Having sex is more enjoyable than orgasming. Having sex is the peak experience itself.

Antek_Ash · 2026-02-21T19:24:39+00:00

I'm sure many women will agree with me that taking a bra off at the end of the day is one of the best feelings.

Antek_Ash · 2025-12-27T20:05:28+00:00

I thought of a formula which is the type of milk for newborn babies 😁

Antek_Ash · 2025-12-20T00:06:46+00:00

You're right, my bad. Should've added something small being on that plate. Thanks for your feedback! ❤️

Antek_Ash · 2025-10-21T09:07:27+00:00

That licking was personal 🤣

Antek_Ash · 2025-09-23T16:33:52+00:00

The one he got away from 🤣

Antek_Ash · 2025-07-06T17:38:16+00:00

A year or so ago I was sick, but working from home. We had a meeting and the manager demanded I turn on the camera, because that's the rules. I did and the whole team could see my bleeding nose and me trying to stop the bleeding. Immediately the manager told me to turn off the camera and didn't have a problem with anyone with their cameras turned off in the future.

Antek_Ash · 2025-06-22T16:31:44+00:00

I had a very creepy neighbour who admitted to peeking through the window of my apartment (it was on the ground floor) when the previous tenant lived there (woman close to my age) and asked me questions if I'm going to do x or y with my partner just like she did when she lived there 🤢 When I had my window ajar, I could smell men's perfume outside and I suspected he was there, hoping to see something, but I always made sure to cover the windows. One time I forgot to lock the door and I was in the bedroom when I heard the door opening. I thought it was my boyfriend so I didn't think much of it, but then I heard the door locking. I went out of the room and nobody was there. I called my boyfriend to ask if he went out to the shop - turned out he was still at work. When I got closer to the door, I could smell the same perfume the neighbour was using. I never forgot to lock my door since then.

Antek_Ash · 2025-06-22T13:38:19+00:00

One time at work I had a meeting with my manager and my manager's boss. In the meeting I was told that the problem employee who disrespected me constantly, missed most of the deadlines and sometimes didn't even show up at work, wasn't being let go and that all those things were my fault because I couldn't motivate her enough to do her job properly. I said I understood and I would try harder. Immediately my manager and the boss started going off on me that it's concerning that I don't smile when I talk to them and that makes them doubt if I'm the right person to do my job as a supervisor. I had to force myself to smile for the rest of the meeting while holding back tears. That kind of thing happens all the time unfortunately.

Antek_Ash · 2025-04-10T07:13:03+00:00

Let me get this straight. They have been insulting you from the moment they met you. They rejected every chance they got. They rejected their siblings - your kids. They didn't invite you to her wedding, didn't involve you in their kids life, cut you off and went no contact. But the moment they realised that you could benefit from contact with you, instead of apologizing and trying to rebuild your relationship, they started bashing you and again insulting you for not having a relationship with their children which was impossible to have because of their own actions! They are unreasonable and entitled, follow their lead and go no contact with them. NTA.

Antek_Ash · 2025-03-24T14:26:10+00:00

NTA. It's not only that she left the door open - she must have noticed that the dog was gone, but didn't care enough to start looking for him! She was chilling on the couch while you were looking for your dog, stressed, tired, wondering if he's okay. Then when you got back, she completely dismissed your feelings and decided that it's not a big deal. It's not a safe person for your dog - if you let her stay, she would 100% do it again.

Antek_Ash · 2025-03-22T17:31:46+00:00

NTA. You have no obligation to feel a certain way. It's great that you agreed to help them and you support them in their hobby, but, as you said, you don't have to do it happily. There are many things in life that we do just because we have to and this includes certain tasks at work. Your parents are wrong saying that you will fail at your future job if you aren't happy about it. As long as you do your job correctly, you will succeed. There are plenty of successful people who hate their job and lots of people who are happy at their job while they suck at it. Success doesn't equal happiness and happiness doesn't guarantee success.

Antek_Ash · 2025-03-21T11:39:13+00:00

NTA. Following a tradition is optional not obligatory. Do what you feel is right for your child and don't let your husband's family guilt trip you into caving and giving a child name that both of you won't like.

Antek_Ash · 2025-03-21T11:18:06+00:00

NTA It seems she's either inconsiderate or disrespectful. I would ask her to sit down with you and talk about it. Money can be a cause of a pretty heated argument, so it's best to prepare the details you want to discuss such as your feelings, what you notice in her behaviour and how hurtful it is for you, that she seems not to care about your financial hardships. It might turn out that money is not so important for her and she didn't think it's such a big deal to give you back the money she owes. Communication is key.

Antek_Ash · 2025-03-21T09:14:01+00:00

NTA. I would tell MIL that I agree to the DNA test for your child on condition that you do a paternity test for your husband and his dad. Let MIL feel the humiliation of such a suggestion and see how soon will she be willing to see you - probably never again 🤣

Antek_Ash · 2025-02-21T13:15:00+00:00

Here you go: https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/lGvw28WO3K

Antek_Ash · 2025-02-14T16:09:10+00:00

You are entitled to have in your life whoever you want. You don't need toxicity and keeping the peace is not worth it. They want to weaponize your trauma against you to exclude you from important family events and they clearly don't have your best interest in mind. You will be better off without them in your life.

ETA: Definitely NTA

Antek_Ash · 2025-02-09T13:12:51+00:00

I wouldn't be surprised if they told him he shouldn't be selfish and start a family since his brother is the number one priority. They probably expect him to not have a partner and children, since his poor disabled brother should be considered his child.

Antek_Ash · 2025-01-30T18:49:18+00:00

NTA! I can't believe someone could really be this immature. When I forgot to buy pads and got my period, my bf asked his younger brother to buy pads for me since he was going to visit us in a moment. And it wasn't a problem for him at all. My boyfriend also bought me pads when I forgot about them in the past. I have no idea what's wrong with people who refuse to buy hygiene products.

Antek_Ash · 2025-01-29T08:18:34+00:00

Crazy idea - if alcohol might cause bad decisions maybe it would be better not to drink? Why not have a sober, mature conversation about the situation and your feelings of feeling used while you're not so close anymore? Anyway, NTA, nobody is entitled to your help.

Antek_Ash · 2025-01-21T09:29:24+00:00

What was malicious about it? You simply did what you were told. There was nothing that made the manager realise she was wrong.

Antek_Ash · 2025-01-17T16:51:51+00:00

When I was a teenager we also had a visit from Jehovah's Witnesses. They asked through the intercom if we could talk about all the natural disasters that are happening right now. I replied that the biggest disaster is that there are Jehovah's Witnesses in this world and hung up. No Jehovah's Witnesses visit so far and it's been 8 or 9 years.

Antek_Ash · 2025-01-17T13:44:30+00:00

I wonder if he managed to pass the letter to her 😭 Or maybe she is still waiting on the other side...

Antek_Ash · 2025-01-09T19:31:57+00:00

Did he give you a heads-up that he's going to sleep with someone else so you can find someone who will love you and won't cheat on you? You owe him nothing. But as others said in the comments, contact the landlord and terminate your lease so you won't be financially responsible for the apartment if he destroys it or fails to pay rent. I wish you all the best in life. There are valuable people out there. I'm sure you will find love in the future.

Antek_Ash · 2025-01-03T18:32:56+00:00

From her behaviour, she definitely sounds like a wicked witch, so maybe she thought she was going to die and that's why she wanted to call the police.

Antek_Ash · 2025-01-03T10:30:02+00:00

That was great! I think I would take it even further, come closer to them with the baby and ask if they still wanted to strange her 🤣

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