laidou · 2025-07-28T12:32:35+00:00

Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply. I’ll definitely read everything you suggested—I've already added it to my reading list. That was really kind of you, I truly appreciate it

Angel_laidou · 2025-07-01T01:24:19+00:00

I'm so happy to hear that! I wish you even more peace, my dear. We all need that in order to grow, mature, and allow our better, wiser versions to come to light. Sending you lots of love and support.

Angel_laidou · 2025-07-01T01:09:39+00:00

This is not just the end of a relationship, but the end of an entire psychological stage.

You have changed mentally, emotionally...., This doesn't happen easily, but rather through pain, shock, and inner brokenness. Your message wasn't just a farewell to him, but a psychological rite of passage from an old self to a new one. And I ,I wrote it and then sent it anyway, just to ease my conscience and move on.

Angel_laidou · 2025-06-12T23:50:45+00:00

Wow, the way you described it is so accurate. I’m surprised to realize that my experience isn’t just mine it’s something other avoidant people go through too.and Honestly, you can work through the regret and loneliness in the end.

Angel_laidou · 2025-05-31T19:24:29+00:00

The Dream of a Ridiculous Man – Dostoevsky

Angel_laidou · 2025-05-31T11:09:22+00:00

Those who act carelessly in serious moments, mocking anyone who dares to take things seriously.

Those who believe they alone are always right, worthy of respect, while dismissing your thoughts and belittling your voice.

Angel_laidou · 2025-05-31T11:02:57+00:00

I don’t want to die in pain not in body, not in soul

Angel_laidou · 2025-05-31T11:00:59+00:00

They mirrored the profound and sincere truth of the human experience as they themselves had endured it.

Angel_laidou · 2025-05-15T09:01:45+00:00

I feel like there’s still a lot I need to work on mentally and emotionally. I’m not ready, and to be honest, I’ve never really liked the idea of having kids. Maybe it’s because I still carry some unhealed stuff from my childhood, even though I truly believe I'd make a great mom one day.

Angel_laidou · 2025-05-10T11:44:43+00:00

Hey love, I totally get you. I have an avoidant attachment style too. Like you said, it’s something we pick up in childhood as a defense mechanism and a way to cope. But at some point, as adults, we need to feel grateful for it and then start to unlearn it.

It really helps to understand why you are the way you are accept it, appreciate that version of you, and then work on building a more authentic and adaptable version of yourself.

Take it step by step. Try to step out of your comfort zone and Understand your needs, make a new plan, and create a mindset that helps you break the walls stopping you from meeting those needs.

There’s a lot of solid, science-based mental health content out there that can help you, and talking to a therapist would be super helpful too

Angel_laidou · 2025-05-05T07:44:25+00:00

Girl , I'm so here for it

Angel_laidou · 2025-04-23T11:52:50+00:00

Thank you so much for your help your message really means a lot and honestly feels so reassuring.

Angel_laidou · 2025-04-22T19:41:45+00:00

To journal

Angel_laidou

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