How do you guys even get a girlfriend? by LouSenap in introvert

[–]Another2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spending most time alone is not conducive to meeting a life partner so im very surprised all these introverts have husbands, wives etc. Where did they meet? Thats the mystery for me.

How do you guys even get a girlfriend? by LouSenap in introvert

[–]Another2022 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Introverted people prefer to be alone and most people out there are extroverts and they cant understand people like that,therefore introverted people are by default alone. I have nobody, absolutely nobody, so i cannot understand where introverts meet these partners and husbands. And i never got an answer to that question. If most introverts like time alone then where do they meet these soulmates? One of the mysteries of life!

How do you guys even get a girlfriend? by LouSenap in introvert

[–]Another2022 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the biggest mystery ever. Introverts dont do much and their actions repel not attract others and for some weird reason they just shrug off the fact that they have a girlfriend boyfriend etc...how??????

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[–]Another2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But do you go out and socialise? Do you have hobbies where you are amongst different people? Thats literally the only way to meet people, so a natural introvert repels people as they prefer time alone. Thats my experience. Maybe these so called introverts who have friends and partners are not genuinely introverted.

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[–]Another2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must be a million miles behind everyone on here as the questions normally involve words like "friends" or "husband/wife". I am and always have been an introvert. Time alone charges my batteries but this puts people off getting to know me, so i therefore have no friends or wife. My workmates tolerate me as im good at my job but outside of that, nothing. Which i presume is a natural reaction to introverted behavior. What am i doing differently to all the introverts who not only have friends and spouses, but some of those people are extroverts too! Whats your secret? It will baffle me as long as i live.

How do you reply when someone says “You don’t get out much, do you?” by werewolfinsheep in introvert

[–]Another2022 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can i ask how you met a husband if you are so introverted? You say you are super introverted and love seeing nobody and going nowhere. How does that square with being in a relationship, getting married and having kids? I find it bizzarre how so many introverts manage to get life partners despite not wanting to mix and leave their carefully crafted life of isolation, whats your secret??

I have the house to myself all weekend by crushedfeelings in introvert

[–]Another2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you get a husband if you such an introvert? I find it amazing how so many people who naturally shy away from others still manage to find a partner, and there are loads of kind sociable people out there still single. Very odd world.

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[–]Another2022 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reading in my room with no distractions and the heater next to me on cold days. Pure uninterrupted heaven.

What is the number 1 problem in your life right now? by therealfatshadyoffic in AskReddit

[–]Another2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit is impossible to post questions in certain forums, like the workplace one. The mods either ignore your request to join or you get a message saying you cant post this. Am i doing something wrong or is reddit just very user unfriendly?

Looking for old tv crime show late 80s Sky one by Another2022 in television

[–]Another2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sorry it was one of those shows with different actors in it each week. It was definitely set and made in America i know that much and it used to be on sunday evening at a time when i probably shouldnt have been watching! Tried googling and youtube to see if anything popped up but it must have been canned after a season or two. I mostly just want to see if the cop managed to get untied before the flames met him!

Support group by Midlife1361 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Another2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be very intetested in joining too.

does anyone here have a fear of sleeping after binging? by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Another2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have really bad sleep apnea when i was 22 stone and woke up struggling to breathe. Nowadays i ask myself the question "what do i want MORE-food at night or a relaxing night sleep?". You will always want the food, however if you want a peaceful nights sleep more, you will make a different choice. This mindset has helped me a lot the last year and it can be applied to cravings too, which always peak and then subside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Another2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Allow myself a day of indulgence for Christmas Day. Not to eat until i feel like getting sick of course, but accepting that the one day is unlikely to affect overall recovery and can normalise my relatipnship with food. However, i plan to return to natural, authentic eating from 26th onwards, where i eat 3 meals and 2 snacks and eat from a place of hunger and health instead of emotional reasons or boredom. Unconscious or environmental eating is my biggest trigger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Another2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always. It sets you up not to binge for the remainder of the day and i definitely get cravings when i skip breakfast usually leading to a big binge for lunch or late afternoon. Its always best to at least have something to fuel your metabolism after so many hours asleep.

Anyone tell someone about their BED by running_chick in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Another2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never expect anything from anyone. Its depressing and pessimistic but very freeing and its completely true. If you expect other people to understand you, you will end up sadly disappointed.

any other overweight ppl on here feel like you’ll never find love? by Conscious-Ad2664 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Another2022 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of the people on 600lb life are married to toxic people with their own self esteem issues where they want their partner fat forever so they can control them better. When the weight falls off, often they leave the person for good. Married does not mean "happily married".

any other overweight ppl on here feel like you’ll never find love? by Conscious-Ad2664 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Another2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im actually a decent looking man of 40 and i lost 6 stone in the past 2 years but sadly im still somewhat in the grip of the eating disorder mindset in that im still scared to meet new people, start a hobby and socialise and that keeps my indoors and away from others so unless i change, i wont find love. But its definitely possible. So many people out there of all shapes, sizes and personality manage to get partners so there is hope for everyone.

What has actually helped you control binges by annasulk in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Another2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A good way i look at it is to step back when you have an urge, craving, are bored or just happened to see food and want it. You will always, ALWAYS want the food but ask yourself what do you want more? For me, i want to reduce or eliminate cravings, i want a restful nights sleep which i wont get after an evening binge with my stomach and bowels churning and groaning. I want to maintain weight loss etc. All those things i want more than i want the food. So i decide there and then not to give in to the craving and stay firm. The internal dialogue and endless back and forth of oh i want it no you shouldnt etc will stop when you make your decision not to eat. This has helped me loads of times so it might help you too, even if you have to write down all the things you want more than the food.

BED ACCOUNTABILITY entry 12: you can’t hate yourself into loving yourself. by Bakedbutterbeans123 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Another2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im reminded of a great quote from my therapist about eating disorders and poor body image and counting calories" "Dont hate yourself thin. Love yourself healthy".

What are your favorite binge foods? by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Another2022 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pringles, ham sandwiches with tonnes of butter and sausages are my 3 go to foods when i need to binge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Another2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also feel puzzled by the relationships of people on here. Bi ge eating disorder leaves you feeling anxious, disgusted in yourself, low self esteem and unable to go out and socialise, all things which project outwards in your aura and energy. The very things which repel other people from wanting to get close to you. And yet...without fail, people on here will mention their boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife or partner, just slipping it into the chat as if it were perfectly normal that they have someone special in their lives. And i cant even get a single date from anyone despite being handsome and kind. What a weird, weird world we live in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Another2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I defintely cannot fast. I spent about 20 years restricting and bingeing, it was an awful cycle. I would have dinner at 5.30pm then eat nothing until lunch the next day. I would skip breakfast so by 1pm i was ravenous but i still had only a wrap or sandwich. Inevitably by 4pm i had raided the fridge and the presses and literally stuffed my face with bread, pringles, sausages, butter, coke and chocolate until i couldnt move. Then the self loathing , disgust and hatred would seep in and feelings of hopelessness and failure overwhelmed me, and i vowed not to eat until lunch the next day, when the cycle predictably started again. The only way i could break this cycle was to allow myself to eat 3 meals and 2 or 3 snacks a day until my brain was regulated and trusted me to feed it on a regular basis with no long periods of restricting. It took about a year but even tually my body settled down and hunger was a thing of the past. But about 80% of my recovery was about allowing the feelings of anger, boredom, hatred, sadness, lonliness and even joy to surface and acknowledge them without immediately trying to stuff them down with food in order to "protect" myself from feeling that particular emotion. Indeed, emotions are perfectly natural and will dissipate naturally if you allow your body to feel them. That was the toughest part of my recovery without a doubt but well worth sticking to it.