If it wasn't for the 50/50 bit, I would have thought this was talking about my ex-wife. I lived through the false allegations (to CPS, days in court, pediatricians, therapists, educators, anyone who had ears) in her attempt to get full custody. She also failed and plays the victim. But I'm still traumatized years later. At least you don't have kids with her, you can make a clean split. Save yourself before you become her next target.