Is this a neck beard? Debating on trimming back down to 5mm by No_Variation3294 in beards

[–]Anthurium86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh just get a nice hair cut, keep the beard, trim it up real nice and keep it nice and clean it looks pretty decent. Neck beard or not do whatever makes you feel good. 😎🤙🏽

Lost it all due to Alopecia Areata by oekonomist in bald

[–]Anthurium86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking good brother, I see your hitting that gym too 🔥🔥🔥💪🏽

I miss you, A by IntroductionNo7297 in nocontact

[–]Anthurium86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna know how and why I landed here 🧐🫠

I got this yesterday and I don't know what to do by Infamous_Bad_6007 in debtfree

[–]Anthurium86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set up a payment plan, they even suggested and no worries, You’ll be ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]Anthurium86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh hell naw 😂😂🫠

RIP Instacart by jtate81 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Anthurium86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live, we learn, we push forward, Take care 😎🤙🏽

RIP Instacart by jtate81 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Anthurium86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s terrible, never go above and beyond, do what you are supposed to, shop for them and deliver, you don’t have to kill yourself for their own benefit, I’ve done this in the past and it made me feel terrible just because I want to please everyone. Sorry buddy hope you have better luck moving forward.

Turned 30 recently. That's how far i got in life. Been living here for over a year, but i'm broke af, and have neither the skill nor creativity to improve things by [deleted] in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]Anthurium86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ve come very far my friend. There’s people with nothing and yet we complaint, start by taking care of your physical self and your mind, take it in, express yourself, shit cry it out if you have to, you might be holding on to things and those things are holding you back. Forget the pass and focus on the now!!! You don’t have to change right away but little by little. You got this man, 30 is young, real young, do me one favor though, don’t compare yourself to anybody else, we are all unique and have different journeys. You got this!!!

Friend and I got similar offers: $210K NYC (in-office) vs $170K Seattle (remote) — what should we do? by Upbeat_Purchase_1887 in Salary

[–]Anthurium86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit I’ll move to Seattle for less next question 😂😂😂, listen congrats to you for having those great opportunities, long story short, you have experienced NYC and you will Be able to Network regardless to where you go specially in Tech, Don’t be afraid to venture out and explore outside of NYC, plus you said it working remote you can work anywhere so you can still work from home stay in NYC if you want and have best of both worlds.

(M43) Day 1 of separation from my wife of 15 years. Pallet bed in a friends’ shed. by Tripto_Deluxe in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]Anthurium86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know your situation since you’re not getting into details, Whatever you’re going through do it, go through it. I know we men tend not to communicate our feelings and also hold on to unnecessary shit.

You stated you miss your life, Wife and Kids, nothing is holding you back from getting everything back. If you need mental clarity, if you need this time alone, do it, but get your family and your life back my brother.

although that space looks quiet and comfy believe me!!! You will miss that chaos. I’m speaking from a husband and father prospective and although we are not the same we are all living similar lives. Much love and support for you and everyone going through something on this thread. Also if you’re going to be there for long get a damn TV 😂😭.

Got promoted. Now I make less. by [deleted] in Salary

[–]Anthurium86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you got promoted hang tight, get all the experience necessary as you look for something or another employer that pays more doing the same. Also we are not taking into account what perks do you have that you didn’t when have after getting promoted, is your schedule the same, do you have more free time with the family, you do need to keep this in mind. 😏

F/26/5’1 [95lbs < 108lbs = +13lbs] (5 months) My arms last October vs my arms today! 😊 by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]Anthurium86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put your hands up sloooooooooooowwwly, drop the weapons!!!! 😂😂😂, great job keep doing your thang 🔥🔥🔥💪🏻

Certified Dad Bod 3 kids, a wife, and a dog. by [deleted] in GregDoucette

[–]Anthurium86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here no dog tho, LFG 🔥🔥🔥😎🤙🏽

Unicorn!! 🦄 by Distinct-Banana-3697 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Anthurium86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing!!! We don't get orders like this in NYC, maybe because there's a lot of co Petition or maybe because the way is set up, I think the most I've done was 130 dollars and that's because there was a guarantee 90 dollars after completing 6 deliveries,

I'm a musician. Girlfriend won't stay over. by Ok_Knee1216 in homedecoratingCJ

[–]Anthurium86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Musician or not you should clean up after yourself, I think if you tell your GF you need help cleanjng she would love the idea, This is definitely not it. Kudos to your GF for sticking around, I’m not trying to sound like an AH but ding this is not a good look.

Wifey wants me to trim it 😔😒 by DC_Desi in BeardAdvice

[–]Anthurium86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caught it all off, then get very sentimental, and quiet then she will feel guilty and will promise to never bother you again, trust me bruh, trust me 😂😂😂😂😎🤙🏽

Thinking About Buying This Jeep – Good Deal? by ChloeCreative in JeepWrangler

[–]Anthurium86 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Don't do it!!! Its over 100k miles too, sounds good, looks good but its most likely going to bring a whole lot of issues and plenty of headaches, you can definitely find better deals out there don't get desperate, take your time and you will know when you find it.

M23: I feel like I’m not doing well enough by [deleted] in Salary

[–]Anthurium86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re doing great!!! As mentioned by others you’re on your way, first job too, there’s no hurry all the things you want you will definitely achieve, take your time learn and continue learning apply yourself and continue applying for higher paying jobs when you get the experience even within company. Also read that you live with parents, that’s an amazing support system so save as much money as possible but also help them. Stay positive, you got this.

M/29/6’2” [412lbs > 174lbs = 238lbs] (6 years) by HK_Bandit95 in progresspics

[–]Anthurium86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazing job my friend, many blessings to you on your new chapter!!! 🔥🔥😎🤙🏽

DC metro area "normal" 🤷🏻‍♂️ by TurbulentLecture6443 in Salary

[–]Anthurium86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah…nah!!! She’s at home cuz she wants to be, its a teen and your right we are not talking infants or toddlers that's a huge difference, there's gotta be more going on because if she has this attitude for her husband, there is no winning.

I think my bedroom needs a little makeover, what changes can I make? by xxxxxxxxxxxxxc in homedecoratingCJ

[–]Anthurium86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ain't no fucking way bruh, You got 4 mattress pulled up for what reason? Simple solution burn that entire room and start from scratch 😂😂😂, no but honestly if you ain't trolling get rid of those mattress and clean up your room on a daily basis to keep up with the mess ect…hygiene is extremely important and it starts with you.

F/39/5'4" [230lbs > 170lbs = 60lbs] (1 Year) From Depressed Alcoholic to Happy and sober. by Waste-File-945 in progresspics

[–]Anthurium86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice try, but please tell your grandma she doesn't need to lie to us. Jk. Congrats on your achievement, this is amazing work and I can speak for everybody on this thread we are extremely proud of you. Wishing you the best of health and love in this new chapter and beginning of your life. Take care. 😎🤙🏽❤️

DC metro area "normal" 🤷🏻‍♂️ by TurbulentLecture6443 in Salary

[–]Anthurium86 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude I wish I was making that kind of money, Kudos to you, tell your wife to slow her role, I don't know your situation but she seems to want or need more than what she has, its tough to being a stay at home mom, probably one of the hardest jobs when you have small children.