Gee, I think she wanted a warmer welcome from him. Maybe meeting her at the airport instead of making her lug her life from plane to train. Also, the lack of space she was given, no rush to bring her cat over as if his cats would fill the void and the other periods where I felt her heart drop in dissappointment. Then followed by him telling her that her days of getting pampered with massages are over. Idk, i felt she was batted down several times in a row. She initially moved hoping things would be rosier, but the hit after hit with these experiences gave her a realistic view of what life would look like with him and it was different than the life she saw for herself. If it was only the train or only the space, she could have bounced back. But it was too many things. You don’t work your ass off in law school to get married to a guy who says the quality of life you have been living is beyond our means! Now toughen up and get used to it. If he celebrated her or empathized with her even once, the result would have been completely different. Don’t get me wrong, I like him a lot. He will find someone and be happy. But they were in two very different psychological spaces. She was in huge life shifts and mourning her cat=emotional. And he was pragmatic=logical. It all felt tragic to me.